Scorpio/leo doesnt like anymore but refuse to brea

Sorry if this questions sounds abit stupid but i really do need some wisdom advice/ analysis from anyone willing to help me out.

I do not understand why do scorpio/leo not willing to just let me off when he can claim he doesnt have that kinda of feeling for me anymore. He just want me to repay by making the feelings back for him since it was my clingyness that make him lost interests and all love for me.

Of course it does sounds ridiculous for me. Just because i do miss my bf like any gal would, he have to regard me as a burden in his goal-orientated life now. He used to be a very good scorpio/leo bf.

Now he only wants to persue his studies and career thus telling me no way we will be like last time and now way he gona take nor accept any emotional problems from me, in a way ProblemLESS relationship (again what a ridiculous statement again).

I had a talk with friend and regain my consciousness, i am all willing to contribute and change for a guy for the better, BUT not understand circumstances where he isnt serious in and about me and throw everything for me to make him gets the feelings back for him again. He even said that whether he will gets back the feelings will be how i change my emotional problems and depends on fate.

Of course i do not want to be an idiot doormat cos i have went through enough of all his mind games, pride, egolistic, selfish act. I tried messaging and talking to him few times that i would only want to have a relationship when he cant be serious WITH and ABOUT me, but he doesnt seems to get it ya?

WHY? I just do not understand why, please someone please tell me whats going on?
Since he says he have totally no feelings for me anyone why still want me be a doormat and wait for fate?

Why cant just let me off?

Btw he is a scorp sun and leo moon.
I am aqua sun and cancer moon.