Sex with leo guy..What do you think??

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I went out with a Leo guy last night. We had fun and everything went well. He's totally opposite of the guy I was dating last, an Aqua. Today, we were texting each other and he did actually say he wanted to have sex with me. What does that supposed to mean? Is he only after sex .I haven't dated a Leo before so I have no idea how their minds work. Do they have sex with a girl they like right away? Do they loose interest after you had sex with them? Honestly, I've done that mistake before and had sex with an Aqua, 3 months later Aqua decided not to see me anymore. So now Im careful not to have sex with any guys too soon. But I know Leo loves sex.So should I have sex with him?? Also Do Leos like attention? Do they like when girls call them? When I was with Aqua I was giving him lots of space, contacts were mostly initiated by him. So now, I kinda get used to it, Leo usually initiates contacts. I figure maybe he would think Im not interested. Im A Scorp-Sag cusp, with venus in Scorp, mars in leo and moon in aries. Leo has venus in Cancer,Mars in Libra and moon in cancer. Thanks very much.
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Well the conversation took us to the topic about sex when we were planning on seeing each other again. He mentioned that we will just order food and will spend time at his place. We are very comfortable talking to each other so I said to him its alright but I wont have sex with him. Then he asked me why not? I told him I dont think we should be having sex this soon. He said we are both adults and aware of the things we do.Then he mentioned about wanting to do it with me. But he said its cool if I don't want to, well still hang out anyways and wont have sex. What do you guys think, would a Leo guy fall faster if a girl would have sex with him? Just curious. Thanks again!




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Sex! It doesn't matter when you have sex with a guy, if he likes you he will continue to like you (even more because you had sex with him!).

Some guys will use you, and if you have sex too early with them they will use you. Some guys will have sex with and like you for about 3 months and stop liking you. Not because you had sex with him, just because he stopped liking you!! It's really not that complicated.

You are basing your decision to have sex with him on how HE will react. What about YOU!?

What do you YOU want? Are YOU ready for that? Think more about yourself and less about him, this is YOUR body we're talking about
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How old are you? Listen he's not going to fall in love with you if you do what he wants to do, your going to be dumped and if he doesn't dump you then he will ignore you and force you to make a decision. Let him chase you, that's were leo men run hot hot hot, just throw him a possibility, keep him feeling he can and can't have it and the longer you stay in that hot and cold position the longer you will keep his attention. Leo men fall hard in love and fall even harder out of love.

If you enjoy his time and company, ENJOY IT, it's delicious but don't do anything until you feel you have NO expectations, meaning if you have sex be prepared for the relationship to halt, to stand still because he will eventually lose that hot heat and begin to roam for another to conquer, make him INVEST in the relationshp by spending time with you, getting to know you so he can bond himself to you and attach to you, he will still run a bit warm but not cold, meaning he will not be so willing to let you go if he's invested himself
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Today, we were texting each other and he did actually say he wanted to have sex with me. What does that supposed to mean? Is he only after sex?

Not only after sex, he's after YOU and some leo's feel sex is the quickest way to dominate and control a woman....your getting an invitation into the lion's den with the rest of his harem


Do they have sex with a girl they like right away? Do they loose interest after you had sex with them?

Yes he will have sex right away, depending on the woman he may or may not lose interest, she has to know how to wear her Queen Goddess crown, if she acts like a desperate loser he will treat you like that, if you act like your in control of yourself, you love yourself and will not settle then he will most likely treat you like the Goddess you are, it all depends on the woman and how she feels about herself when she's around him


So should I have sex with him?? Do what you feel comfortable doing, he's not going to be upset if you don't have sex with him, do what feels right to you

Also Do Leos like attention? Yes the men love it, they love admiration, adoration, attention, love, making love it goes on and on

Do they like when girls call them? He won't be mad at you if you do but just make sure you don't call more than him, let him feel like he's chasing his food, chasing his prey, but occassional call never hurt, I never call and still get a call *shrugs*


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Sleeping with him early is not a guaranty that he will leave you and waiting is not a guaranty that he will stay. If I suggest that a woman waits a bit before getting physical with a man. It's just to assure that they are other references between you two and unless you had a heated political debate, while taking a twelve hour walk in the park, in which you visited key moments of your lives holding hands and connected emotionally and spiritually all on your first meetings. There is a bigger chance that your body would be the only reference he has, getting physical this early in the relationship. No one can truly predict the outcome of any relationship but you want to make sure that you got the best of that relationship when you leave. You should grow other interest between you two. If it doesn't work out, he'll be missing more than just your flesh. A body alone, by itself is easily replaceable. A body along with a mental and spiritual connection, is irreplaceable. Just make sure there are more references between you two.
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Thank you everybody who replied.

Scorpsting, Im a Scorp-Sag cusp.

Leo guy and I talked about it and we agreed not to have sex and to get to know each other first. I asked him if hes still interested to spend time with me with no sex involved, he said yes. He also offered that I can spend the night at his place and no sex will happen.

After our first date he asked me when are we gonna see each other again, my response was Im not sure cause I have a really busy sched, which is true that time I was really busy with work (this was before all the sex conversation).But he hasnt asked me again. Also, is it normal for Leos to send pic of them naked LOL!. Cause he did to me. I didnt think he would do it, I thought he was just joking hahaha. Anyway, I have his naked pic he said noone else has that pic just me (not sure about that LOL).
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I don't get the whole argument about waiting before having sex to see if he's intrested in you. Well if you have sex with him you'll know, if you don't chances are you are going to spend a lot of "quality time" with him for nothing. A guy will always wait for sex. Of course you shouldn't have sex if you don't feel like it, but if there's attraction I don't see why you shouldn't. He's either a prince or a prick, it's for him to know and for you to find out.

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I've never called a girl "cheap slut" or "whore" in my entire life, so that really says more about you than it does about me. I don't have that world view. Truth is it's usually girls who are judgemental and call eachother these names because of low self-esteem.

Yes, knowing a person "before you meet her vagina" is nice, but personally I find it as intriguing to meet the vagina first and then get to know the personality attached to it.
Oh and I don't believe in marriage before sex, I guess that makes me Satan.
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There is no such thing as bad sex, you're either into sex or you're not. The rest will take care of itself in time. I don't know what crowd you've been hanging with, but it seems to me they are pretty young and imature. Last time I heard someone call someone a wh0re IRL must have been in elementary school or something. May I suggest a change of environment? It'll give you a whole new outlook on things.

And there is a difference between being "available" because you want attention, and being available because you're a very sexual person. One is being victim of your own self-image, and the other is someone who knows what she wants and doesen't make any excuses for it. Guess which one is which.


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I'm speechless. I really wonder what kind of people you're hanging out with. Of course there are men calling women wh0res and stuff, but thats not my crowd and that's why I haven't heard the word for a long, long time. I'm with people who seem to understand that there is more to women and relationships than "wh0re or not wh0re". I have friends who would give it away on the first date if that would feel right to them, but they are not cheap or whatever you call it. They just know what they want and they take it. What I really hate are women who have it as a principle not to sleep with anyone on their first date, they are the ones calling other women "wh0res" in the first place! If there's something I can't stand it's principles. That's for people who are afraid of what other people will think, only they seem to have it confused with self-respect.

Regarding good sex vs bad sex, nobody is born a good lover. Not even Casanova. But if you take intrest in sex and your partners needs you are going to develope some skills. Bad sex is selfish sex. That's the only kind of bad sex I know of. I don't judge people for their skills in bed. My ex was unexperienced and we had sex on our first date. She certainly was NOT a wh0re. She developed the skills, and we had a lot of fun toegether during that time. In and outside of the bed. Personally I feel that perfection is boring. Takes the fun out of it.


And yes, that's why I'm just SOOOOOO good, baby

(just kidding, that's for me to know and for you to find out)