Should I ?

This topic was created in the Leo forum by Stars on Wednesday, November 18, 2015 and has 4 replies.

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@Stars
11 Years

Should I not text my Leo male bestfriend unless he texts me first is this a smart move ? Cause he never texts me first so should I ? . Will he text me ? If I don't text him first and wait for him to do it ? Since I always text him first will he text me first this time or will it not workout ? How do I get him to text me first .
I haven't texted him today

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@fairytale
10 Years

I haven't texted the Leo I liked for 2 weeks(because I always initiated) and by the time I was ready to be over him, he sends me a text. Whooperdarndoo! Probably just keep yourself busy and see what happens. Good things come unexpected.

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@christinelovessnickers
13 Years1,000+ Posts

I can go a week or so without chatting with my best friends. Usually just busy. I may think about them and think about getting ahold of them sooner, but it doesn't always happen.

Don't be upset if that happens to you.

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@awkwardleo
10 Years

ok, I'll let you in on a leo secret.....we've got a bit of pride issue. Hahahah, a bit would be an understatement. As a leo, my ego and pride would not allow me to text the person I like first, because I want to believe that they like me as much I as I like them. Does that make sense? So, if I text them first, I'll seem needy, and of course as humans, we are scared of rejection, and there is a chance that they wouldn't text back, and if they don't text back, our ego would be hurt. It's really stupid, I know, but we really can't help it sometimes, even if not texting them is killing us, we will try our hardest not to text them, so that they can show interest first and it'd make us feel like we are on a "pedestal". but when we really, really like someone, our feelings would win, we'd put on egos on the side and finally text you, but that is only IF we rally really really like you.

who texted last?

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@Stars
11 Years

Posted by awkwardleo
ok, I'll let you in on a leo secret.....we've got a bit of pride issue. Hahahah, a bit would be an understatement. As a leo, my ego and pride would not allow me to text the person I like first, because I want to believe that they like me as much I as I like them. Does that make sense? So, if I text them first, I'll seem needy, and of course as humans, we are scared of rejection, and there is a chance that they wouldn't text back, and if they don't text back, our ego would be hurt. It's really stupid, I know, but we really can't help it sometimes, even if not texting them is killing us, we will try our hardest not to text them, so that they can show interest first and it'd make us feel like we are on a "pedestal". but when we really, really like someone, our feelings would win, we'd put on egos on the side and finally text you, but that is only IF we rally really really like you.

who texted last?

I did just right now but before that it was him