Shut down a new relationship and regret it.

Hi all. Need some insight on this situation.

I met a leo man 3 weeks ago and I immediately felt a strong attraction. I am sagg, we are both 27. I could not stop thinking about this guy and so I initiated contact on facebook very casually. It was reciprocated and we went on 3 fun dates and slept together which was amazing.

Here comes the problem. After this last one I started to feel uncomfortable with his apparent lack of feelings. I am usually the person with the upper hand being worshipped. I made the mistake of getting snippy when he took 6 hours to respond to a text and messaged something like 'do you see this going anywhere or are you just wanting a casual thing?' and he said 'i dont know where its going to go, we barely know each other' and that he doesn't "do" serious relationships.


I said thanks but no thanks, while I don't want to rush into anything at ALL I actually can't continue knowing that his mindset is to avoid relationships altogether. I did express that i was unhappy he didn't make this clear earlier and regretted sleeping with him, he basically said i was acting crazy. I apologized the next day and he said 'it's ok, we're good." and I left it there.

So my question I guess: If I cut off contact and just go about my life and be normal when I run into him (few mutual friends), do you think he will give it another go eventually since he was so attracted to me once he knows that I'm not desperate for him? Or should I assume that the very mention of feelings that early on ruined my chances forever??

Thanks for any advice 🙂))

My opinion: You erred twice. 3rd date sex. Getting emo. So, yes, I feel you need to let it go totally.

If the universe wants ya'll to be together, something will happen. But I think less is deffo more right about now.

Just curious, have you always had this instant gratification issue?

No, it's only been with him and one other person long ago. Attraction like this is rare for me so I got carried away.

word of advise, Leo make sags feel like they are your soulmate and you cant get them out of your head so you go for it even in the back of your head you shouldn't, you feel drawn to them, that the best word I use to describe it, its like they get you, but that's because they are Leos, forget about him and let him be, you are emtionally involved whether you want to believe it or not, and this guy will probably end up crushing you, Sags dont want to be "in" a relatioship but a Leo will make you want to and you'll have no idea why. May ask when is your bday? and his?

1. It was never going to go anywhere you were the aggressor via Facebook. A no for most men a double no for Leo men I don't care what you heard. It's all about the chase.

2. The cucumber can never become a pickle again.

3. Move on. It's a wrap. Learn from the mistake. Try not to repeat it. After 3 dates and a romp you shouldn't be too emotionally invested.

4. He called you crazy. People think we like drama when in fact it's the opposite.

5. When you run into him be polite but keep it moving. Protect your reputation since you have mutual friends. Don't do anything to make him call or treat you like a ho.

6. He will sleep with you again...as an FYI...then you will really start acting crazy because then you would have known better.

You will receive an e-bill from me shortly.😉

Thanks for the opinions. Sound advice. I'll exit stage and if he comes around again hopefully by then the infatuation will have died down and I'll be able to make the right decision at the time.

How annoying, if anyone can best me it's a leo. Maybe I should stick with water signs.