Shy Leo males

This topic was created in the Leo forum by Carlikins on Sunday, December 1, 2013 and has 2 replies.

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@Carlikins
12 YearsTaurus

So I'm very much interested in this Leo guy I met through my best friend's boyfriend (who is also a Leo) over the summer. It was right after a break up and My friend's Leo was trying to match make (they didn't like my ex too much 😆). We hung out once in a group and once on our own, he'll text me good morning almost everyday, but I can't get him to open up much. He seems pretty shy and he is always busy with family (which I don't mind so much because family should come first), but I haven't been able to get him to hang out again... he says he wants to and his "not good at this" (not sure what his really referring to, just assuming he means talking to someone he's interested in?)

Either way, it's driving me crazy and I'm torn between trying to figure out ways to keep his attention and wanting to say fuck it... he sucks at texting lol and his always leaving his phone in the car...

I'm not to fond of having to be the chaser in this, but I feel like he may be worth it...

Should I continue the chase or just let it stay as a platonic friendship?

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@Carlikins
12 YearsTaurus

Understood, I dunno what it is with men and cell phones 😆, I'll just have to accept it...we'll see how it goes cus being able to talk to someone I like is just as important to me as being with them in person and I want both. I guess only time can tell?

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@Carlikins
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Posted by Jynja
I'd say let it go and let him decide.

I think your friend's boyfriend might have told him you were alone and needed cheering up, and he could have thought it was his duty to "help" so he might not be very interested. Or, he's cautious about being a rebound guy.

Not-JAL is right. Except the portion about complimenting him. 😛 It's too soon - I imagine he'll be suspicious if you start going on about how the cut of his jeans is exquisite. lol

That has entered my mind before...and my friends Leo isn't very tactful and I wonder what was really said 😆 lol but yea I'm gunna back off a little bit, see if and when he'll want to change things. won't sweat it if he doesn't.