—U HATE ME OR ELSE WE WOULD PROBABLY.........

......HAVE KIDS BY NOW AND WE WOULDNT BE LIVING WITH OUR PARENTS!—

This was just one of *text* messages I got from my Leo (8/21) neighbor before I deleted his number (he likes texting a lot & always initiated).

***Brief Background***
I moved here in Dec. 2010. He asked me out at first weekend I moved in??_but I rejected him. We have had??_Neither an official date??_Nor a sexual relationship so far. I told him that I consider him as a *brotherly* friend from the beginning, but he wants more than that??_ I have been trying very hard to avoid hurting him since I have to reject him & stop him pursuing me, but nothing really works.

Finally, he burnt the bridge (friendship) between us by trying to get me sexually??_he started with more and more dirty talks, and —U SHOULD COME OVER & GET BUT NAKED CAUSE I WANT YOUR BODY!?? I told him —No way! Leave me alone!?? Thus, I deleted his number from my phone on July 1, and I told him before I did & also asked him to delete mine so that he couldn't bother me anymore.

He got extremely mad??_replied —U R ALL LIES, SO GO BE U!?? Then he stopped texting??_just as I expected. For about 3 months, we hardly see each other (I tried to avoid him)??_so I have been living in peace for a while.

Three days ago, before I went out for shopping at evening, I met him in the yard where my car parking (he was doing laundry). He asked me where I was going, then got in my car without my permission! I said —OK, I can offer you a new car riding for a few minutes.?? (I just bought my new chevy cruze less than one month)

I drove him around, and wanted to drop him home before going to shopping. He refused to go home, and started again —Have you ever been thinking of me?...Give me your number.?? I answered, —No. And you should never ask such stupid question.?? He said, —you are good liar??_that's why I love you??_and I love you from DAY 1 when I saw you. You are amazing & so damn hot??_?? Then, he tried to kiss me & his hand went over on my lap??_I tried to stop him, that almost cost me an accident!

Damn it!!! I thought he had got over me with NO-Contacting for more than 3 months.

Leo male always has much LUST for hot girls? I guess he probably has same lust for other hot girls even if he denied??_ why he always plays such sexual game with me & ignores that I dislike his game—

About kids... Do Leo men really want kids so badly—

What kind of women do they choose to be their wife & kids?? Mother—

For Leos (or all Men), the Best is always the one whom they are Unable to get—

What do you think about this Leo—

Nobody can answer my questions? Or my questions are too hard to be answered?

Never mind...I can live with wondering...

I just have to keep coldly ignoring him & pretend to dislike him...until I move out...

Hopefully, he would understand me someday that I had to do this to help him to get over me...but never want to hurt him in my heart.

I told him...I wish he can find the right girl who can make him happy forever.

Posted by ninjafish
Not a leo thing, just a douchebag thing. I don't blame you for wanting nothing to do with him.

Thank you, ninjafish 🙂

This is the best answer ever!

I am glad to know that it is not a Leo thing...since he destroyed all my positive views of Leo.

Well, as you just mentioned...once...he caught me & *almost* raped me...I had to ask him "Do you really love me— Why are you going to rape me—" Then he stopped right away, and said "I will never hurt you...Don't be scared...if there is any man hurt you this way, I will kill him!" (his dad has a gun)

After that, I have been very careful to avoid him. I only say "hi" to him in public...as same as to other neighbors.

Definitely, I will stay away from him.

Thank you again 🙂

Posted by ninjafish
That's really scary... Truly, be really careful there... I hope your family and friends know about this. Stay away but yeah, I don't know, I hope he doesn't get angry because he can't have you and then just take you for himself or something. I find this concerning, please be really careful.

Yea, I told some of my friends...but my mom just found herself,and then won't let me go out myself...that means I lost part of my freedom (I hate it anyway) 😢

He was surprised that I kept fighting to the end...when he was forcing me...and he was not able to get me naked, then he get naked himself, after I asked him those questions...he put back on his pants and said he would never hurt me.

I made very clear to him that nobody can force me to do what I dislike...if he dare to try again, then I will call 911.

Hope he is not that stupid!

I have been looking for another apartment to move out...I have to give up the best ocean view here.😢