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Understanding a Leo woman. (Ex)
Understanding a Leo Woman's Behavior After a Breakup
A Leo woman may continue to contact an ex after a breakup due to lingering feelings or a desire for reassurance. Her actions often stem from her need for attention and validation. To understand her intentions, observe her consistency and tone. She might be seeking closure or reconciling. Clear communication is essential to clarify feelings and intentions.
Hi xdimplez, mind if you can elaborate? Thanks.
Posted by xdimplez
She wanted to gage your reaction , whether she meant the words or not
Ok. Maybe she wanna gauge. But what's her purpose of doing all these now?
Posted by tiziani
She's sniffing out your weaknesses.
I was gonna say the same thing
Posted by tiziani
She's sniffing out your weaknesses.I was gonna say the same thing
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Hi all, I'm just curious. What's her purpose of sniffing out my weaknesses for her? What's her ultimate aim?
Posted by tiziani
She's sniffing out your weaknesses.I was gonna say the same thing
Hi all, I'm just curious. What's her purpose of sniffing out my weaknesses for her? What's her ultimate aim?
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Manipulation, perhaps?
Read your statement that you just gave about your situation, you'll see why we are saying
Posted by TaurusNikki
Read your statement that you just gave about your situation, you'll see why we are saying
This is the third thread he made about this. I have already advised him not to look into astrology too much since he only knows her sun sign. Oh well.
Posted by TaurusNikki
Read your statement that you just gave about your situation, you'll see why we are sayinglol @ the Taurus zoning in on the money : P
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Oops, lol, my fault, I'm just trying to be fair, it's my libra moon talking
I figure if the OP can see within the statement why we all agree, it might not make the OP mad thinking we are all out to say the negative things
I know with I'm emotional about things, I. Can come up with all kinds of reasons except for the real reason that's staring me in the face
Nothing wrong with sound advice don't you agree @ Tiz 😉
Posted by Juicysbaby214
Think like royalty: Off with his muthafuccn head. You have been dismissed. Trust me on that.
What?
She probably just playing mind games. Obviously OP isn't 'dismissed', if she's is still texting him.
Posted by Juicysbaby214
Think like royalty: Off with his muthafuccn head. You have been dismissed. Trust me on that.What?
She probably just playing mind games. Obviously OP isn't 'dismissed', if she's is still texting him.
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Agree with you
OP trust me, read your statement again, you will see it
Your Leo is playing games with you, be careful, because she sees you as weak
Posted by TaurusNikki
Read your statement that you just gave about your situation, you'll see why we are sayingThis is the third thread he made about this. I have already advised him not to look into astrology too much since he only knows her sun sign. Oh well.
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Hi imprisonment, lol at myself for making the 3rd thread about my situation. As I felt that my first too were too long-winded and some points were rather irrelevant. Thus I made this simpler one. Well actuall as what you had advised me, I don't really look into her astrology now, rather based on her behavior and those basic traits of a leo girl.
Posted by TaurusNikki
Your Leo is playing games with you, be careful, because she sees you as weak
Hi TaurusNikki,
In fact I did played a mind game with her two nights ago and wanted to see her reaction. Situation was such: We were supposed to go for a massage in the night but in the end she told me she's tired. So she asked me if I'm going alone, and I told her that well, if she's not going, I'll ask my friend to go with me. Her reply was instant: "Ok!! Enjoy."
After about 20mins later, she texted me again, telling me this: "You are a good guy, spend time with someone worth your love." Upon seeing this, I somehow feel that she's unhappy or jealous. I did asked a few female friends of mine about her reply and they all said it's jealousy.
And she asked me out last night. Just a simple date when we went for a supper and a massage after that. I sent her home after that, and we just hugged each other goodnight.
Posted by TaurusNikki
Your Leo is playing games with you, be careful, because she sees you as weakHi TaurusNikki,
In fact I did played a mind game with her two nights ago and wanted to see her reaction. Situation was such: We were supposed to go for a massage in the night but in the end she told me she's tired. So she asked me if I'm going alone, and I told her that well, if she's not going, I'll ask my friend to go with me. Her reply was instant: "Ok!! Enjoy."
After about 20mins later, she texted me again, telling me this: "You are a good guy, spend time with someone worth your love." Upon seeing this, I somehow feel that she's unhappy or jealous. I did asked a few female friends of mine about her reply and they all said it's jealousy.click to expand
Lol, its the battle of Wits
I get why she is playing with you tho, its the challenge, you both feed on each other, which is excitement, and see where your coming from but in the end it will piss the Leo off, and Leo's do get jealous, but it's not good when they are, because they will do it right back at you, but worst at times
Posted by TaurusNikki
Your Leo is playing games with you, be careful, because she sees you as weakHi TaurusNikki,
In fact I did played a mind game with her two nights ago and wanted to see her reaction. Situation was such: We were supposed to go for a massage in the night but in the end she told me she's tired. So she asked me if I'm going alone, and I told her that well, if she's not going, I'll ask my friend to go with me. Her reply was instant: "Ok!! Enjoy."
After about 20mins later, she texted me again, telling me this: "You are a good guy, spend time with someone worth your love." Upon seeing this, I somehow feel that she's unhappy or jealous. I did asked a few female friends of mine about her reply and they all said it's jealousy.Hi Taurus
Lol, its the battle of Wits
I get why she is playing with you tho, its the challenge, you both feed on each other, which is excitement, and see where your coming from but in the end it will piss the Leo off, and Leo's do get jealous, but it's not good when they are, because they will do it right back at you, but worst at times
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Hi TaurusNikki, oh ya, I left out something. I knew about how she will feel and in the end I told her that I've decided to go alone instead. Lol.
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Hey Juicy, I can't see the message you sent me.
Good to hear that things are improving. How's her ex boyfriend situation?
Posted by Imprisonment
Good to hear that things are improving. How's her ex boyfriend situation?
Hi imprisonment, actually I'm not sure if he is still contacting her, but I know it's something that I can't stop. As what she told me, she can't stop those ppl from contacting her, but she knows what's she's supposed to do.
Posted by geminichoo
And she asked me out last night. Just a simple date when we went for a supper and a massage after that. I sent her home after that, and we just hugged each other goodnight.yes, excellent. Air signs always have the higher ground 😏
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Posted by geminichoo
And she asked me out last night. Just a simple date when we went for a supper and a massage after that. I sent her home after that, and we just hugged each other goodnight.yes, excellent. Air signs always have the higher ground 😏
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@Tiz, let's just wait and see how things evolve and see if she's genuine.
Posted by Imprisonment
Good to hear that things are improving. How's her ex boyfriend situation?Hi imprisonment, actually I'm not sure if he is still contacting her, but I know it's something that I can't stop. As what she told me, she can't stop those ppl from contacting her, but she knows what's she's supposed to do.
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I remember you mentioning she may have still had feelings for him. Did she say anything about it?
Posted by Imprisonment
Good to hear that things are improving. How's her ex boyfriend situation?Hi imprisonment, actually I'm not sure if he is still contacting her, but I know it's something that I can't stop. As what she told me, she can't stop those ppl from contacting her, but she knows what's she's supposed to do.
I remember you mentioning she may have still had feelings for him. Did she say anything about it?
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No she didn't. In fact, when she was with me, she didn't contact him. It was him who keep contacting her.
The important thing is that she no longer have any feelings for her ex. Good luck to you both. 🙂
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Ok. This is still pertaining to the leo girl I just broke off with recently.shes 27 year old. To being with, I gave her a lot of love and attention when we were in a relationship and she was loving it. Our breakup was due to some misunderstanding that we had coz I was jealous of her guy friends who keep texting her. She thought that I do not trust her enough. On top of that, I do not know why she has this idea that I am not financially stable to support a family in future.
On the day when she wants to end, she said very hurtful words like there's no point talking about us as she thinks it's over for us. So I've decided to just move on. However, the next day till now, she will text me everyday, just short messages, asking about me, telling me about her day and reminding me to take my meals. We also met up for once for a short while.
I must admit, I still love her but I am afraid that she might hurt me again as I will always put in a lot of effort for the girl I love. I am just wondering why is she still contacting me since she was so determined on the day when she wants to end with me. What move should I take? Is she thinking of a reconcilation with me? The emotion is eating me inside out.