Virgo woman has me under the spell

i'm not a virgo but i have virgo rising. i am an absolute nightmare with all forms of communication and in the early stages of seeing someone i'm completely haphazard about calling/texting. i just don't like being the one to initiate contact with someone i don't know very well but who i'm attracted to.

fact is, people are one way when they're initially attracted and another way when they think they have you so personally, during that initial phase the guy has to do most of the running while i see how long they sustain their interest.

it's not manipulation or game playing...it's self preservation. virgos are stand in the background to observe kind of people...i'm not shy personally but i can be chronically reserved which is often misconstrued.

leo men have big personalities and are naturally flirtatious. for all she knows you could be displaying the same interest in other women with as much sincerity.

she's being cautious i would think. i wouldn't advise you don't bother any more. why don't you just call her and ask her why she didn't call YOU as you asked?

Posted by leo33
It's hard for me to call because I feel like I am being a bit too pushy on her, she might not like that. It is also hard for me since I am not getting the attention I usually expect so I feel that after the date, she lost interest in me.

With a bit more detail, It has been a week of: me texting/casual, colder talk compared to before the date, 3 days of silence, then me calling her and having a great flirtatious convo with a lot of laughs etc. then she ignoring my text about her calling me. Now I'm all ego-hurt and can't get her out of my head.

Thanks for the reply!

her behaviour is the reason you can't get her out of your head. if things went as they ordinarily do and she was giving you the attention you 'expect' (typical leo pfffffffft)...fact is, you would be bored already.

Im not a virgo either...But I have virgo rising as well. Im just very reserved and quiet during the intial date. I study you, size you up and well just take notes. I do not like men all over me and def dont like very forward men. And never touch me unless I say you can. Not even a kiss. I dont know now how many times Ive told someone to take me home because they felt they could kiss me. You buy me one sprite and u want a kiss....please.

If you are all over me, then its a major turnoff as I just get majorily uncomfy. Leos and I have never really gotten along. I can always tell when I meet a male one too. They are just big personality and big life and just well everywhere. Thats way too much for me to even wanna deal with at the moment. I like the quiet guy in the corner. The one noone notices. The one I see sizing up the room and the crowd. The one with the mystery about him. The one that could care less either way.....

I wouldnt contact her anymore. She just prob wants a little mystery.From what you posted Im sure she knows you like her.

The only thing true about that entire post is you dont know me. Ive been called many things but never a narcissist... Hmmmmm Interesting. You obviously dont know your sign well enough because that the number one sign I attract. Now wether or not we mesh after that, no. I dont toot anyones horn. I wont too yours and for that matter I dont toot mine as well. Maybe my advice it too real for you to handle......

Leave something for the imaginataion....simple concept.

You shut up. Your the one with a problem against me. I actually forgot about you five minutes ago. As a narcissist we have no time to think about others.