Why did I receive a rude response in this forum?

Since I deleted my last question. My first question in the forum because of the rude response I got, why do I continue to receive replies to it? I thought this place was to come ask for advice, not be ridiculed. I personally didnt do anything to that person or anybody on here to receive negative responses. Im not sure of the name of the person either because I blocked them and can no longer see their name. Thank you!

No thank you.

None on the pisces board! ; ) I think she meant her topic here on the Leo board, maybe? I checked it out, and there were only a few responses, though. Sometimes people don't mean things in a bad way, but they can hurt to others. It's a difficult line to tread. If it wasn't the one on the Leo board, then let me just drag my aired-headed, pisces self out of here.

Not to mention, my grammatically incorrect self.

Huntress was being truthful not rude. Sometimes the truth hurts. The fact is we don't know your Leo or why he blocked you. I'm going to go out on a limb and say because he didn't want to communicate with you. You blocked Huntress right? The same logic applies.

Nala is on to something...

the topic was like a red rag to a bull.....or a giselle to a lion to be more astro-relevant.

No Scenic you were right. It was on the Leo board. Thank you for getting it. Yeah it was rude the responses. I dont understand the underlying sly attitude behind them either. They think it is funny but it is not but whatever.

And no it wasnt every social network possible. I said Twitter that was all. That is the only social network I use besides starting in the forum. I use to be on this forum a long time ago regularly. I guess I am more afraid of people I know trolling this site and seeing what I am asking and being humiliated.

It is a sensitive subject I was dumb for asking complete strangers for advice on a personal issue and I got exactly what I deserve.

And Nala no Huntress was not being truthful I asked for advice not rude childish response. Whether or not she/he felt the need to do so I myself would never respond to anyone in that way. So whatever Nala and no the only thing I said was Twitter how does that define the entire internet and all social networks? How does that person know I dont go out? Did I say anything about it? No I didnt so no that person is childish and shouldnt be answering anybodies questions if she/he cannot handle himself. Misery loves to pull those kinds of stunts and frankly Im laughing at them for there own ignorance.

DeeGee yes I should have referenced it sorry.

No see nobody even bothered to read teh entire thing before telling every NETWORK POSSIBLE?? I said twitter that is all. Then Huntress says to me or whoever it was something close to go outside get a life and get of social networking yet this person is flooded with posts all over this forum??

This is why I cannot deal with a leo I am not strong enough too. You all are leos I get the strength you all perceive. I guess most of it is not rude its just I may be too sensitive. Thank you all for responding and had hoped Id get some other advice but clearly being blocked should be enough of a sign to no the answer.

How do I unhide it?

ok I unblocked it.

Posted by ninjafish
LivnDeadGirl - I'm sorry that was your experience. I do think that was pretty harsh treatment that you received from the forum, straight off the bat. In the past I have blocked ex's simply for contacting me (even when they said nothing out of line), so that happens, my point being that you aren't necessarily in the wrong here - it may well have been an overreaction on his part. I hope you're feeling a bit better now?

Thank you NinjaFish. I hope it was an overreaction. I am doing better just hope at some point he talks to me again. My family is not happy I talked to him again because of the way it ended last time so it was stressful having to trust him again. I am in the process of moving so moving further away from him is upsetting. He said himself nothing has changed since we were together before. Blocking me leads me to think of many different reasons and things he could be doing. Thank you for your compassion. He blocked me in the past when were together and played a lot of games on me with it.

Posted by LivnDeadGirlXx
This is why I cannot deal with a leo I am not strong enough too.

Acceptance is just the beginning my darling.

Happiness can only exist in acceptance.-George Orwell

Posted by LivnDeadGirlXx


This is why I cannot deal with a leo I am not strong enough too. You all are leos I get the strength you all perceive.

Just saw this thread having replied on your other one 🙂

Of course you're strong enough to, you are a pisces woman 😉 You just have different ways of showing and feeling your strength. Your ex leo has said nothing has changed so this should be enough for you to think about what you two had before and see that it was not the best. You obviously were happy that you two were in contact again and imagined a future with him but now its fallen apart, again - you must feel disappointed in that and mistrusting of your own emotions. Go with whatever feelings you are having about this at the moment and feel them, then learn from them and when you are ready you will get it and you will move on, it won't be long i'd imagine before you will look back with relief that you didn't get back into something with him. Leave yourself blocked by him.

Posted by ninjafish
Celtic... 🙂 Your wise advice is always delivered with compassion. Thank you (I speak here in general); it's humanity-affirming, for me at the very least.

Thank you Ninja, that was a very nice thing to say

Seraph, you were just the cutest little cub 🙂

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Posted by ninjafish
Celtic... 🙂 Your wise advice is always delivered with compassion. Thank you (I speak here in general); it's humanity-affirming, for me at the very least.

Agreed. 🙂

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She's a first Decan. Their classy,right Mufasa?

Seriously, July Leos have something that escapes most August Leos....a softness about them. I'm coming back in my next life as a first Decan. 😉

Thanks everyone. Yes I don't really have a choice and it is stressful waiting for him or he might not have no intention whatsoever to contact me ever again. It is not fair to go through that. I just started remembering everything I had to go through before and the kind of person he acted like before and the kind of person he was beginning to act like again. I am constantly worried about how I need to act around him to make him feel comfortable. He had no reason to block me or tag me along. If you say something then you should mean it not say it to get a reaction out of someone or for someone to make up your mind for you. I was perfectly fine in my secretive life after him and now I think I am more upset with myself about the whole thing then him not talking to me. I chased him before and he acted like a total asshole.

He is older then me and has a lot of things and people in his life from being married etc. I cant handle his bossyness and no room for respecting what I want. Im still in a part of my life where Im trying to figure things and my own direction out.

Either way he should have never blocked me. I think about the times he ignored me before when I tried to contact him and now why all of a sudden did he talk to me? Everyone is right. I dont care anymore.

We would have a never ever been anything if he had not pursued me in the first place. Once he got me suddenly teh tables turned and I was begging at his feet, not literally. I had my dog then and she wasnt getting much attention from me because my focus was solely on hi m and I became extremely upset over that because she was almost 13 years old and I valued every single day with her especially since she was extremely attached to me. My mother and sister wanted me to go away and get help for a little bit and when I did that is when communication stop completely the first time. Anyway point with him is he didnt care about my responsibilities. He didnt care about my dog but expected me to care about whatever was his.

He said he had people watching me in my complex every time I left the house. Now I walked everywhere so it was easy to see me and I got extremely upset and paranoid every time I had to go to the store. I would have panic attacks.

Yeah This whole move I did with him was a completely stupid move.

I could be putting my focus on bigger goals in my life.

Thank you for the encouragement celticlioness.

And also thank you Ninjafish for being extremely supportive!!!!!