The Leo Hand Book

This topic was created in the Leo forum by theleoman on Tuesday, January 15, 2013 and has 27 replies.

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@theleoman
15 Years
1. If a leo makes it official with public display then hes yours and in it for the long run
2. Leos are extremely forgiving to those who realize their actions
3, leos just like the lion like to stalk their pray,so be patient, if your leos spending time with you its a good sign, before you know it they will have their paws all over you and cant let go
4. be appreciative, if a leo does something for you, show affection its free
5. a leos ego is like a genie, stroke it and you will get whatever you want
6. call your leos - leos love to be involved
7. spend time with your leo
8. in an argument a leo likes to talk in attempt to resolve the issue, take the time to listen to your leo, dont get upset your leo means well.
9. leo no contact, does not mean your leo is not interested , your leo may be frustrated, but wants things to work, it takes a lot for a leo to end a relationship
10. last, if your leo has gone stray cut him off and he will come running back ,but hold out to long and you will loose you leo , his efforts should be admired and should not be tried as a game


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@R1g0rM0rT1s
14 Years1,000+ Posts
OR just be yourself and if a leo or any other sign appreciates that...good news πŸ˜„

personally, i don't give a crap how my man ticks....we either tick in time or not at all.
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@theleoman
15 Years
lol Hi all, I only made in hopes to help some who may have questions about their leo. Trust me I could use a handbook for other signs lol
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@anothergeminigal
13 YearsGemini
I am dating a Leo male, I think. We have been passionate about 2mths and we have known each other for 3 yrs as ones in a circle of friends. He said he loves me, but says too many dramas, we won't work out so just be friends. I want our relationship to work so he is coming round in the morning to work out the pros and cons, I like his strength, his task orientated and organised skills, all things I'm not. He is self absorbed, moody or cold, whinges a lot, gives the silent treatment when annoyed. So what was it I liked about him again?
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@theleoman
15 Years
Posted by ninjafish
Actually, in my personal (and albeit admittedly limited experience, as I've only had one), all of those points apply with exception to number 10:

"10. last, if your leo has gone stray cut him off and he will come running back ,but hold out to long and you will loose you leo , his efforts should be admired and should not be tried as a game"

Umm fuck that. He goes stray and I should cut him off for a presumably brief duration but be "understanding" enough to let him back on in after a sufficiently minor period of "gone to fuck around/spray the holy jizz around town" time has transpired? And not only that, I should applaud him for it? "Oh baby, I know you let your fire hose loose but THANK YOU for bringing his lordship back to rest here. Please, let me pet him for you, poor baby must be tired."

God, as if.



10. Meaning NC because of situation they moment we feel our love one will leave we will comeback. No jizzing around lol
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@anothergeminigal
13 YearsGemini
My Leo came over the next morning after being so anti-us and gave me a kiss hello, my instant thought 'Waz Up?'. He has confused the crap out of me, he likes our relationship a lot but is concerned that I'm am so disorganised, it bugs him. We both have been single a long time and talked about our fears, communication and moods(rather his moods),loyalty, trust, employment and freedom.

We expressed rules and guidelines and he promised to fix hurting my feelings and is trying hard to give up smoking as it brings on my asthma. He said lets give it a go and he never stopped loving me(Both 48).

We went to the shops in my local area and gives me a kiss like we should get a room, in front of heaps of people. Wow!! Then he made us dinner.

A lot of times, I just don't get it. Help me
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@theleoman
15 Years
Glade everyone is enjoying the leo handbook, I may be able to put together one for Pisces, over 14 years experience
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@Kirakira424
13 Years
Ah makes perfect sense reading this now. Taurus girl took a chance with a persistent Leo male and feeling idiotic now. He was persistent then the holidays roll away and he becomes MIA the calls stop the texts start to dwindle and making plans was a hassle. I am not chasing so I stop making any effort on my end. So over a week of neither of us texting. Enough is enough I texted him wishing him the best and to take care. What sucks is I gave him an early Christmas present to a Knicks game and I never got my gift if I even had one. 😒
I actually wanted to give a relationship a shot and I feel dumb for doing so.
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@Libra Chameleon
17 YearsLibra
Posted by theleoman
1. If a leo makes it official with public display then hes yours and in it for the long run
2. Leos are extremely forgiving to those who realize their actions
3, leos just like the lion like to stalk their pray,so be patient, if your leos spending time with you its a good sign, before you know it they will have their paws all over you and cant let go
4. be appreciative, if a leo does something for you, show affection its free
5. a leos ego is like a genie, stroke it and you will get whatever you want
6. call your leos - leos love to be involved
7. spend time with your leo
8. in an argument a leo likes to talk in attempt to resolve the issue, take the time to listen to your leo, dont get upset your leo means well.
9. leo no contact, does not mean your leo is not interested , your leo may be frustrated, but wants things to work, it takes a lot for a leo to end a relationship
10. last, if your leo has gone stray cut him off and he will come running back ,but hold out to long and you will loose you leo , his efforts should be admired and should not be tried as a game




I had to learn number 9 the hard way. I almost lost him. But thankfully for number 2, he got over it. And thankfully for me already doing number 5, he was able to forgive and forget. But yeah I agree with other posters, this is pretty on point, except number 10. That one truly depends on the situation.
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@theleoman
15 Years
Posted by Kirakira424
Ah makes perfect sense reading this now. Taurus girl took a chance with a persistent Leo male and feeling idiotic now. He was persistent then the holidays roll away and he becomes MIA the calls stop the texts start to dwindle and making plans was a hassle. I am not chasing so I stop making any effort on my end. So over a week of neither of us texting. Enough is enough I texted him wishing him the best and to take care. What sucks is I gave him an early Christmas present to a Knicks game and I never got my gift if I even had one. 😒
I actually wanted to give a relationship a shot and I feel dumb for doing so.



What do you mean? Sometimes during the holidays leos feel the need to connect with family
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@theleoman
15 Years
Posted by Kirakira424
Ah makes perfect sense reading this now. Taurus girl took a chance with a persistent Leo male and feeling idiotic now. He was persistent then the holidays roll away and he becomes MIA the calls stop the texts start to dwindle and making plans was a hassle. I am not chasing so I stop making any effort on my end. So over a week of neither of us texting. Enough is enough I texted him wishing him the best and to take care. What sucks is I gave him an early Christmas present to a Knicks game and I never got my gift if I even had one. 😒
I actually wanted to give a relationship a shot and I feel dumb for doing so.



Huh? What happened?
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@Kirakira424
13 Years
I understand the need to be with family. While he was with his I got a chance to be with mine. I understood all of that it was afterwards when Christmas ended that the calls stopped then after New Year's when the texts weren't as much or I'll text something and not get a response until hours later with an apology and an excuse.

We made plans to hangout one Saturday and he partied so late Friday night he was messed up the following day. He never set out a time so I cancelled other plans thinking we will still have our Saturday but after a few hours of waiting I told him I was heading out and went out.
I tried to make plans to see each other but after two attempts the plans had to get cancelled for different reasons on his end. In one of the last texts I mentioned that I was seeing a movie the coming weekend and he was welcome to come since he wanted to see the movie. He simply said okay and never mentioned whether he would come or not. I figured he just lost interest and I stopped making an effort completely he hasn't texted since.
With no explanation or anything he had dropped off the planet so I have done the same. It sucks I was really starting to like him.
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@VenusAquarius
14 Years10,000+ Posts
Handbook is pretty accurate.

I've been with a Leo/Virgo Cusp for 18 years (minus a 4 year divorce). He's born on the very cusp and is described "The Day of Lively (Leo) Precision (Virgo). I see exactly 50/50. But for the most part, he displays most prominently Leo characteristics (later, the Virgo shows up). I'm an Aries and he is an Aries Ascendant.

I LOVE LEOS! When a man approaches me and I say to myself..."ew sh*t!" I know he's a Leo.

My husband is the most beautiful man I have ever seen in my life - and I am definitly not about appearances. The funny thing is the day we met, the Sun was shining directly behind his head and made a yellow halo. We were both speechless... and I was even more speechless that he was speechless too... woooo.

This is the sign I have attracted the most... and it makes me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world that I am was chosen by a Leo - thank you 7th house!

I can't say enough.
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@theleoman
15 Years
Posted by WoundedLeo
The Leo Handbook is quite accurate and pretty much applies to both the male and female of the species. Nice job.

I *DO* like Jynja's visual of Seraph finger combing his hair while looking in a mirror and sipping his Alpine grown coffee. I can *SOOOO* picture this.




+1
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@waterbearer17
13 Years
hi leoman. i am an aquarian who is very interested in a leo. we have been friends for a couple of years and it's only now that i realize that i am attracted to him. it all started as a joke that i want to have sex with him in a text message. he bought it and said that we could do it. i was afraid that if we did it it would ruin the friendship we had. he said that we could be friends with benefit. to make a very long story short, we've gone out twice to watch a movie. on the second date, we ended up in bed. now, i think i want to be more than his FWB but i am afraid that if i tell him how i feel, we would end up goig our separate ways. i am confused of the signs he is showing. he would hand me his wallet and let me get money from it. in our culture, friends don't do that. the only time you can do that is if you're husband and wife or if you're in a relationship. could he be interested in me?