StrawberryJam
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Why is Leo Man ignoring me now?
Well to be fair, it doesn't sound like you two had that strong of a connection before he left. It sounds like you pushed him back on more than one occasion, but he persisted. The time to have grown close with him was when he was still around, not the day before he left.
Now that he's in another country, communication will inevitably become harder depending on his schedule and the timezone he's in now. You can't expect an increase (or even the same amount) in communication under these circumstances. This is also why people have trouble in long distance relationships.
Aside from the communication delays, know that he is now in another country having new experiences. Since you two weren't in a relationship prior to him leaving, there isn't much tying him to you. Sure he liked you when he left, but that doesn't mean that he won't meet other women down the line. So since he's gone, it's best you not expect much from this situation.
I'm sure he'll contact you when he can, but don't get upset if he can't do so frequently.
Now that he's in another country, communication will inevitably become harder depending on his schedule and the timezone he's in now. You can't expect an increase (or even the same amount) in communication under these circumstances. This is also why people have trouble in long distance relationships.
Aside from the communication delays, know that he is now in another country having new experiences. Since you two weren't in a relationship prior to him leaving, there isn't much tying him to you. Sure he liked you when he left, but that doesn't mean that he won't meet other women down the line. So since he's gone, it's best you not expect much from this situation.
I'm sure he'll contact you when he can, but don't get upset if he can't do so frequently.
Posted by ChuckcemHe did contCt me just an hour ago. Yes the timexone was very different. He also accepted my friend request. I also asked him about idk how to act around him cos I feel like there’s barriers. See what he says
Well to be fair, it doesn't sound like you two had that strong of a connection before he left. It sounds like you pushed him back on more than one occasion, but he persisted. The time to have grown close with him was when he was still around, not the day before he left.
Now that he's in another country, communication will inevitably become harder depending on his schedule and the timezone he's in now. You can't expect an increase (or even the same amount) in communication under these circumstances. This is also why people have trouble in long distance relationships.
Aside from the communication delays, know that he is now in another country having new experiences. Since you two weren't in a relationship prior to him leaving, there isn't much tying him to you. Sure he liked you when he left, but that doesn't mean that he won't meet other women down the line. So since he's gone, it's best you not expect much from this situation.
I'm sure he'll contact you when he can, but don't get upset if he can't do so frequently.
Posted by KoniuchaaI asked him previously about what made him decided to leave. He said he is happier in his home country.
Well, could be because he asked you if you wanted him to stay and you said aren’t you happier somewhere else? That would certainly bum anyone out
He can’t just expect me to say yes you should stay just before he left. Besides it a big decision. Not even his mom should made that decision for him
Posted by KoniuchaaI was not disagreeing with you. Just saying howit was unfair for him to think that. As I also had a feeling that even I did right by him but it wasn’t appreiciated. He just wanted me to make decision for him. I did sent him a message to tell him his behavior is confusing see what he saysPosted by StrawberryJamI’m just throwing out ideas. Could be a million different reasons. Best is to ask himPosted by Koniuchaa
Well, could be because he asked you if you wanted him to stay and you said aren’t you happier somewhere else? That would certainly bum anyone out
I wasn’t disagreeing with you. Just saying it was
I asked him previously about what made him decided to leave. He said he is happier in his home country.
He can’t just expect me to say yes you should stay just before he left. Besides it a big decision. Not even his mom should made that decision for himclick to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamJust understand that may not have a clear answer to that question.Posted by ChuckcemHe did contCt me just an hour ago. Yes the timexone was very different. He also accepted my friend request. I also asked him about idk how to act around him cos I feel like there’s barriers. See what he says
Well to be fair, it doesn't sound like you two had that strong of a connection before he left. It sounds like you pushed him back on more than one occasion, but he persisted. The time to have grown close with him was when he was still around, not the day before he left.
Now that he's in another country, communication will inevitably become harder depending on his schedule and the timezone he's in now. You can't expect an increase (or even the same amount) in communication under these circumstances. This is also why people have trouble in long distance relationships.
Aside from the communication delays, know that he is now in another country having new experiences. Since you two weren't in a relationship prior to him leaving, there isn't much tying him to you. Sure he liked you when he left, but that doesn't mean that he won't meet other women down the line. So since he's gone, it's best you not expect much from this situation.
I'm sure he'll contact you when he can, but don't get upset if he can't do so frequently.
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Posted by ChuckcemGot it. I think he is confused himself as he told me before he left. He said I made him rethink his decision and he kept on asking hismelf what iS he doing and why is he leaving etc.Posted by StrawberryJamJust understand that may not have a clear answer to that question.Posted by ChuckcemHe did contCt me just an hour ago. Yes the timexone was very different. He also accepted my friend request. I also asked him about idk how to act around him cos I feel like there’s barriers. See what he says
Well to be fair, it doesn't sound like you two had that strong of a connection before he left. It sounds like you pushed him back on more than one occasion, but he persisted. The time to have grown close with him was when he was still around, not the day before he left.
Now that he's in another country, communication will inevitably become harder depending on his schedule and the timezone he's in now. You can't expect an increase (or even the same amount) in communication under these circumstances. This is also why people have trouble in long distance relationships.
Aside from the communication delays, know that he is now in another country having new experiences. Since you two weren't in a relationship prior to him leaving, there isn't much tying him to you. Sure he liked you when he left, but that doesn't mean that he won't meet other women down the line. So since he's gone, it's best you not expect much from this situation.
I'm sure he'll contact you when he can, but don't get upset if he can't do so frequently.
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Also he seems to be wishy washy at work and other decisions he made. I thought I would just clear the air as I know I did push him away in the past (even it was caused by a girl who was trying to keep us apart cos she fancies him even she already has a bf)
To be honest he is average looking and my guy friends think he is ugly but girls at work digs him
Posted by StrawberryJamWhy would you care what your guy friends think about another guy's looks? They clearly aren't attracted to him, so of course they'd think he was unattractive. However what does it matter? Other people's opinions shouldn't matter. That being said, the girls at work have clearly picked up on something that your guy friends have not.Posted by ChuckcemGot it. I think he is confused himself as he told me before he left. He said I made him rethink his decision and he kept on asking hismelf what iS he doing and why is he leaving etc.Posted by StrawberryJamJust understand that may not have a clear answer to that question.Posted by ChuckcemHe did contCt me just an hour ago. Yes the timexone was very different. He also accepted my friend request. I also asked him about idk how to act around him cos I feel like there’s barriers. See what he says
Well to be fair, it doesn't sound like you two had that strong of a connection before he left. It sounds like you pushed him back on more than one occasion, but he persisted. The time to have grown close with him was when he was still around, not the day before he left.
Now that he's in another country, communication will inevitably become harder depending on his schedule and the timezone he's in now. You can't expect an increase (or even the same amount) in communication under these circumstances. This is also why people have trouble in long distance relationships.
Aside from the communication delays, know that he is now in another country having new experiences. Since you two weren't in a relationship prior to him leaving, there isn't much tying him to you. Sure he liked you when he left, but that doesn't mean that he won't meet other women down the line. So since he's gone, it's best you not expect much from this situation.
I'm sure he'll contact you when he can, but don't get upset if he can't do so frequently.
Also he seems to be wishy washy at work and other decisions he made. I thought I would just clear the air as I know I did push him away in the past (even it was caused by a girl who was trying to keep us apart cos she fancies him even she already has a bf)
To be honest he is average looking and my guy friends think he is ugly but girls at work digs him
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Posted by ChuckcemHe is a very nice person. Idk how he interacts with them may be he compliments them a lot I’m not sure.Posted by StrawberryJamWhy would you care what your guy friends think about another guy's looks? They clearly aren't attracted to him, so of course they'd think he was unattractive. However what does it matter? Other people's opinions shouldn't matter. That being said, the girls at work have clearly picked up on something that your guy friends have not.Posted by ChuckcemGot it. I think he is confused himself as he told me before he left. He said I made him rethink his decision and he kept on asking hismelf what iS he doing and why is he leaving etc.Posted by StrawberryJamJust understand that may not have a clear answer to that question.Posted by ChuckcemHe did contCt me just an hour ago. Yes the timexone was very different. He also accepted my friend request. I also asked him about idk how to act around him cos I feel like there’s barriers. See what he says
Well to be fair, it doesn't sound like you two had that strong of a connection before he left. It sounds like you pushed him back on more than one occasion, but he persisted. The time to have grown close with him was when he was still around, not the day before he left.
Now that he's in another country, communication will inevitably become harder depending on his schedule and the timezone he's in now. You can't expect an increase (or even the same amount) in communication under these circumstances. This is also why people have trouble in long distance relationships.
Aside from the communication delays, know that he is now in another country having new experiences. Since you two weren't in a relationship prior to him leaving, there isn't much tying him to you. Sure he liked you when he left, but that doesn't mean that he won't meet other women down the line. So since he's gone, it's best you not expect much from this situation.
I'm sure he'll contact you when he can, but don't get upset if he can't do so frequently.
Also he seems to be wishy washy at work and other decisions he made. I thought I would just clear the air as I know I did push him away in the past (even it was caused by a girl who was trying to keep us apart cos she fancies him even she already has a bf)
To be honest he is average looking and my guy friends think he is ugly but girls at work digs him
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On the farewell I took him and one of the girls from work to meet my friend. That girl was being really sexual with him with the way she talks. He was very gentleman and helped her with her bags. He even walked her out of the club. I thought they were going home together but he came back to me
@chuckcem @koniuchaa
He responded to apologize about the delay and told me in details about what caused that. He said he’s been constantly thinking of me and it was bad timing that we got closer before he left. He then asked if he could call and speak to me.
He then FaceTime me but during FaceTime we didn’t really talk about feelings more like filling each other in. He said he thought he would do a video call cos he wants to see the real me. He asked me to visit and then asked for the next FaceTime chat.
He responded to apologize about the delay and told me in details about what caused that. He said he’s been constantly thinking of me and it was bad timing that we got closer before he left. He then asked if he could call and speak to me.
He then FaceTime me but during FaceTime we didn’t really talk about feelings more like filling each other in. He said he thought he would do a video call cos he wants to see the real me. He asked me to visit and then asked for the next FaceTime chat.
Posted by StrawberryJamWell there it is. Sounds like he's not ignoring you after all.
@chuckcem @koniuchaa
He responded to apologize about the delay and told me in details about what caused that. He said he’s been constantly thinking of me and it was bad timing that we got closer before he left. He then asked if he could call and speak to me.
He then FaceTime me but during FaceTime we didn’t really talk about feelings more like filling each other in. He said he thought he would do a video call cos he wants to see the real me. He asked me to visit and then asked for the next FaceTime chat.
Posted by ChuckcemYes he’s just getting lazy though haha I guess since he’s been away I’ve been initiating. Yesterday we texted again right after the call as he still want to chat but I had to go.Posted by StrawberryJamWell there it is. Sounds like he's not ignoring you after all.
@chuckcem @koniuchaa
He responded to apologize about the delay and told me in details about what caused that. He said he’s been constantly thinking of me and it was bad timing that we got closer before he left. He then asked if he could call and speak to me.
He then FaceTime me but during FaceTime we didn’t really talk about feelings more like filling each other in. He said he thought he would do a video call cos he wants to see the real me. He asked me to visit and then asked for the next FaceTime chat.
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We text more I’m the last person who text so waiting for him to initiate. The sweet thing is he is sleeping next to the farewell present I gave him. I wish he can initiate more haha
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