A Blast from the past......

The funniest thing happen to me about six weeks ago a childhood friend I use to date when I was like 13 or 14 contacted me through a friend on FB, yes the guy who wanted to contact me is a libra. When we use to date if you want to call it that being that I was so young he use to always write me these love poems, make me tapes of poems, and we use to spend a lot of time on the phone. I remember some of these things but he remember everything from my parents & sis, when I move away just little details that really amaze me. Ofcourse I was blushing with him telling me he never forgot me even after all these 18yrs we haven't seen each other, he says he remember me as being special and all this other flattery stuff. Today he made a FB page and ofcourse he sent me a friend request and he was checking out my pic saying I am still beautiful and all this, he also sent me a pic of him. We have since been talking on the phone some just as friend seeing that I am dating someone which I told him, he is cool with that but he does want to have lunch or hang out. I have never even talk to a libra male before I forgot he was a libra but can anyone with experience with these men or the libra men theirselves can tell me what you think about him and his expectations.

He really could want to be just friends. If I ran into an old friend / girlfriend and had good memories I'd ask them out to catch up as well. It doesn't have to be anything more than two old friends going to lunch. In fact, if I was him that is all it would be. You are with someone currently, you'd be off limits as anything more than a friend. I know most guys don't think like this but that is this Libra male's perspective at least.

Posted by amethyst2002
They want to be friends with everyone.

Especially pretty women. There can never be enough of those around 🙂

Posted by amethyst2002
Btw, not discrediting what Sid said, just an angle I saw with a childhood Libra friend. We got back in touch after like 8 years, he came off as super friendly and a little too interested. As soon as he got a girlfriend, he couldn't be bothered to keep in touch anymore, which told me I was just an option to him. But that's him. Yours sounds more like just wanting to catch up.

I have done similar this before honestly. It was never the intention but I suck at keeping in touch with people anyway. Plus we tend to get so wrapped up in a new girlfriend that we do some dumb stuff with other friends. Some times the new girl friend really doesn't like all the female friends we have. When I was younger I caved in and distanced myself from some of those friends. I wish I hadn't, but I did.

It's definitely possible this guy wants to be more than friends. I just wanted to point out that he could be genuinely interested in friends as well.

thanks, I agree I think he simply wants to be friend and maybe if I leave my relationship then maybe but by then he might be taken.

Thanks everyone for the advice I am actually glad that he came back into my life when we talk he makes me blush telling me how he felt back thing. As a woman it's nice to know someone is thinking of you so we will stay in touch and be friends he is really a great guy I think too bad we didn't catch up a year ago but we will see how it goes.