Any chance I can get my libra man back?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by fenixrabbit on Thursday, September 30, 2010 and has 5 replies.

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@fenixrabbit
16 Years

So- I know that it may be for the best,
we are separated even though we had so much fun together-
and he has moved on to another woman-
but what are the chances, if their relationship doesn't work out-
that he would come back to me again? Someday?
I am a pisces and he is a libra and I miss him something fierce.
We had the best chemistry ever and I left because we had
such different communication style s and I had a hard time getting used to it-
but I am starting to realize some of my mistakes =
should I tell him that? Is there any good in at least sending him a letter
telling him how much I really loved him? Or will he look it at me being desperate- and
that I am just a lost cause?

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@nik555
16 Years

i'm a libra man
i don't think he will loot at you as beeing desparate, he will look at you and see you still love him. It doesn't mean he is gonna jump in the car and go back to you. If i was him and would just date both, you and his current girl. Yeah.. why not?

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@FemmeScorpion
16 Years500+ Posts

Posted by nik555
i'm a libra man
i don't think he will loot at you as beeing desparate, he will look at you and see you still love him. It doesn't mean he is gonna jump in the car and go back to you. If i was him and would just date both, you and his current girl. Yeah.. why not?

lol be quiet,how old are you?. Life isnt about been a player.

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@Diddylibra
17 YearsLibra

I don't think that a good idea , he's in a relationship right now and for you to tell him you still love him will make you become the 3rd person , neither you wait it out and see if they work out or just move on.

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@lookoutbelow84093
16 Years

This is a tough situation. To be honest I think you should really ask yourself why you want him back. Honestly Ive dated a few girls who think they can walk on you a bit (not sure if its just me but Libras seem to like to compromise to keep the relationship intact?). After a bit of this they generally lose attraction for you and are gone. If its that type of situation, and now that he has a new gf your interested again, its time to move on. Basically I have no respect for the girls which did that and would never try it again. If it was generally a good relationship and you realize you just want him and made a mistake, then who knows what can happen. TO be honest though I would let his current relationship play out. Its a little foul play to have the ex gf around. Whether you tell him or not really depends on how you think he will take it, what your true intentions are etc... But either way I wouldnt try to get him away from his current girlfriend, thats long term diasaster no matter what the short term outcome it imo.

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@zjv
16 YearsLibra

Yeah, that's a suck situation.

Unfortunately I think it would be dick to get yourself in the picture while he's in the middle of a relationship. I can def. see why you'd want to contact him. Sort of disrespectful to him in the case his GF found out, it'd probably give him some serious stress. Even if she didn't find out, still could be an emotionally burdening move.

If you two were really close, he's not going to just forget about you. There's no expiration date for when you could "get him back". You may want to let his current relationship intact and attempt mending you two if the relationship doesn't work out between them.

On the flip, if they're relationship is just getting started and you can't trust yourself to "wait" for your chance to get him back. Then perhaps the sooner the better. I mean, not to stress you out... but the more serious they get, the more damage it can cause if you interfere.