@LIb4Life
12 Years500+ Posts
I Don't Understand What's Going on With Libra Ex
+1 Lib
"I can do what I want. We aren't in a relationship yet".
Hello!
He's stringing you along and you're allowing it to happen.
If you don't feel you can do better than stay with him but if you feel you can do better and deserve better it's time to stop the madness, stop sleeping with him, stop being his fallback girl and get on with your life with someone else.
This is not love, this is a guy who saw a way to have his cake (you) and eat it with other women.
If you have a daughter would you recommend your daughter to stay in this kind of situation with a man? Probably not, you'd encourage her to choose a better position for herself which includes choosing a better man.
What are you teaching your child/children when you choose a man that doesn't behave as if he loves you 50% of the time? You're teaching them love hurts, you're teaching them they don't deserve to have a loving healthy relationship. Do you really want your children to grow up with that kind of internal unhealthy message.
If you can't pull away for you then do it for your kids so they can learn how to love themselves more than they love a toxic unhealthy relationship.
"I can do what I want. We aren't in a relationship yet".
Hello!
He's stringing you along and you're allowing it to happen.
If you don't feel you can do better than stay with him but if you feel you can do better and deserve better it's time to stop the madness, stop sleeping with him, stop being his fallback girl and get on with your life with someone else.
This is not love, this is a guy who saw a way to have his cake (you) and eat it with other women.
If you have a daughter would you recommend your daughter to stay in this kind of situation with a man? Probably not, you'd encourage her to choose a better position for herself which includes choosing a better man.
What are you teaching your child/children when you choose a man that doesn't behave as if he loves you 50% of the time? You're teaching them love hurts, you're teaching them they don't deserve to have a loving healthy relationship. Do you really want your children to grow up with that kind of internal unhealthy message.
If you can't pull away for you then do it for your kids so they can learn how to love themselves more than they love a toxic unhealthy relationship.
That's not a libra thing, that's an emotionally immature/unavailable person problem. Like others said, he does this because you allow it.
Tell him you've been ready but you aren't waiting anymore. Either you all give it a real shot or you're done. It's probably better to just walk because an ultimatum like that is a horrible way to "start".
Tell him you've been ready but you aren't waiting anymore. Either you all give it a real shot or you're done. It's probably better to just walk because an ultimatum like that is a horrible way to "start".
Thanks, guys. I appreciate all the feedback.
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What I want to know is why you would allow this to happen for 2 years?
Please explain.
Please explain.
No need to be ashamed or hide anything. Consider this a huge learning experience and move along.
I'm just baffled because it's so obvious what's happening, yet it's been going on for TWO years, with you still thinking there's hope for a relationship.
If I had a guy who said what he said, I'd tell him to fuck off right then and there. I can't believe he had the audacity to say such utter bullshit. Tell his little virginal ass to gtfo.
I'm just baffled because it's so obvious what's happening, yet it's been going on for TWO years, with you still thinking there's hope for a relationship.
If I had a guy who said what he said, I'd tell him to fuck off right then and there. I can't believe he had the audacity to say such utter bullshit. Tell his little virginal ass to gtfo.
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Remember, he apparently got started late in life with dating and having sex so right now he's going backwards. He's enjoying life. He's doing what most people would normally do in their teens and early to mid 20's. Most folks by the time they reach age 30 is ready to start the settling down process, but he's doing just the opposite. 2 years?..Move on honey. Seems like he is just dragging you along until he figures out what he wants to do. You are a Gemini and you guys don't normally put up with that kinda of behavior. Well, Good luck. I know you have kids together, but that's not a healthy environment for your children..especially if they see you being unhappy all the time.