any reason why this Libra girl has lied to me over

I just don't understand this girl at all!(the crazy one that came over a few weeks back and yelled and screamed at me and destroyed 10 of my CD's)...she has lied to me constantly about "no one going there for a while" and I worked out that she was sleeping with some dude and when I asked her about it she went nuts and said he was only a friend...the other day we were baiting each other at a message board and I ended up messaging her and telling her that I don't respect liars and want nothing to do with her ever again and that I don't care what she says or does.

I ended up getting another threat that she was going to come over and see me and that I had been warned before and "fine if that's how you want".

But the thing that puzzles me is her Boyfriend messaged me and told me he was her partner and asked me to stop messaging her because she is really down (guilt perhaps?)but the odd thing is he told me not to tell her that he had told me?.

She even got to one of my close friends and she lied to me about the dude as well, the thing is I have known all along and I also asked if he saw the harsh rhymes that his girlfriend wrote about me, interestingly he said no.

What on earth goes through this girl's head?.

I did get a text from her on New Years...that said "Hi, I am sure I will get over this sooner or later, Just DON'T push me, Happy New year".

I saw her out the other week and we just looked at each other and turned away from each other and I didn't say a word to her...why do I care about this?

Because she is in the same circle of friends of mine and I have heard she has been bad mouthing and telling girls that I see every female as an option.

I am bewildered...any thoughts would be much appreciated.

That is just a part of a libra indecisive self fish and self centered attitude .....when is her birthday?

If you let a libra run all over you and treat you anyway they wish that is exactly how the relationship/friendship will be

You need to ignore her and act as if she does not exist .............also stop hanging with the people you guys hang around for a week or two ....

she sounds like a total freak. Not to mention, an immature drama queen who is probably miserable with herself. cant you just continue to ignore her? Maybe she will give up and go away

Why haven't you out a restraining order on her/him already?

Okay,shes out of your life as close to it as possible anyways,so what does it matter cause you CAN avoid this stuff.

"the crazy one that came over a few weeks back and yelled and screamed at me and destroyed 10 of my CD's"

WTF? I f*cked ripp off heads for that!!!

"if there's any of her things at your place, give them to charity!! then when she kicks off at you for doing that ,dance in front of her!! (a little 'victory' dance, enough to get her blood pressure rising through the roof!!)"

Do you know Hokka dance?

"WTF? I treetr*nked ripp off heads for that!!!"

Ahaaa!!!!!!!!!!! Well that doesn't sound too civilized mon frere! Sounds like rage to me...

"That is just a part of a libra indecisive self fish and self centered attitude .....when is her birthday?
If you let a libra run all over you and treat you anyway they wish that is exactly how the relationship/friendship will be "

This is when astrology sucks! What a totally prejudicial thing to say! That is as bad as judging someone by the colour of their skin, or their religion. Do you get out much?

And Aprilbaby has hit the nail right on the head.

I think shes another libra yetta,maybe its based on herself or something cause this version really isn't as twisted as the other posts on this chick lol.

Although I usually say im not the "cookie cutter" scorp,I agree with antibling about shagging her sister,or her mommy would be even better,that would be a definate way to knock her head off spinning without going to jail lol.

I am so sick of this war I have with this Libra girl and she came over to my place to rip into me yet again...I asked her to leave as soon as I saw her, I told her I want a fresh start and to leave the past where it belongs...The Past!!!

I told her I just want to wipe the slate clean and start afresh we know too many of the same people, hell even her ex boyfriend is cool with me... but you know what I get?

This private message from a forum we both post at:

"why do u think i come to your house and yell at you? this is the very very very VERY last time im gnona say it ok, i dont want to know you ok i dont want to hear from you i dont wanna see you writing like you know me. ever."

What the hell do I do or say?

As a Libra with an ex-boyfriend who was a Scorpio, I will attempt to be helpful and give some insight that may benefit you and your situation. But first I need to know if the two of you were ever an item or if you just liked her?

As a Libra with an ex-boyfriend who was a Scorpio, I will attempt to be helpful and give some insight that may benefit you and your situation. But first I need to know if the two of you were ever an item or if you just liked her?

I just liked her (and in some ways I still oddly do )

She first rang me and asked me questions about something she was interested in and I took her to a lot of shows and even had over at my place and cooked her dinner once, one night while we were out I told her that she looked really beautiful and (apparently) I tried to hold her hand, she gave me the I don't see you that way speech and I told her I couldn't be friends with girls that I am attracted to because it sucks and I hate being jealous when she hooks up with other guys...It has been war ever since but interestingly her ex boyfriend has been hanging out with me.

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Dude

Just stay something you know will piss her off so much she won't talk to you again. If she says stuff to you so often I'm sure you know a few lines to throw that that her.

The last time I did that told her go fuck herself and called her a slore, she was over here in less than an hour, yelling and screaming at me and ended up smashing up 10 of my CD's and cursing me out.

this girl obviously likes you in her own sick way or you have some sort of effect on her. if this wasnt the case she wouldn't waste her time to come over to your place just to curse you out because you said a few stupid things about her. she would just blow it off. are you sure shes even a libra? libras are suppose to be diplomatic and do their best to avoid drama. although my scropio did do things that caused me to go crazy...

October 13th is her Birthday...

LilLibra20

Thanks so much for your inisght and comments...I forgot to mention that has soon as I asked her to not come into my house she did and everytime I moved she would follow me where I went and tell me how she was holding it in (again) that she wanted to knock me out and that everyone was laughing at me and that I'm a pathetic and immature 33 year old and that she wants nothing to do with me and to remind about what happened last time (smashed up CD's, psycho fits of rage).

Oh and the constant "who do you think you are"?...I noticed that she would always use my name at the end of this when she said it.

Also after our fallout she sent me an e-mail that told me "yeah because you thought you were going to get some but UH OH you didn't and maybe you shouldn't view every female as an option".

She would also often send me messages that would ask me "how am I supposed to feel about that" and the like.

I still have all of her messages saved, they amaze me.

Thanks again

If shes in your house you can remove her violently,but yeah,since your a dude just restrain her and put right back outside and close the door.Its trespassing.

Every scorp has a no nonsense trait to them start using it in otherwords.

Yeah,I know thats why I posted to just restrain her and set her ass outside the door.To be on the completely safe of the courts side have a big,butch chick sitting at your house to "remove" her from your property.

ha ha...I have also heard from her ex boyfriend that she talked about me a lot and always told him how she hates me etc...

Well I know the best and only thing to do is to move on and never contact her like she asked and not go the gigs or shows she goes to anymore, honestly I think this whole issue is a major jealousy thing.

Why the fuck would she ask me 'are you kicking this girl out just because she didn't want to sleep with you?' (which is not the case and that's another long and boring story.)

I have already moved on, I don't post on the forum she does anymore as I started up my own one, I have been dating a cute Piscies girl (2nd one in over a year) and I feel pretty good about here...but she said she wants to take things slow and that's fine with me.

A pisces wanting to take things slow is a good thing,its a good match up for scorps from my own experiance,been with a pisces guy for about 8 years now and he wanted "to take things slow" too and its a very,very good relationship.

I really can NOT work out what it is about this girl that makes me think about her still and I have to be honest the bossy bitch act turns me on a little.

She is really beautiful and when we -are- talking she has a fantastic, funny and random personality that intrigues me.

Plus she has the sexiest eyes I have ever seen in my entire life...when she yells and screams at me I don' look at her...shit am I love in with her?

"To be on the completely safe of the courts side have a big,butch chick sitting at your house to "remove" her from your property."

lol

I think it should be reasonable, aye? That means, he has to have at least 100 girls per month, WOW.