Aries girl needs opinion about this Libra man

back off completely, he ll come around. Let him have his time to think

Oh you poor thing Arieshun , it breaks my heart to read this ! Youve fallen into the Libra-Aries attraction Mega-Magnet Black Hole. Ive been in there myself and I know it is a very strong attraction . Best advise I can give you is to sit down face to face with him .Make an 'appointment' and spill it one last time, tell him that the mind games are tearing at your heart ! . One good thing about Libra is you will get the truth if you demand it... which is what you so desperately need. I hope , for his sake -that he comes back to you . Aries girls are AMAZING !! 🙂

@uniqueunicorn,

Actually that is exactly what i'm doing right now... I really hope he will think about it instead of thought 'just let her be'.... 😢

@libragemmale

Thanks for the advise.. 🙂

But, do you really think it that way?
I heard that libras really don't like 'drama'... I know him was just like that. Being with him, i learned to hold every feelings which has possibility for him feels annoying. Well, it was a good thing to apply on even though kinda torturing, i am proud of myself in that way.

This libra guy is actually very very good in hiding his feelings. I understand that he doesn't want to be looked like as provoking/irritating when comes about his thought, especially when he himself realizes it might hurt someone. If that is libra's thing, is he going to agree to have an 'appointment' that i'll set up?? 😢 i'm afraid that would give him more pressure. I can't stand when that will happen, looks like i am really bad in front of him.

I agree, sometimes, giving someone a space-needed has its own good where it is an opportunity to think about something, understand it, feel it and then act accordingly rather than doing that with purpose of satisfying others than own self. (i try to think it positively)

Or... anything can i do? please be free to comment anything... i would appreciate it..

Hunney It's not about bringing up drama .As I read it you are seeking some kind of closure with him , it's not healthy for you to be forced to keep your feelings bottled up . Is that how you want your relationship to be like with him ? I'm willing to bet he can read your mind just as well as you can read his. Please don't allow your relationship to end up in little tug-of-war games - That's not true love ! Sometimes a Libra needs a little kick in the arse !! He will probably respect you more if you take a stand an show him he is worth fighting for. An Aries girl knows how to take a stand !! Go back to being a true Aries -this is probably what attracted him to you in the first place.

Of course this is my opinion only and I don't know your whole story and there is always a chance ther is another woman involved. But I really do wish you the best of luck !!

ps maybe you can call it a "date" instead of "appointment" , that sounds like a little more fun huh ?
😛

I knew a Libra male who owed me an apology but instead he just didn't mention it and I think he hoped I would eventually forget. LOL. Libra can be a bit like that avoiding confrontation, but there are times when you have to face the music. How old is this guy?

I would be inclined to stay a bit distant and see if he comes round. Some men go a bit 'off' when they are evaluating the relationship's future. It may be that he will come to the conclusion that it has a future in which case he will come towards you. If the opposite proves true then he won't move forward. Unfortunately it may be up to you to break up. Give it a bit more time. Eventually though you will have to make it clear that you have certain expectations and if he doesn't meet them then it's best for both of you to part. Very hard I know. I hope that he will come your way and your heart will be mended.

My advice - do nothing for now and focus on your own needs. Go out with some friends, have a good time.

Posted by libragemmale
Hunney It's not about bringing up drama .As I read it you are seeking some kind of closure with him , it's not healthy for you to be forced to keep your feelings bottled up . Is that how you want your relationship to be like with him ? I'm willing to bet he can read your mind just as well as you can read his. Please don't allow your relationship to end up in little tug-of-war games - That's not true love ! Sometimes a Libra needs a little kick in the arse !! He will probably respect you more if you take a stand an show him he is worth fighting for. An Aries girl knows how to take a stand !! Go back to being a true Aries -this is probably what attracted him to you in the first place.

Of course this is my opinion only and I don't know your whole story and there is always a chance ther is another woman involved. But I really do wish you the best of luck !!

@libragemmale, you are right. 'Straightly shooting the right dot'.

Be someone else for sake of others is kinda fake which is a lie too! I can't believe that was exactly what i am doing at all the times. Seriously, i never have intentions of doing that.😢 It is actually i don't have any ideas myself how i am going to be appeared in front of him. Feel afraid he might turn off, so i unintentionally did something unusual me (i am kinda nervous) hoping be someone he wants more to be me... Am I toooo selfish?----> so ARIES, but seems weak!

And now i realize why i am sooo tired to act like what i'm not use to. No wonder almost of the time, especially after the EXPECTATION THING happened, i feel awkward plus nervous when he is around. I think i really get that.

You might so true about the another woman too... Well libras are friendly then, i admit that. So, the possibility is high, but i never heard about another woman close to him as much as i am. I don't know, however the things make sense right now! Thanks for waking me up. I mean it.

(typing error) ..... he wants more to be with me

Posted by LibraRose
I knew a Libra male who owed me an apology but instead he just didn't mention it and I think he hoped I would eventually forget. LOL. Libra can be a bit like that avoiding confrontation, but there are times when you have to face the music. How old is this guy?

I would be inclined to stay a bit distant and see if he comes round. Some men go a bit 'off' when they are evaluating the relationship's future. It may be that he will come to the conclusion that it has a future in which case he will come towards you. If the opposite proves true then he won't move forward. Unfortunately it may be up to you to break up. Give it a bit more time. Eventually though you will have to make it clear that you have certain expectations and if he doesn't meet them then it's best for both of you to part. Very hard I know. I hope that he will come your way and your heart will be mended.

My advice - do nothing for now and focus on your own needs. Go out with some friends, have a good time.

Actually i chose to back off too because i don't really feel like myself can handle pretending anymore.

LibraRose, the fact of feel 'comfortable' with keeping silence from him within ignorance time really makes me scared now. Because it is kinda bit relief for me with that.

I understand that i shouldn't be a fake of me which means i have to be confronting him (in a date or appointment 🙂), not now but after some times.... Oh My.. What is this feeling about this time? *INDESCRIBABLE*

No, i didn't ask him that in a public place.. I never did that when anything comes about personal to me.

Posted by QLIbraMale



2. Most Libras can tell when people aren't being true to their themselfs, and your back n fourth feelings of not getting so attached yet wanted to get attached might of tipped his scale a little on the caution side.

I agree with you 😢 that's why i did back off too now because i can't stand in such situation which kinda pretending.

atest update here..

HE IS SUDDENLY APPEARED AGAIN!! I'm so excited when he asks me out for a date.. But i kinda bit nervous after nearly 3weeks we've never contacted each other. Thanks for all comments, advises and point of views. This libra forum really gave me lots of information which opened my eyes and make myself clearer about libra guy especially.

@Libragemmale, i will be myself again this time.

@ALIBRA...........!!!!!!!!! Even though we never had any conversation, i really adore you. Your advise and opinions from all other threads are so much do motivate me. (If you read this, i want you know that i really loves each words you used to make other women and me to understand more about libras) I also read about you with your aries man. I will do pray the best both of you too!

At the same time i realize he is still officially not my man, but i will take this opportunity to fight for this man if there is still a hope. I mean i can see that right now. I will struggle for it. At least, i will not regret myself for doing nothing.

Oh Thank God. Someone thats going through the same Libra-Aries eqaution.lol. I was beginning to think i was the only one head over heels for an aries. I mean i know yours is vise versa but still. lol

OMG! I just saw that last shout out to me. THANK YOOouu! I love helping everyone. I will take all the prayers I can get on my aries. He's one that I never thought I'd fall for. I love him soo much. But in regards to you and your libra, give him space, look fierce and don't be afraid of him. The attraction that everyone speaks on between the aries and libra is the way they challenge one another. No other pair challenges the other better. When one is weak the other is stronger, and vise versa its never the same. Which is why they are like magnets. And don't even get me started on the sexually chemistry because its strong enough to light the inferno to a volcano, you hear me! lol. But just don't be too dramatic. In my opinion Aries women have a tendacy to overact when in love, and libra's tend to over think things, although they may never say it. Your comment about the relationship just sort of woke him up. It let him know that (excuse my language( shyt is getting real and he needs to let you know whats up. No problem, he will tell you. No telling when because of course he has to way EVERY??_SINGLE??_PRO??_AND??_CON??_AND EVERY??_SINGLE??_OPTION??_AND SIDE of the relationship which could take ages. Make things comfortable, but don't let him get too cushy. Put that might aries foot down, but be slightly more gently with your libra man than you'd be with others, if you come off as bossy, pushy, negative anything of that nature he will surely head for the heels. Keep it light, but don't change yourself. One thing I love about my aries is he speaks his mind, but he's not rude like a saggitarius but he'll speak his mind wheteher you like it or not especially if he likes you or cares about you. I love this about him. His independence like myself, he strong I see him as a protector and a future provider so long as the woman deserves it. The one thing in particular I love about him the most, what you see is what you get. No room for heartbreak,if there's nothing to hide. So as the other's said, don't hide from him but try not to overwhelm him either. Good Luck girlie!

Two thumbs up for both ArieH and Alibra ! and I mean it you are both soooo lucky I hope it works !