Capricorn man. Why am I so attracted to Libra women/why do I attract them so much?

Despite it not being the best pairing, I've found over the years that their is always a real initial, explosive attraction that I have with Libra women. I attract them and they attract me. I've got a Gemini rising, but my rising is not so much bubbly but more intellectually cool and observant. Oddly enough, two girls that I were interested in had the same birthday, four years apart from each other.

In the span of roughly four months, I've seen three Libra women in some capacity. Liked them all, but one I broke away from, another I felt she was drifting away from me so I ended it, and the last one really got to me, but she said we didn't click as much as she thought we would. All three are what I'd consider to be somewhat flaky, but all were extremely nice and extremely beautiful physically and emotionally in their own ways. The last Libra girl I was truly into and ready to enter a relationship with, I was going off of her based on what she was telling me, and I knew Libras love companionship.

Libra fam, any tips for the Capricorn man/Libra woman pairing lol? I was looking at Cap sun/Gem rising and one thing it said was that I should try to wear the Gemini mask more.

I feel like this will not be the only time I'll come across one again, and honestly, I care about the last one enough that I'd consider dating her again if she ever came back around.

@heartoftopaz I think I found your twin flame

Posted by Timon
What is your moon? Do you know their moon sign too?

Unfortunately, I don't know their moon signs. Don't you usually need exact birth times for that?

As for myself, I've got a Virgo moon.

Caps are awesome but can be quite serious all the time. Just loosen up and make her laugh. Works for me.

Posted by Dolluxxe
Caps are awesome but can be quite serious all the time. Just loosen up and make her laugh. Works for me.

Thanks. I can be serious but often funny as well. But, my humor is much more dark and deadpan. Sometimes it takes people some time to get it, and I remember being with the last Libra, and she didn't laugh as much as some other people I'm with. So we'll see lol!...

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What is your moon? Do you know their moon sign too?

Unfortunately, I don't know their moon signs. Don't you usually need exact birth times for that?

As for myself, I've got a Virgo moon.

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@Timon is there is best way to find moon and rising signs without exact birth times?

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Caps are awesome but can be quite serious all the time. Just loosen up and make her laugh. Works for me.

Thanks. I can be serious but often funny as well. But, my humor is much more dark and deadpan. Sometimes it takes people some time to get it, and I remember being with the last Libra, and she didn't laugh as much as some other people I'm with. So we'll see lol!...

Caps humor is a bit dry. Very sarcastic. 🙂

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They can also be way too serious. A bit stiff sometimes. Opposite of goofy. I can't picture them doing stupid dance moves goofing around.

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I usually have to be a little tipsy to wanna dance. Otherwise, it's hard for me to just wanna bust a move.

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Caps are awesome but can be quite serious all the time. Just loosen up and make her laugh. Works for me.

Thanks. I can be serious but often funny as well. But, my humor is much more dark and deadpan. Sometimes it takes people some time to get it, and I remember being with the last Libra, and she didn't laugh as much as some other people I'm with. So we'll see lol!...

Caps humor is a bit dry. Very sarcastic. 🙂

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They can also be way too serious. A bit stiff sometimes. Opposite of goofy. I can't picture them doing stupid dance moves goofing around.

I usually have to be a little tipsy to wanna dance. Otherwise, it's hard for me to just wanna bust a move.

I don't know about other libras but I like it when we can laugh at each other when the other person mess up but caps usually feel mortified if they mess up so it's no fun laughing at them. Well they don't usually appreciate that type of humor. And there is nothing better when you can tease the other person about it because you know they can take it. 😆

Caps are usually very manly and kind deep down though. Gentlemen so that's a big plus. 🙂

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Yes I'm a silent alpha. But I am a gentlemen who wants and is willing to give the world to the woman I care about.

Awe that is so sweet.

My niece libra is dating a cap. He buys her whatever she wants, makeup, food, clothes whatever lol he’s so sweet

We find Caps to be incredibly gentle, loyal, and refined. Also, you guys feel a lot, but are very in control of your emotions, which we appreciate. I'm a huge fan of your dark, dry humor, but that's probably because I'm Cap dominant.

I think your attraction to them could be largely due to your mutable rising and moon. Mutables often like Libras, as both parties get off on mental stimulation.

I find this Libra-Cap compatibility reading to be very accurate:

https://forum.birthdaypersonality.org/t/libra-and-capricorn-zodiac-compatibility/2053

Posted by Fleshpot
I find this Libra-Cap compatibility reading to be very accurate:

https://forum.birthdaypersonality.org/t/libra-and-capricorn-zodiac-compatibility/2053

Wow that is accurate, should have left my last Libra woman with this lol! I think if we could have dug deeper, we could be super right for each other but it would take work.

I left the door open, we didn't end on super bad terms, but it's up to her if she wants to try again, she knows I'm into her, which I hear can be a sore spot for Libras. Also think it's problematic as we live a state away from each other.

I know that she's not stressing for male attention as most Libra females never are (despite her saying that her last relationship was in 2015, I think she dates a lot), so if she'll come around, she'll come around but I don't need to wait.

I'm a Libra girl, and I love (specific) Capricorn guys. Not the uptight ones, but the ones I've known have all been super nice. We always have long conversations about music, ambitions and just life in general. I love their awkwardness, and how shy they are at times. I love being the one to calm them down and make them feel better whenever they're anxious or nervous. I have a lot in common with most Capricorns.

Posted by librasunaquariusmoon
I'm a Libra girl, and I love (specific) Capricorn guys. Not the uptight ones, but the ones I've known have all been super nice. We always have long conversations about music, ambitions and just life in general. I love their awkwardness, and how shy they are at times. I love being the one to calm them down and make them feel better whenever they're anxious or nervous. I have a lot in common with most Capricorns.

I think this is another reason why I find the sign of Libra and Libra women so damn mesmerizing. You all have a real charm plus the beauty (and often booty 😉!). Very calming too, most Caps are in charge of their emotions but I think many of us can feel like we have the weight of the world on us at times thanks to taskmaster Saturn, and Libras are often so light and cheery. Caps can use that.

Caps can also give direction to Libras when they're lacking it. So I think it can work but requires a lot of patience and meeting in the middle. I heard somewhere that they're a sign that will sometimes come back but (honestly like most people generally), you can't force things and you just have to show them that you're doing just as well without them, if not better than you were with them for them to think about trying again.

Posted by thistletongue
ehh, cap men aren't my cup of tea personally.

the sarcasm they throw around is funny but I prefer them as friends, perhaps your gem rising is reeling libra ladies in.

Give em a shot maybe. If you're looking for loyalty it's often been said we're a sign full of it.

I feel like I'm the libra women right here. A couple of months ago I dated a capricorn. I ended it because I felt like I was really getting to him and there was something missing for me that was holding me back. I had no expectations in the beginning, which most of the time, I do. The attraction was there, explosive like you were saying. But he also had something, sort of a vibe that would always calm me down. He was a real gentleman and so sweet and kind. I felt like I maybe needed more spice, someone who is not only sweet and kind but also challenging in a way. Maybe being more mysterious and less sweet will do the thing haha. I tend to almost always go back to men who I've dated, Don't know if it's a libra thing though.

Posted by manoukjw
I feel like I'm the libra women right here. A couple of months ago I dated a capricorn. I ended it because I felt like I was really getting to him and there was something missing for me that was holding me back. I had no expectations in the beginning, which most of the time, I do. The attraction was there, explosive like you were saying. But he also had something, sort of a vibe that would always calm me down. He was a real gentleman and so sweet and kind. I felt like I maybe needed more spice, someone who is not only sweet and kind but also challenging in a way. Maybe being more mysterious and less sweet will do the thing haha. I tend to almost always go back to men who I've dated, Don't know if it's a libra thing though.

Lol, maybe I dated you? 😄

Caps are weird. I feel we can be as mysterious as any sign, but I also feel like we know this and often fearing being misunderstood, we'll just show people how we feel quickly.

I always tell women I date and am interested in to look at my actions, not necessarily my words. That shows where my heart is. For some, that's an issue. Others it takes a while to realize this.

Compared to other signs we're not the epitome of smooth verbally (I have my days though, thanks to my Gem rising haha), but we prefer to show by example. I also say that I'm not flashy but I am consistent. If I say I'm going to do something, I do it. I don't know if many of us believe in love at first sight or big "sparks", I've always considered love as something I build on with a person I'm interested in emotionally, physically, intellectually, and spiritually.Not everything may be there initially but if I'm interested I'll stay to see it through to make sure.

Posted by SpaceBird
If you didn't know their sign what was the single most thing you were drawn to?

Femininity?

Definitely. There's an air of perfection and womanly beauty most of you all give off in your pics and real life, from your bodies, your voices, your features, your intellect, etc. I think that many Cap males give off this vibe of coolness and quiet masculinity that other signs don't have or are sometimes too brash about (Leos, Aries, etc).

I think that could be a reason why there's initial explosive attraction between the signs even though they are different.

Posted by manoukjw
I feel like I'm the libra women right here. A couple of months ago I dated a capricorn. I ended it because I felt like I was really getting to him and there was something missing for me that was holding me back. I had no expectations in the beginning, which most of the time, I do. The attraction was there, explosive like you were saying. But he also had something, sort of a vibe that would always calm me down. He was a real gentleman and so sweet and kind. I felt like I maybe needed more spice, someone who is not only sweet and kind but also challenging in a way. Maybe being more mysterious and less sweet will do the thing haha. I tend to almost always go back to men who I've dated, Don't know if it's a libra thing though.

Also I've heard too that Libra is one of the signs that is more inclined to return to prior love interests. But it is dependent on them, not the other person. So I just let ya'll be and figure if she wants to try again, her air will blow her back to me. 😄

I had a two year relationship with a Capricorn. I hurt him badly and karma has been handing me my ass ever since. We had a passionate relationship. I wish I could go back and handle myself differently. However, he was def not my forever person. Great man.

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If you didn't know their sign what was the single most thing you were drawn to?

Femininity?

Definitely. There's an air of perfection and womanly beauty most of you all give off in your pics and real life, from your bodies, your voices, your features, your intellect, etc. I think that many Cap males give off this vibe of coolness and quiet masculinity that other signs don't have or are sometimes too brash about (Leos, Aries, etc).

I think that could be a reason why there's initial explosive attraction between the signs even though they are different.

you? I am not a Libra ...but eh thanks 😉 xx

Caps give off sly sexy wolf vibes.

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Yeah we're definitely loners at times who don't care. Nose to the grindstone type people who just keep smashing through obstacles.

I generally have a hard time with Caps so idk what to tell you lol.

I only kept one cap friend out of all the different caps I know/knew... and that's a long distance, see you every 5 years friendship.

I guess I can just tell you what not to do to piss off a Libra... I've never been in a relationship with a cap though, this is based on friendships. I'm a Libra gal btw.

Libra's don't like being told what to do... I find caps to be extremely particular about how they like things done, and they like things to be done their way. Well, Libras also do things their way lol... And they hate being criticized about their tasks.

I find many caps I knew in the past tended to be very self centred, and want things to go according to their plans, wanting a lot attention, and wanting people to just go with whatever they say at any point at any time. Being a laid back Libra, I can deal with this and go with the flow, but honestly not at the rate the caps that I've known have dished it. After a while I lose my patience. I just feel like I can never please a cap, never make them happy, (as friends!), and they perpetually walk all over me/others and can be demanding.

I'm not saying all caps are bad people, I have very recently learned that while signs do play a part, the individual themselves is a really big part of what you'll get from the person. Signs I feel influence our "tendencies", and we can always try to change/control our tendencies... compromise for the ones we love.

I'm just trying to convey what are some of the negative things I've seen before, and if you can, to avoid them! 🙂

I've had terrible luck with Virgo men in dating (resulting in me flat out not dating them at all) until I met my current prince charming who is a Virgo and things have been so amazing. So I know all people are different despite their signs.

Posted by notoriouslibra
I generally have a hard time with Caps so idk what to tell you lol.

I only kept one cap friend out of all the different caps I know/knew... and that's a long distance, see you every 5 years friendship.

I guess I can just tell you what not to do to piss off a Libra... I've never been in a relationship with a cap though, this is based on friendships. I'm a Libra gal btw.

Libra's don't like being told what to do... I find caps to be extremely particular about how they like things done, and they like things to be done their way. Well, Libras also do things their way lol... And they hate being criticized about their tasks.

I find many caps I knew in the past tended to be very self centred, and want things to go according to their plans, wanting a lot attention, and wanting people to just go with whatever they say at any point at any time. Being a laid back Libra, I can deal with this and go with the flow, but honestly not at the rate the caps that I've known have dished it. After a while I lose my patience. I just feel like I can never please a cap, never make them happy, (as friends!), and they perpetually walk all over me/others and can be demanding.

I'm not saying all caps are bad people, I have very recently learned that while signs do play a part, the individual themselves is a really big part of what you'll get from the person. Signs I feel influence our "tendencies", and we can always try to change/control our tendencies... compromise for the ones we love.

I'm just trying to convey what are some of the negative things I've seen before, and if you can, to avoid them! 🙂

I've had terrible luck with Virgo men in dating (resulting in me flat out not dating them at all) until I met my current prince charming who is a Virgo and things have been so amazing. So I know all people are different despite their signs.

Yep, all signs have pluses and minuses but some of it is realizing it more and accentuating your other parts of yourself and the chart. We're not bad people, Caps, but we can be so driven on a particular goal or ideal that occasionally we can seem self-centered. I will do anything for my family and close friends and whoever is my significant other, but it is a little hard for me to be that generous with anyone else who isn't in my limited inner circle.