Cheering up a bored libran gal.

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Waseem93Safdar on Wednesday, February 5, 2014 and has 8 replies.

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@Waseem93Safdar
12 YearsCancer

Hi all. πŸ™‚ I just need a bit of advice about cheering up a bored libran gal that I'm into atm.
(Sorry about the English, not my strongest point lol )

Well, I'm a 20 year old Cancerian into an 18 y.o libran gal. We've had our ups & downs, like every other libran-cancerian story...lol
Things are peaceful atm but they are turning out to be a bit boring. I read my love horoscope & it too pedicts a very very boring few next days b/w us....
So, Please advice me what should I do to stop this boredom? I've tried all those typical libran turn-ons in the past, so kindly suggest something new. πŸ˜›
AND OH YES, MY ONLY MEANS OF COMMUNICATION WITH HER IS THROUGH Facebook, So please advice in accordance with that....

Thank you in advance. πŸ™‚

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@sweethearts
20 Years5,000+ Posts

If you have been together a very short time and things are boring between you now...I don't think you can do anything.

You mustn't have much common ground.

You can try as hard as you like now but eventually you will stop trying and then the boredom will come back. Then what?

Should it be that hard?

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@Waseem93Safdar
12 YearsCancer

We've been together now for over a year & a half! πŸ™‚
This is the FIRST time I'm *feeling* like things are getting a bit boring.
And let me tell you something, maybe, just maybe I feel it that way 'cause I read mine & her love scope......
But those love scopes have been spot on every time!
It ain't that I'm too superstitions or something.....but well, I really want to turn her on in a newer way.....more like to stop her from talking (I better say flirting), with her other male friends!
LOL Typical cancerian, eh? πŸ˜›

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@Waseem93Safdar
12 YearsCancer

Our 'relationship' is a pretty stable one atm....So, with all due respect, it'd be better if you give me advice on cheering her up, instead of shoving into our partnership. No offence. πŸ™‚ *All smiles*

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@Waseem93Safdar
12 YearsCancer

Thanks for the advice.
And yes, I've met her IRL. She moved places a few years ago, so we just communicate through fb or other social networks now.
And ya, I'll try to communicate a bit more & talk about those interests etc.....but isn't there anything more you wanna add to your piece of advice, please. 'cause I really wanna know more as how to really keep her interested, keeping in mind the fact that airy signs need MENTAL stimulation....

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@Waseem93Safdar
12 YearsCancer

Yep, no doubt it's a bit tricky.
I sent her a request to play 8-ball on Fb, it was a long time ago, & she turned it down saying that she ain't much into games etc. So, nothing there ofcourse.
Your advice on mental stimulation was hands down the best in a while... πŸ™‚ And ohh yeah, I got what you meant by "other mental stimulation". lol I've had already practiced a part of that somehow, & it worked out well. LOL πŸ˜›
Whatever you said about those "most important common grounds that we both should have" was spot on. I couldn't agree more to that!
Let's hope for the best! πŸ™‚

And thank you very much for all that advice. It was kind of you....made me feel better. πŸ™‚