concerned about my libra ex

i was with him for 7 years. i broke up with him back in late 2007 but we have remained good friends to this day. we discuss his dating life a lot. he says there are a lot of women chasing him but he can't seem to land one. he lives in a ritzier area where the women are often pretty, wealthy, and overall successful. he, too, is good looking, wealthy, and successful yet he is having a lot of problems.

i don't get it. he's a total package deal and he's finally being hounded by the type of women he's always wanted but nothing is ever followed through. he's even told me that he'll meet these women, receives clear signals that they want his attention, but he also fails to follow through with sealing the deal. he's even resorted to dating sites to help him. i warned him that on the exterior a lot of these women may appear to have it all going on but he might be disappointed when he actually gets to know them (a lotta them are insecure and high maintenance princesses which he doesn't tolerate).

he says he's not thinking along the lines of a serious relationship, but if he isn't, then why is he having so much difficulty? it also seems that sometimes he tries to make me jealous, but when it's obvious that i'm not (i'm really not!), he becomes rather condescending like his ego is bruised. every once in a while he still comes to me for sex too but i always turn him down because i am no longer sexually attracted to him.

so what do u think is going on with him? i'm starting to get the feeling that he still wants me to want him and is growing more upset over time that i'm better off without him.

lol if that was me.. that would definitely be my plan to get someone back. Show how amazing life is but then I show them that i'm missing something very important. I think his message is to tell you that he wants you... I have a tendency to lie sometimes if it's "necessary". From what you wrote, imo he's definitely going after you.

It takes as long as it takes.

I was really surprise when I first seriously started dating after my ex just how many unsuitable men (I am sure the same can be said about women) were out there! I was blown away by just how messed up people were. The amount of free therapy I gave ... lol! It was very much a grin and bare it thing till I found someone who wasn't all screwed up from the past and I had fun with.

Let him date and don't worry about it. He will figure it out when he is ready. 🙂