my turn for my libra dilemna!

He doesnt trust you!! You copied his message to another guy? Or you pasted another guy messages 2 him? Either way, that's foul..

no i pasted his own messages to me to him back (by accident). Um, wot do u mean he doesn't trust me? Well, we met and he seemed pretty over it?!!

So was it a guy or girl as in you bf that you were talking too?

*your

it was a girl. he knows (well i told him) that im extremely close to her and tell her everything.

Ok, from your description above it seemed like a guy! Now that we have that cleared up, lets tap into his mind a bit...

He seemed to have really liked you before this happened, Libra folks are really really private & we need to feel comfy with the person we like. We need to trust you or else you will not get any where with us. We can shut down at the drop of an hat..

In my opinion, that turned him off a bit and to make matters worse you are chasing him waaaaaaaaaay 2 much... Just back off and allow him to contact you. If he is interested then you will hear from him. It might be awhile becuz we move slow when were on the fence about YOU.

And thanks so much for your advice! :-) Im new to all of this!! The guy i went out with before this (Aquarian) got me into horoscopes!

Stop texting him and contacting him. Give him time to think and come to you. He came back once and bam you took chase again. I think the guy like you, but you are doing way to much. Chill and continue dating others..

One thing about Libras is if you bother us while were on the fence thinking, WE WRITE YOU OFF... Poof...

No prob.. Whats ur sign & moon sign? Do you know his?

Oh my.. U gotta find out his bday and yr he was born. LOL.. Cancer moons are very clingy, so I understand you.

If he is still replying to text then thats a good sign! Just play cool.. Talk normal and stop asking for dates, be his friend and build the trust again. Move slow.. Dont ignore his text, maybe wait awhile after he text you. I hope you friend has a scorpio moon, LOL..

U just need his birthday7 yr! U seem like a sweet gal.. 2 me he seems to enjoy you chasing him without putting much work in, if he wants you then allow him to come get you. Libra men are very romantic and loyal. The only way they cheat is if a woman is being untrust worthy or pushing whilst he's on the fence! I SO LUV LIBRA MEN.. Great guys!!

Find out his bday when he text you again becuz as you know Libra's are next month... *wink*

Since youre a Cap with cancer moon it would be great if he had a scorpio moon. Seems more compatable!!

xxxx...

thanks ur really sweet urself.

yeah i once joked about buying him a coffee machine for his birthday as he has an obsession with coffee... well, if he replies tomorrow i will casually ask for his birthday... i know the year & month just not the date!!

we met on a dating site and then he told me that i didnt need it as i was too hot for it and i told him i didnt think he needed it either, so we both took our profiles down. he hasn't got it back up since then either...

Guess now only time will tell. My first libran...

Posted by kierkegaarder
thanks ur really sweet urself.

yeah i once joked about buying him a coffee machine for his birthday as he has an obsession with coffee... well, if he replies tomorrow i will casually ask for his birthday... i know the year & month just not the date!!

we met on a dating site and then he told me that i didnt need it as i was too hot for it and i told him i didnt think he needed it either, so we both took our profiles down. he hasn't got it back up since then either...

Guess now only time will tell. My first libran...

Glad I could help calm you.

Libra's are good people but you need a lot of patience to understand us. We dont trust easy, again you gave him a reason to question trust. Altho it wasnt a supre big deal, small stuff matters in the heart..

I honestly think this guy like you!!! I just feel it from your replies, just be paient and find out his bday. Show more interest in him as a man. In other words work that trust back up.. Did he respond to you quick before this copy/paste stuff?

Um, before the copy/paste stuff, he didnt ask me out by he did reply pretty promptly on msn and once we had a good conversation, he sent me a text good night and said he enjoyed talking. But there was quite a bit of flirting going on and him complimenting me.

Posted by kierkegaarder
Um, before the copy/paste stuff, he didnt ask me out by he did reply pretty promptly on msn and once we had a good conversation, he sent me a text good night and said he enjoyed talking. But there was quite a bit of flirting going on and him complimenting me.

Oh ok.. I see...

Just give him sometime.. He'll be back, LOL.. U still have the power!! *wink*

US? or another country?

United Kingdom

Posted by kierkegaarder
United Kingdom

http://www.0800-horoscope.com/birthchart.php

Go there to find out his moon..^

Crap. his moon is in LEO.

hahaha.. Leo/Cancer emotions.. Hmmm!

what does that mean— *confused*

Posted by kierkegaarder
what does that mean— *confused*

Moon Leo-Moon Cancer

Proud and somewhat self-centered, Leo very much wants recognition, appreciation, applause, and to be the favorite or the center of attention. Leo craves affirmation and love but may be hard to know really well, as weaknesses, problems, doubts or insecurities are rarely admitted.

Leo has a dramatic streak and tends to exaggerate or blow things out of proportion. Wounded pride or a feeling of being ignored, neglected, or "not special" are Leo's particular sensitivities. Cancer is a much softer, more private, sensitive shy person than Leo is, much less of a showman, and Leo's histrionics are too much for Cancer at times. Leo is usually sunny, sociable, good humored, while Cancer is often moody and needs to withdraw sometimes. Cancer has emotional ups and downs, while Leo is fairly constant emotionally. You may be a complementary pair, though, because Cancer is supportive and will not compete for dominance with Leo, and Leo appreciates Cancer's supportiveness and sympathy. You are both very protective, loyal, and warm toward one another.

Compatibility Rating: (See color codes below)

http://www.cafeastrology.com/moonsignleocompatibility.html#cancer

From What I've read.. You hurt him bad. Also the fact that he has a leo moon you punched his sense of pride. You should leave him in my opinion. Things can get worst.. I don't think I would ever be able to go back to someone who hurts me very bad :S Hopefully he's not planning a revenge plot on you by befriending and then making you chase him.

Posted by LIBRAry
From What I've read.. You hurt him bad. Also the fact that he has a leo moon you punched his sense of pride. You should leave him in my opinion. Things can get worst.. I don't think I would ever be able to go back to someone who hurts me very bad :S Hopefully he's not planning a revenge plot on you by befriending and then making you chase him.

I have no idea how I hurt his ego really bad. If anything he should be flattered that I am even sharing it with my friend because it shows how much I am into him. Oh well. Sounds way too complicated and I hate for beginnings to be like that. Oh well, I think I will just leave it then. Probably pointless anyway, things shouldn't be that hard. Thanks for responding.

P.s. Revenge plot? Wow, do librans get that childish? Geez.

Revenge plot is a possibility. I don't know how high of a percentage it is for your libra. Throughout my experience, Cappy and a Libra never works. The way cappies view things is just totally what we don't view it as. I don't see how he should be flattered that your sharing information that should be kept between only 2 people. In my opinion, he thought you were probably just toying w/ him and pretty much used him.

Uh were not too childish.. I mean if you put yourself is his shoes and interpret everything it might be different than what you are thinking. So if theres misunderstandings and if it just leads our opponent being a big db, then we can always return the favor. It would probably be something indirect though, just so it doesn't look like we meant to do anything 🙂.

I still stand by my conclusion. Just leave. Find a scorpy, they are perfect for you guys 🙂

forreal if whoever i'm talkin to copie and paste our converstation to another person i be hella pissed off myself, that's private, libra keep things to themselve even though it seem like he's over it while you guys having lunch but i'm sure he still think about it in his head.

Posted by LIBRAry
Revenge plot is a possibility. I don't know how high of a percentage it is for your libra. Throughout my experience, Cappy and a Libra never works. The way cappies view things is just totally what we don't view it as. I don't see how he should be flattered that your sharing information that should be kept between only 2 people. In my opinion, he thought you were probably just toying w/ him and pretty much used him.

Uh were not too childish.. I mean if you put yourself is his shoes and interpret everything it might be different than what you are thinking. So if theres misunderstandings and if it just leads our opponent being a big db, then we can always return the favor. It would probably be something indirect though, just so it doesn't look like we meant to do anything 🙂.

I still stand by my conclusion. Just leave. Find a scorpy, they are perfect for you guys 🙂

I had a scorpy once. He used me and abused me and he still stalks me from time to time. Staying away. From my own experience, Leos are best for Cappies. x

If that what his motive his then yes it best that you diss his ass completly and move on with your life, find yourself a Leos i actually know few leos-cappys couples out there 🙂 good combo.

My longest r/ship was with a Leo. He was nothing but amazing but i fxxked it up. I heard Pisces is pretty good as well. And strangely enough I nearly married an Aquarius (who happens to be my soulmate)