cool, calm and collected

yes we are. We can detach from you in a second. as soon as those emotions flood in.....poof we are gone quicker than a turned off aries. We do not wallow in emotions. that can be good and bad. We have emotions, but if they interfer with logic then they are ignored, shut off, unplug and discared.


We have emotions, we just do not show them. We are cerebral-so we assess the situation. Like this "It is taking alot out of me not to touch her, and if i do i will go to jail, lose my job and be on probation. I rathe leave"We look at the situation as a whole, especially if its minor. But deep down we are a fiery furnace, a hurricane brewing but b/c o can throw u off course, off the origanl plan then we discard them and dal with them later


You know those arguements we get in for no apparent reason? thoe are the days that weare balancing out and you are around for on the wrong day. We are getting rid of allthta emotional drama and those pesky feelings we discaded and filed under unneccessasary. then we are back to normal b/c the emotions and mind are back on one plane



but b/c the emotions and mind are never on the same page-we become extreme, become 2 different people damn near. Aquarius do this very very seldomly, they are always one way and NEVER even allow emtoions to outrule logic-ever. Yu have to push hem very very very vry very far beore the respond andits usually a phyical response you will get.

but we are very aware peole. We are aware of ourself and of the situation but the response is unbalanced. you see it as cold, careless and uncaring but we try to seperate it in our mind and shrug it off b/c we dont want people to see how angry we have gotten. we hold it in but b/c we are quick to move on, we are just as quick to dump off that emotion into the subconscious, so w can forget rather quickly



We lack that on place in our heart that allows us to express how we feel freely in a moderate way that wont make s feel a ittle embarrased, hurt or rejected. So we just ignore you and then one day we just explode with affection and then it followed by periods of retreat.


mainly that is for the women whoare troubled by libra men nd do they love them or the motive behind libras action. No one knows but the libra b/c the true self is hidden behind the mind so no emotion can dip us out of balance. Its when we truly do feel alone and when we need lone time so we can empty out those emotions and return to a controlled exterior. It just takes maturity and how to intergrate how we feel with who we are. And we have to assert that. That one libra that balances the mind and the heart and can tell you how he feels but until then the main way to tell if you hurt us is


1.if we walkoff right then and there, tha immediate reaction. Annoyance is an emotion, so e might no be jealous, just annoyed by your prsence. I know i cant stand to be around people i disapprove of so i il walk off.

2. if we get quiet-we are trying to stuff those emotions back down so w can think clearly

3.body movement. IF we look uncmfrtable like we hve o constantly stroke or beard, or scratch the head, its a sign of emotions


4. eye contact-it maybe quick glances on and off on and off but if they keep occuring then yea, you triggered somthing. It may be a faint stare but the quick glances are a tell tell sign cuz we can usally stare away from you with ease

so how do things progress from there?

it depends. If you pressure us we will respond, angerily, annoyed in an annoyed tone with sharp response. The tone f the voice will change and eve our eye contact will be more direct. the more pressure you put on him the more dircect libra males will be and they will tell you whats on the mind


thats why we dont like being pressured, we rather walk away with things in tact and make plans to end it. That way no bridges have been detroyed by emotional scenes, no one is hurt and we all walk away unscaffed. To a libra, words are far more hurtful than actions and spiteful words can make us leave just as quick but if you keep going and going on we will respond and damage everything with no sense of pity, shame or guilt b/c it truly was your fault for pushing the issue

we respond to pressure and you will either get a direct answer or a reluctant action

eventually we will follow instinct-the only thing that prolongs it is any sign of emotion-any. But it doesnt change our mind, jst changes the course. And if instinct says leave, we will leave you one day and nothing you can do will stop it, its just a prolonged process

so all instincts point to leaving?

(h0w about cryptic messages?)

what you typed sounded like my liebe when he was 22. He's different now, having put himself through multitude experiences that helped him resolve his thought processes.