Rely on someone or be relied upon, talk about problems or listen to someone else's? Or is it a little of both... I haven't figured it out yet...
Do leebs like to nurture, or be nurtured...
Posted by tizianiWhy does it bring trouble?? People want to care about you.
When I was younger, being nurtured was my meal ticket inside of relationships. Outside of it I am naturally naturing to most people.
Now I've learnt to reign it in on both counts. Being nurtured inside a relationship brings way more trouble than it is worth.
I'm sure when I get older still, I'll probably find a middle ground.
Posted by boxcarmirntaA little bit of both, I think. I also have a Cap moon and many water placements, though. And I have sun conjunct Uranus in 11th. Respect the bubble and my independence! Lol. (I feel like I am a tough nut to crack; the balance is never right).
Rely on someone or be relied upon, talk about problems or listen to someone else's? Or is it a little of both... I haven't figured it out yet...
Posted by outofdarknessI feel the same. The bubble is your secret world?Posted by boxcarmirntaA little bit of both, I think. I also have a Cap moon and many water placements, though. And I have sun conjunct Uranus in 11th. Respect the bubble and my independence! Lol. (I feel like I am a tough nut to crack; the balance is never right).
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I'm going to be honest in saying, it is very difficult for me to rely on others. I do a lot for others, but find it hard to ask for help or depend on anyone else. I'm pretty independent.
Everyone knows this about me. It wasn't until my Fiancé brought it to my attention how much I am like that. He said he wanted to take care of me, that we are a team and it shouldn't always be me doing things for others. He said he appreciates it of course, but that I shouldn't feel like I need to always do for others. He flat out told me, let me help. Lol
In other relationships, they simply accepted it and let me do a lot for them. He is not like that.
And I have to say...when it's even...it feels really good.
Everyone knows this about me. It wasn't until my Fiancé brought it to my attention how much I am like that. He said he wanted to take care of me, that we are a team and it shouldn't always be me doing things for others. He said he appreciates it of course, but that I shouldn't feel like I need to always do for others. He flat out told me, let me help. Lol
In other relationships, they simply accepted it and let me do a lot for them. He is not like that.
And I have to say...when it's even...it feels really good.
From what I've seen of the libras in my life they prefer to be nurtured, male and female. All of them describe their ideal relationship as them being a stay at home wife/husband but none of them actually intend to cook or clean unless specifically asked...and sometimes even then they'll flake out on that. Also all of them are what I'd describe as video game addicts lol.
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I'm going to be honest in saying, it is very difficult for me to rely on others. I do a lot for others, but find it hard to ask for help or depend on anyone else. I'm pretty independent.
Everyone knows this about me. It wasn't until my Fiancé brought it to my attention how much I am like that. He said he wanted to take care of me, that we are a team and it shouldn't always be me doing things for others. He said he appreciates it of course, but that I shouldn't feel like I need to always do for others. He flat out told me, let me help. Lol
In other relationships, they simply accepted it and let me do a lot for them. He is not like that.
And I have to say...when it's even...it feels really good.
Aw what a sweetie! Lucky you. 🙂
I am much more nurturing. I'd like it to be 50/50, but I have a hard time accepting or asking for that. I tend to just rely on myself.
Posted by CatullusWeird.
From what I've seen of the libras in my life they prefer to be nurtured, male and female. All of them describe their ideal relationship as them being a stay at home wife/husband but none of them actually intend to cook or clean unless specifically asked...and sometimes even then they'll flake out on that. Also all of them are what I'd describe as video game addicts lol.
Posted by MutabullMeh! I say just text him!! It's ok?Posted by tizianiNo, it's not fair..or enough.. ? I'm gonna need some alcohol soon...and someone to confiscate my phone when I get itchy fingers..Posted by MutabullFair enough 😄Posted by tizianiLol! Day 14 no contact. My heart is hurting tonight but I can't...I wont. If he's not missing me and has moved on, I'm not about to initiate.Posted by MutabullDon't fight it.
Nurtured. Libra men/boys are big babies. They want to feel loved, they are touchy, like to be fed, cleaned up after. My son and my ex...but it's hard not to love them, even when you wanna strangle them.
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Usually you'd say they love both as they are the sign of equality and fairness. However experience says that Leebs prefer way more to nurture than to be nurtured. They love to shower their partners with love and affection - Libras normally are very comfortable with showing love (all types of it from friedship to parental) and love to do it. Plus, a Leeb doesn't have a way to show his proper romance - they so much want to please their partner that they can do the sappiest romance to a Cancer r the weirdest least conventional for an Aquarius or a Pisces that capacity of adapting and compromise is already for itself a way of nurturing their loved ones.
Some people might have different opinions because what happens is Libras also like to be nurtured. They don't mind being the ones that show the most love, but they won't stick around with someone that won't even smile. They would like to feel the come back of the love they gave although they don't demand to be in the same proportion: basically it has to be equal amount of love or a little less or a little more. Never go to extremes...and that's valid to the expressing too much love because they leaves the Libra suffocated or mistrusting you.
Some people might have different opinions because what happens is Libras also like to be nurtured. They don't mind being the ones that show the most love, but they won't stick around with someone that won't even smile. They would like to feel the come back of the love they gave although they don't demand to be in the same proportion: basically it has to be equal amount of love or a little less or a little more. Never go to extremes...and that's valid to the expressing too much love because they leaves the Libra suffocated or mistrusting you.
Posted by CatullusI really call BS on that...
From what I've seen of the libras in my life they prefer to be nurtured, male and female. All of them describe their ideal relationship as them being a stay at home wife/husband but none of them actually intend to cook or clean unless specifically asked...and sometimes even then they'll flake out on that. Also all of them are what I'd describe as video game addicts lol.
Or it might be the Libras you know because generally I find them very independent and perfer to rely on themselves. They are a bit of control freaks even so... I don't buy that speech of yours.
Posted by MutabullWhats yr saga?Posted by tizianiLol! Day 14 no contact. My heart is hurting tonight but I can't...I wont. If he's not missing me and has moved on, I'm not about to initiate.Posted by MutabullDon't fight it.
Nurtured. Libra men/boys are big babies. They want to feel loved, they are touchy, like to be fed, cleaned up after. My son and my ex...but it's hard not to love them, even when you wanna strangle them.
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Posted by FrogPrinceThis makes sense.. Seems people are on both sides of the fence here.
Usually you'd say they love both as they are the sign of equality and fairness. However experience says that Leebs prefer way more to nurture than to be nurtured. They love to shower their partners with love and affection - Libras normally are very comfortable with showing love (all types of it from friedship to parental) and love to do it. Plus, a Leeb doesn't have a way to show his proper romance - they so much want to please their partner that they can do the sappiest romance to a Cancer r the weirdest least conventional for an Aquarius or a Pisces that capacity of adapting and compromise is already for itself a way of nurturing their loved ones.
Some people might have different opinions because what happens is Libras also like to be nurtured. They don't mind being the ones that show the most love, but they won't stick around with someone that won't even smile. They would like to feel the come back of the love they gave although they don't demand to be in the same proportion: basically it has to be equal amount of love or a little less or a little more. Never go to extremes...and that's valid to the expressing too much love because they leaves the Libra suffocated or mistrusting you.
Posted by MutabullThat message of him was a way of saying: "let's seat and talk about this I'm willing to give you another chance". If you want to...you better run to catch the bus because with time he will eventually let you go and soon or later Libras are able to let it go. SOmehting even worse can happen though: he will stick with you base don rationality "there aren't other prespective sof love in his life...he's accomodated...age, work, life in general" and that means that he'll stick by your side but deep down everyday he tells himself: "C'mon , you love her, put a smile on your face and make her happy!". He'll find a middle ground eventually and be happy, but in his hearth he has doubt, he'll still be indicisive and look at you as a possible mistake.Posted by TeenaI hurt him with my last text, two weeks ago..I told him I had moved on. My pride won't let me go back now. He did send me something on instagram last week, just a quote that said "overthinking kills your happiness". I just gave it a ?...when I saw it, 5 days after he sent it...but nothing since from either of us. I don't know if we are both being stubborn or he really doesn't want to talk.Posted by MutabullMeh! I say just text him!! It's ok?Posted by tizianiNo, it's not fair..or enough.. ? I'm gonna need some alcohol soon...and someone to confiscate my phone when I get itchy fingers..Posted by MutabullFair enough 😄Posted by tizianiLol! Day 14 no contact. My heart is hurting tonight but I can't...I wont. If he's not missing me and has moved on, I'm not about to initiate.Posted by MutabullDon't fight it.
Nurtured. Libra men/boys are big babies. They want to feel loved, they are touchy, like to be fed, cleaned up after. My son and my ex...but it's hard not to love them, even when you wanna strangle them.
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Posted by MutabullYou said you moved on? Damn that sounds bad. But he still tried to reach out. Good sign.Posted by TeenaI hurt him with my last text, two weeks ago..I told him I had moved on. My pride won't let me go back now. He did send me something on instagram last week, just a quote that said "overthinking kills your happiness". I just gave it a ?...when I saw it, 5 days after he sent it...but nothing since from either of us. I don't know if we are both being stubborn or he really doesn't want to talk.Posted by MutabullMeh! I say just text him!! It's ok?Posted by tizianiNo, it's not fair..or enough.. ? I'm gonna need some alcohol soon...and someone to confiscate my phone when I get itchy fingers..Posted by MutabullFair enough 😄Posted by tizianiLol! Day 14 no contact. My heart is hurting tonight but I can't...I wont. If he's not missing me and has moved on, I'm not about to initiate.Posted by MutabullDon't fight it.
Nurtured. Libra men/boys are big babies. They want to feel loved, they are touchy, like to be fed, cleaned up after. My son and my ex...but it's hard not to love them, even when you wanna strangle them.
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I still see a possibility of you guys getting back together. Maybe he's waiting for you to reach out now? Maybe he's scared of hearing something bad again..like say " You should move on.. I already said I did"
Posted by boxcarmirntaYes!Posted by outofdarknessI feel the same. The bubble is your secret world?Posted by boxcarmirntaA little bit of both, I think. I also have a Cap moon and many water placements, though. And I have sun conjunct Uranus in 11th. Respect the bubble and my independence! Lol. (I feel like I am a tough nut to crack; the balance is never right).
Rely on someone or be relied upon, talk about problems or listen to someone else's? Or is it a little of both... I haven't figured it out yet...click to expand
Posted by MutabullOh no no no! That sounds irreparable.Posted by TeenaWell it was worse than that. I really hurt him..and I had already hurt him before that too. Shortly after we broke up, I told him I was starting to develop feelings for a friend (scorp I had dated a while ago). Which I was, but hadn't acted on it, and we were broken up. He got so mad. Then he was being a dick a couple weeks ago, so I said I had slept with someone else, cause he said I would never have better sex than with him. I wanted to hit him where it hurt..and I did. He said "you slept with someone already?" Then I said well, you wanted me to move on, so I did. That's the last message I sent. It got pretty mean. ?Posted by MutabullYou said you moved on? Damn that sounds bad. But he still tried to reach out. Good sign.Posted by TeenaI hurt him with my last text, two weeks ago..I told him I had moved on. My pride won't let me go back now. He did send me something on instagram last week, just a quote that said "overthinking kills your happiness". I just gave it a ?...when I saw it, 5 days after he sent it...but nothing since from either of us. I don't know if we are both being stubborn or he really doesn't want to talk.Posted by MutabullMeh! I say just text him!! It's ok?Posted by tizianiNo, it's not fair..or enough.. ? I'm gonna need some alcohol soon...and someone to confiscate my phone when I get itchy fingers..Posted by MutabullFair enough 😄Posted by tizianiLol! Day 14 no contact. My heart is hurting tonight but I can't...I wont. If he's not missing me and has moved on, I'm not about to initiate.Posted by MutabullDon't fight it.
Nurtured. Libra men/boys are big babies. They want to feel loved, they are touchy, like to be fed, cleaned up after. My son and my ex...but it's hard not to love them, even when you wanna strangle them.
I still see a possibility of you guys getting back together. Maybe he's waiting for you to reach out now? Maybe he's scared of hearing something bad again..like say " You should move on.. I already said I did"
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All that just to get back at him??!! Sad! Bad!!?
Posted by MutabullPosted by TeenaWell it was worse than that. I really hurt him..and I had already hurt him before that too. Shortly after we broke up, I told him I was starting to develop feelings for a friend (scorp I had dated a while ago). Which I was, but hadn't acted on it, and we were broken up. He got so mad. Then he was being a dick a couple weeks ago, so I said I had slept with someone else, cause he said I would never have better sex than with him. I wanted to hit him where it hurt..and I did. He said "you slept with someone already?" Then I said well, you wanted me to move on, so I did. That's the last message I sent. It got pretty mean. ?Posted by MutabullYou said you moved on? Damn that sounds bad. But he still tried to reach out. Good sign.Posted by TeenaI hurt him with my last text, two weeks ago..I told him I had moved on. My pride won't let me go back now. He did send me something on instagram last week, just a quote that said "overthinking kills your happiness". I just gave it a ?...when I saw it, 5 days after he sent it...but nothing since from either of us. I don't know if we are both being stubborn or he really doesn't want to talk.Posted by MutabullMeh! I say just text him!! It's ok?Posted by tizianiNo, it's not fair..or enough.. ? I'm gonna need some alcohol soon...and someone to confiscate my phone when I get itchy fingers..Posted by MutabullFair enough 😄Posted by tizianiLol! Day 14 no contact. My heart is hurting tonight but I can't...I wont. If he's not missing me and has moved on, I'm not about to initiate.Posted by MutabullDon't fight it.
Nurtured. Libra men/boys are big babies. They want to feel loved, they are touchy, like to be fed, cleaned up after. My son and my ex...but it's hard not to love them, even when you wanna strangle them.
I still see a possibility of you guys getting back together. Maybe he's waiting for you to reach out now? Maybe he's scared of hearing something bad again..like say " You should move on.. I already said I did"
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Rollercoasters never last.. You gotta get off the ride someday...... Id take a break from this.. Hopefully a permanent one.
Posted by FrogPrinceDid you not read my comment? "From what I've seen of the libras in my life-"Posted by CatullusI really call BS on that...
From what I've seen of the libras in my life they prefer to be nurtured, male and female. All of them describe their ideal relationship as them being a stay at home wife/husband but none of them actually intend to cook or clean unless specifically asked...and sometimes even then they'll flake out on that. Also all of them are what I'd describe as video game addicts lol.
Or it might be the Libras you know because generally I find them very independent and perfer to rely on themselves. They are a bit of control freaks even so... I don't buy that speech of yours.
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I'm not bashing the sign as a whole and I love the libras I know 'cause they're like cuddly puppies but I'm not going to lie on their behalf and extol them as some virtuous all caring giving saints 'cause they're not. Love them but they have some Peter Pan syndrome shit going on.
And again, I'm talking about the ones I know.
Posted by topesThe situation is just plain sad. I wish she didn't go that far...but I don't know the whole story.Posted by TeenaTheres a 9/10 chance of him not wanting anything more to do with her. Libra hates vengeance. He is praying she fucks off and doeant return.Posted by MutabullOh no no no! That sounds irreparable.Posted by TeenaWell it was worse than that. I really hurt him..and I had already hurt him before that too. Shortly after we broke up, I told him I was starting to develop feelings for a friend (scorp I had dated a while ago). Which I was, but hadn't acted on it, and we were broken up. He got so mad. Then he was being a dick a couple weeks ago, so I said I had slept with someone else, cause he said I would never have better sex than with him. I wanted to hit him where it hurt..and I did. He said "you slept with someone already?" Then I said well, you wanted me to move on, so I did. That's the last message I sent. It got pretty mean. ?Posted by MutabullYou said you moved on? Damn that sounds bad. But he still tried to reach out. Good sign.Posted by TeenaI hurt him with my last text, two weeks ago..I told him I had moved on. My pride won't let me go back now. He did send me something on instagram last week, just a quote that said "overthinking kills your happiness". I just gave it a ?...when I saw it, 5 days after he sent it...but nothing since from either of us. I don't know if we are both being stubborn or he really doesn't want to talk.Posted by MutabullMeh! I say just text him!! It's ok?Posted by tizianiNo, it's not fair..or enough.. ? I'm gonna need some alcohol soon...and someone to confiscate my phone when I get itchy fingers..Posted by MutabullFair enough 😄Posted by tizianiLol! Day 14 no contact. My heart is hurting tonight but I can't...I wont. If he's not missing me and has moved on, I'm not about to initiate.Posted by MutabullDon't fight it.
Nurtured. Libra men/boys are big babies. They want to feel loved, they are touchy, like to be fed, cleaned up after. My son and my ex...but it's hard not to love them, even when you wanna strangle them.
I still see a possibility of you guys getting back together. Maybe he's waiting for you to reach out now? Maybe he's scared of hearing something bad again..like say " You should move on.. I already said I did"
All that just to get back at him??!! Sad! Bad!!?
Strong raging bull influences are anti Libra. Most if not all Aphros regret any partnerships with those with solar/lunar bull in them.
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Sorry about your experiences.
Posted by MutabullI've seen this before. Libras ALWAYS try reaching out however dirty the last scene was... especially guys. Do you still love him? Can you get over all that has happened? Can he?Posted by TeenaI know. I'm surprised he even reached out at all. I'm not sure we could ever come back from the places we have been. We both hurt each other a lot. ?Posted by MutabullOh no no no! That sounds irreparable.Posted by TeenaWell it was worse than that. I really hurt him..and I had already hurt him before that too. Shortly after we broke up, I told him I was starting to develop feelings for a friend (scorp I had dated a while ago). Which I was, but hadn't acted on it, and we were broken up. He got so mad. Then he was being a dick a couple weeks ago, so I said I had slept with someone else, cause he said I would never have better sex than with him. I wanted to hit him where it hurt..and I did. He said "you slept with someone already?" Then I said well, you wanted me to move on, so I did. That's the last message I sent. It got pretty mean. ?Posted by MutabullYou said you moved on? Damn that sounds bad. But he still tried to reach out. Good sign.Posted by TeenaI hurt him with my last text, two weeks ago..I told him I had moved on. My pride won't let me go back now. He did send me something on instagram last week, just a quote that said "overthinking kills your happiness". I just gave it a ?...when I saw it, 5 days after he sent it...but nothing since from either of us. I don't know if we are both being stubborn or he really doesn't want to talk.Posted by MutabullMeh! I say just text him!! It's ok?Posted by tizianiNo, it's not fair..or enough.. ? I'm gonna need some alcohol soon...and someone to confiscate my phone when I get itchy fingers..Posted by MutabullFair enough 😄Posted by tizianiLol! Day 14 no contact. My heart is hurting tonight but I can't...I wont. If he's not missing me and has moved on, I'm not about to initiate.Posted by MutabullDon't fight it.
Nurtured. Libra men/boys are big babies. They want to feel loved, they are touchy, like to be fed, cleaned up after. My son and my ex...but it's hard not to love them, even when you wanna strangle them.
I still see a possibility of you guys getting back together. Maybe he's waiting for you to reach out now? Maybe he's scared of hearing something bad again..like say " You should move on.. I already said I did"
All that just to get back at him??!! Sad! Bad!!?
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Posted by MutabullPosted by boxcarmirntaTruth. I'm trying to stay away...part of me hopes he will reach out.. part of me knows it's best if he doesn't, and we both heal and move on. It's taking longer than I expected for the feelings to fade. Most of the time I keep busy, but on quiet nights things kinda sink in and I wonder what he's doing.Posted by MutabullPosted by TeenaWell it was worse than that. I really hurt him..and I had already hurt him before that too. Shortly after we broke up, I told him I was starting to develop feelings for a friend (scorp I had dated a while ago). Which I was, but hadn't acted on it, and we were broken up. He got so mad. Then he was being a dick a couple weeks ago, so I said I had slept with someone else, cause he said I would never have better sex than with him. I wanted to hit him where it hurt..and I did. He said "you slept with someone already?" Then I said well, you wanted me to move on, so I did. That's the last message I sent. It got pretty mean. ?Posted by MutabullYou said you moved on? Damn that sounds bad. But he still tried to reach out. Good sign.Posted by TeenaI hurt him with my last text, two weeks ago..I told him I had moved on. My pride won't let me go back now. He did send me something on instagram last week, just a quote that said "overthinking kills your happiness". I just gave it a ?...when I saw it, 5 days after he sent it...but nothing since from either of us. I don't know if we are both being stubborn or he really doesn't want to talk.Posted by MutabullMeh! I say just text him!! It's ok?Posted by tizianiNo, it's not fair..or enough.. ? I'm gonna need some alcohol soon...and someone to confiscate my phone when I get itchy fingers..Posted by MutabullFair enough 😄Posted by tizianiLol! Day 14 no contact. My heart is hurting tonight but I can't...I wont. If he's not missing me and has moved on, I'm not about to initiate.Posted by MutabullDon't fight it.
Nurtured. Libra men/boys are big babies. They want to feel loved, they are touchy, like to be fed, cleaned up after. My son and my ex...but it's hard not to love them, even when you wanna strangle them.
I still see a possibility of you guys getting back together. Maybe he's waiting for you to reach out now? Maybe he's scared of hearing something bad again..like say " You should move on.. I already said I did"
Rollercoasters never last.. You gotta get off the ride someday...... Id take a break from this.. Hopefully a permanent one.
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Sometimes relationships arent meant to last.... You're supposed to do whatever was meant to happen, like relive childhood experiences.. whatever, and then move on to something healthier. This sounds like a transient one.. To learn from mistakes. You shouldn't wanna hurt someone you love.
Posted by outofdarknessIm starting to realize leebs are a lot like Pisces... In our own heads.. Much under the surface, and definitely tough to crack! I like a good mystery.Posted by boxcarmirntaYes!Posted by outofdarknessI feel the same. The bubble is your secret world?Posted by boxcarmirntaA little bit of both, I think. I also have a Cap moon and many water placements, though. And I have sun conjunct Uranus in 11th. Respect the bubble and my independence! Lol. (I feel like I am a tough nut to crack; the balance is never right).
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Posted by MutabullPosted by boxcarmirntaAgreed. I learned a lot about myself in this one. It's just sad how things are right now And I miss his presence.Posted by MutabullPosted by boxcarmirntaTruth. I'm trying to stay away...part of me hopes he will reach out.. part of me knows it's best if he doesn't, and we both heal and move on. It's taking longer than I expected for the feelings to fade. Most of the time I keep busy, but on quiet nights things kinda sink in and I wonder what he's doing.Posted by MutabullPosted by TeenaWell it was worse than that. I really hurt him..and I had already hurt him before that too. Shortly after we broke up, I told him I was starting to develop feelings for a friend (scorp I had dated a while ago). Which I was, but hadn't acted on it, and we were broken up. He got so mad. Then he was being a dick a couple weeks ago, so I said I had slept with someone else, cause he said I would never have better sex than with him. I wanted to hit him where it hurt..and I did. He said "you slept with someone already?" Then I said well, you wanted me to move on, so I did. That's the last message I sent. It got pretty mean. ?Posted by MutabullYou said you moved on? Damn that sounds bad. But he still tried to reach out. Good sign.Posted by TeenaI hurt him with my last text, two weeks ago..I told him I had moved on. My pride won't let me go back now. He did send me something on instagram last week, just a quote that said "overthinking kills your happiness". I just gave it a ?...when I saw it, 5 days after he sent it...but nothing since from either of us. I don't know if we are both being stubborn or he really doesn't want to talk.Posted by MutabullMeh! I say just text him!! It's ok?Posted by tizianiNo, it's not fair..or enough.. ? I'm gonna need some alcohol soon...and someone to confiscate my phone when I get itchy fingers..Posted by MutabullFair enough 😄Posted by tizianiLol! Day 14 no contact. My heart is hurting tonight but I can't...I wont. If he's not missing me and has moved on, I'm not about to initiate.Posted by MutabullDon't fight it.
Nurtured. Libra men/boys are big babies. They want to feel loved, they are touchy, like to be fed, cleaned up after. My son and my ex...but it's hard not to love them, even when you wanna strangle them.
I still see a possibility of you guys getting back together. Maybe he's waiting for you to reach out now? Maybe he's scared of hearing something bad again..like say " You should move on.. I already said I did"
Rollercoasters never last.. You gotta get off the ride someday...... Id take a break from this.. Hopefully a permanent one.
Sometimes relationships arent meant to last.... You're supposed to do whatever was meant to happen, like relive childhood experiences.. whatever, and then move on to something healthier. This sounds like a transient one.. To learn from mistakes. You shouldn't wanna hurt someone you love.
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Maybe instead of all the tit for tat fighting and trying to hurt eachother, you should be just open honest and vulnerable. Tell him you miss him. Stop playing games. Be honest and forthright. No matter what his response might be. I think it's best to be honest instead of being malicious. Even if it's harder to do.
Posted by tizianiTotally!!! Don't say it in txt if you can't say it in real life!! Yea this thread got a little bummery... Just wanted to get down to brass tacks with the leebs. Such mysterious creatures!!
Would you have said the same things to one another if you were face to face in person?
It looks to me like yet again social media puts the breaks on a relationship because two people got too comfortable in sharing their first thought. The next thought that follows for weeks after is so often "wtfwasithinkingwhydididothatomgwilltheyeverunderstand".
Posted by Rozaeon"I've seen this before"... meaning-my experience. Didn't mean all Libras would do that.Posted by TeenaThat's not true, some will reach out, but others will NEVER do thatPosted by MutabullI've seen this before. Libras ALWAYS try reaching out however dirty the last scene was... especially guys. Do you still love him? Can you get over all that has happened? Can he?Posted by TeenaI know. I'm surprised he even reached out at all. I'm not sure we could ever come back from the places we have been. We both hurt each other a lot. ?Posted by MutabullOh no no no! That sounds irreparable.Posted by TeenaWell it was worse than that. I really hurt him..and I had already hurt him before that too. Shortly after we broke up, I told him I was starting to develop feelings for a friend (scorp I had dated a while ago). Which I was, but hadn't acted on it, and we were broken up. He got so mad. Then he was being a dick a couple weeks ago, so I said I had slept with someone else, cause he said I would never have better sex than with him. I wanted to hit him where it hurt..and I did. He said "you slept with someone already?" Then I said well, you wanted me to move on, so I did. That's the last message I sent. It got pretty mean. ?Posted by MutabullYou said you moved on? Damn that sounds bad. But he still tried to reach out. Good sign.Posted by TeenaI hurt him with my last text, two weeks ago..I told him I had moved on. My pride won't let me go back now. He did send me something on instagram last week, just a quote that said "overthinking kills your happiness". I just gave it a ?...when I saw it, 5 days after he sent it...but nothing since from either of us. I don't know if we are both being stubborn or he really doesn't want to talk.Posted by MutabullMeh! I say just text him!! It's ok?Posted by tizianiNo, it's not fair..or enough.. ? I'm gonna need some alcohol soon...and someone to confiscate my phone when I get itchy fingers..Posted by MutabullFair enough 😄Posted by tizianiLol! Day 14 no contact. My heart is hurting tonight but I can't...I wont. If he's not missing me and has moved on, I'm not about to initiate.Posted by MutabullDon't fight it.
Nurtured. Libra men/boys are big babies. They want to feel loved, they are touchy, like to be fed, cleaned up after. My son and my ex...but it's hard not to love them, even when you wanna strangle them.
I still see a possibility of you guys getting back together. Maybe he's waiting for you to reach out now? Maybe he's scared of hearing something bad again..like say " You should move on.. I already said I did"
All that just to get back at him??!! Sad! Bad!!?
Let's say a man that i've been with, while saying that he has still feelings for me, go on different dates and then act like he don't care, he's moving on etc, he will simply be dead to me. Because i simply don't deal with any sort of hypocrisy, even worse when feelings are involved. I firmly believe that i'm not the only one like that
I don't know how other Libras do it because, it's like the other person is clearly spitting on his pride, loyalty, feelings everything. How somebody can accept that ?
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"It's too easy to act tough and disrespectful and then cry when things starts to really fall apart"
Totally with you on this^ Not acceptable at all.
Posted by RozaeonI get it. Nobody deserves that kinda treatment.Posted by TeenaAh ok, i thought that was a different sentence haha my badPosted by Rozaeon"I've seen this before"... meaning-my experience. Didn't mean all Libras would do that.Posted by TeenaThat's not true, some will reach out, but others will NEVER do thatPosted by MutabullI've seen this before. Libras ALWAYS try reaching out however dirty the last scene was... especially guys. Do you still love him? Can you get over all that has happened? Can he?Posted by TeenaI know. I'm surprised he even reached out at all. I'm not sure we could ever come back from the places we have been. We both hurt each other a lot. ?Posted by MutabullOh no no no! That sounds irreparable.Posted by TeenaWell it was worse than that. I really hurt him..and I had already hurt him before that too. Shortly after we broke up, I told him I was starting to develop feelings for a friend (scorp I had dated a while ago). Which I was, but hadn't acted on it, and we were broken up. He got so mad. Then he was being a dick a couple weeks ago, so I said I had slept with someone else, cause he said I would never have better sex than with him. I wanted to hit him where it hurt..and I did. He said "you slept with someone already?" Then I said well, you wanted me to move on, so I did. That's the last message I sent. It got pretty mean. ?Posted by MutabullYou said you moved on? Damn that sounds bad. But he still tried to reach out. Good sign.Posted by TeenaI hurt him with my last text, two weeks ago..I told him I had moved on. My pride won't let me go back now. He did send me something on instagram last week, just a quote that said "overthinking kills your happiness". I just gave it a ?...when I saw it, 5 days after he sent it...but nothing since from either of us. I don't know if we are both being stubborn or he really doesn't want to talk.Posted by MutabullMeh! I say just text him!! It's ok?Posted by tizianiNo, it's not fair..or enough.. ? I'm gonna need some alcohol soon...and someone to confiscate my phone when I get itchy fingers..Posted by MutabullFair enough 😄Posted by tizianiLol! Day 14 no contact. My heart is hurting tonight but I can't...I wont. If he's not missing me and has moved on, I'm not about to initiate.Posted by MutabullDon't fight it.
Nurtured. Libra men/boys are big babies. They want to feel loved, they are touchy, like to be fed, cleaned up after. My son and my ex...but it's hard not to love them, even when you wanna strangle them.
I still see a possibility of you guys getting back together. Maybe he's waiting for you to reach out now? Maybe he's scared of hearing something bad again..like say " You should move on.. I already said I did"
All that just to get back at him??!! Sad! Bad!!?
Let's say a man that i've been with, while saying that he has still feelings for me, go on different dates and then act like he don't care, he's moving on etc, he will simply be dead to me. Because i simply don't deal with any sort of hypocrisy, even worse when feelings are involved. I firmly believe that i'm not the only one like that
I don't know how other Libras do it because, it's like the other person is clearly spitting on his pride, loyalty, feelings everything. How somebody can accept that ?
It's too easy to act tough and disrespectful and then cry when things starts to really fall apart
"It's too easy to act tough and disrespectful and then cry when things starts to really fall apart"
Totally with you on this^ Not acceptable at all.
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Posted by RozaeonAgreed.100%Posted by TeenaThat's not true, some will reach out, but others will NEVER do thatPosted by MutabullI've seen this before. Libras ALWAYS try reaching out however dirty the last scene was... especially guys. Do you still love him? Can you get over all that has happened? Can he?Posted by TeenaI know. I'm surprised he even reached out at all. I'm not sure we could ever come back from the places we have been. We both hurt each other a lot. ?Posted by MutabullOh no no no! That sounds irreparable.Posted by TeenaWell it was worse than that. I really hurt him..and I had already hurt him before that too. Shortly after we broke up, I told him I was starting to develop feelings for a friend (scorp I had dated a while ago). Which I was, but hadn't acted on it, and we were broken up. He got so mad. Then he was being a dick a couple weeks ago, so I said I had slept with someone else, cause he said I would never have better sex than with him. I wanted to hit him where it hurt..and I did. He said "you slept with someone already?" Then I said well, you wanted me to move on, so I did. That's the last message I sent. It got pretty mean. ?Posted by MutabullYou said you moved on? Damn that sounds bad. But he still tried to reach out. Good sign.Posted by TeenaI hurt him with my last text, two weeks ago..I told him I had moved on. My pride won't let me go back now. He did send me something on instagram last week, just a quote that said "overthinking kills your happiness". I just gave it a ?...when I saw it, 5 days after he sent it...but nothing since from either of us. I don't know if we are both being stubborn or he really doesn't want to talk.Posted by MutabullMeh! I say just text him!! It's ok?Posted by tizianiNo, it's not fair..or enough.. ? I'm gonna need some alcohol soon...and someone to confiscate my phone when I get itchy fingers..Posted by MutabullFair enough 😄Posted by tizianiLol! Day 14 no contact. My heart is hurting tonight but I can't...I wont. If he's not missing me and has moved on, I'm not about to initiate.Posted by MutabullDon't fight it.
Nurtured. Libra men/boys are big babies. They want to feel loved, they are touchy, like to be fed, cleaned up after. My son and my ex...but it's hard not to love them, even when you wanna strangle them.
I still see a possibility of you guys getting back together. Maybe he's waiting for you to reach out now? Maybe he's scared of hearing something bad again..like say " You should move on.. I already said I did"
All that just to get back at him??!! Sad! Bad!!?
Let's say a man that i've been with, while saying that he has still feelings for me, go on different dates and then act like he don't care, he's moving on etc, he will simply be dead to me. Because i simply don't deal with any sort of hypocrisy, even worse when feelings are involved. I firmly believe that i'm not the only one like that
I don't know how other Libras do it because, it's like the other person is clearly spitting on his pride, loyalty, feelings everything. How somebody can accept that ?
It's too easy to act tough and disrespectful and then cry when things starts to really fall apartclick to expand
Posted by MutabullWow.. Super breakthrough!!! I have hopes for this as well...
Looks like we might be working this out soon. ? I broke the radio silence and sent him a quote on IG today and he unleashed on me... everything he's been holding back. 4 hours of conversation tonight. He kept saying he didn't know if he could go back after I slept with someone else. I reminded him that we were not together and that he told me we would never get back together and was quite hurtful the weekend before. He said "you know if we had gone to Hawaii we would have gotten back together". No, I didn't know that and he never said what his intentions were for inviting me, so I said no.
After 4 hours of arguing out points about who hurt who in what ways, I finally said "this is it" We are not doing this anymore. Either we let each other go and be friends if we can or let go of the past and try to rebuild this. He didn't answer. I said he needed to decide and be sure about his decision cause I don't want to be blamed again for doing something while we are not together, be expected to read his mind and somehow know his words don't match what he's wanting, and wait around when he says it's over. That's not fair.
He refused to make a decision tonight though, even when I gave him only two choices. He wouldn't answer me directly, kept making other comments. Then he said "4 hours, why are we even doing this?" I said "I know why I'm doing it. Why are you?" He asked why I was... I said "because I love you and I miss you". He said he missed me too but it's all fucked up. I asked him if he still loves me. He said "I do but it's all fucked up"
Apparently he had blocked me on his phone after I told him I had moved on. I didn't know since I never tried to communicate after that, until his message on IG. I asked why he sent me that message if he was done with me. He said "cause you needed to hear it". ? Ok.
Anyway, I have a feeling he will come around if I want to get back together. The question is really whether we can both really let go of the past and have a healthy relationship.
Both. Balance. I have it perfect with my bf now as we are like give give. Both very giving. Its a great feeling. I can get hurt if i'm giving all the effort/nurturing and receiving nothing in return...it will eventually stop from my end and the relationship is likely to go nowhere. Its important in a relationship for me.
Sorry just to add, i'm not sure how to explain this but for me giving feels better than receiving. The receiving is important to me to know they are making an effort/caring/returning/trying (which may feel selfish or something) but giving makes me feel warm, fuzzy and whole. If that makes sense. Can't beat making someone's day a little easier, happier.
Sorry just to add, i'm not sure how to explain this but for me giving feels better than receiving. The receiving is important to me to know they are making an effort/caring/returning/trying (which may feel selfish or something) but giving makes me feel warm, fuzzy and whole. If that makes sense. Can't beat making someone's day a little easier, happier.
Posted by LibraLovesHimThat definitely feels good. I used to be better at giving.. But then no one ever gave to me. I'd like to become more selfless, again.
Both. Balance. I have it perfect with my bf now as we are like give give. Both very giving. Its a great feeling. I can get hurt if i'm giving all the effort/nurturing and receiving nothing in return...it will eventually stop from my end and the relationship is likely to go nowhere. Its important in a relationship for me.
Sorry just to add, i'm not sure how to explain this but for me giving feels better than receiving. The receiving is important to me to know they are making an effort/caring/returning/trying (which may feel selfish or something) but giving makes me feel warm, fuzzy and whole. If that makes sense. Can't beat making someone's day a little easier, happier.
Posted by CatullusSo what you're saying is that they're basically a useless and self-entitled bunch who want to be catered to yet put in no effort from their end? Yeah, no thanks.
From what I've seen of the libras in my life they prefer to be nurtured, male and female. All of them describe their ideal relationship as them being a stay at home wife/husband but none of them actually intend to cook or clean unless specifically asked...and sometimes even then they'll flake out on that. Also all of them are what I'd describe as video game addicts lol.
And I do agree from what I'm currently seeing in this libra dude I'm dating plus my libra gfs.
Posted by OrchideeHahaaha... Actually all the libras ive dated have been very giving.. And none played video games. Luckily.Posted by CatullusSo what you're saying is that they're basically a useless and self-entitled bunch who want to be catered to yet put in no effort from their end? Yeah, no thanks.
From what I've seen of the libras in my life they prefer to be nurtured, male and female. All of them describe their ideal relationship as them being a stay at home wife/husband but none of them actually intend to cook or clean unless specifically asked...and sometimes even then they'll flake out on that. Also all of them are what I'd describe as video game addicts lol.
And I do agree from what I'm currently seeing in this libra dude I'm dating plus my libra gfs.
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Posted by OrchideeI don't think they're useless but yeah they can be quite entitled, the ones I know at least.Posted by CatullusSo what you're saying is that they're basically a useless and self-entitled bunch who want to be catered to yet put in no effort from their end? Yeah, no thanks.
From what I've seen of the libras in my life they prefer to be nurtured, male and female. All of them describe their ideal relationship as them being a stay at home wife/husband but none of them actually intend to cook or clean unless specifically asked...and sometimes even then they'll flake out on that. Also all of them are what I'd describe as video game addicts lol.
And I do agree from what I'm currently seeing in this libra dude I'm dating plus my libra gfs.
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Sorry your dude and friends are acting like this though.
Posted by boxcarmirntaThey need to talk about their problems. But hate to rely on anyone else and they like to nurture mostly. But they need to talk about stuff.
Rely on someone or be relied upon, talk about problems or listen to someone else's? Or is it a little of both... I haven't figured it out yet...
Posted by LittleFairyYea i noticed the need to talk about stuff.. And that's good. Glad i can be there for the dude.Posted by boxcarmirntaThey need to talk about their problems. But hate to rely on anyone else and they like to nurture mostly. But they need to talk about stuff.
Rely on someone or be relied upon, talk about problems or listen to someone else's? Or is it a little of both... I haven't figured it out yet...click to expand
Posted by CatullusEntitled people are useless because they have an expectation of others while doing nothing themselves, so there's no need for diplomacy to say "I don't think they're useless".Posted by OrchideeI don't think they're useless but yeah they can be quite entitled, the ones I know at least.Posted by CatullusSo what you're saying is that they're basically a useless and self-entitled bunch who want to be catered to yet put in no effort from their end? Yeah, no thanks.
From what I've seen of the libras in my life they prefer to be nurtured, male and female. All of them describe their ideal relationship as them being a stay at home wife/husband but none of them actually intend to cook or clean unless specifically asked...and sometimes even then they'll flake out on that. Also all of them are what I'd describe as video game addicts lol.
And I do agree from what I'm currently seeing in this libra dude I'm dating plus my libra gfs.
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Posted by OrchideeSounds like my psycho roommate. Takes but never gives....no consequences to her actions.Posted by CatullusEntitled people are useless because they have an expectation of others while doing nothing themselves, so there's no need for diplomacy to say "I don't think they're useless".Posted by OrchideeI don't think they're useless but yeah they can be quite entitled, the ones I know at least.Posted by CatullusSo what you're saying is that they're basically a useless and self-entitled bunch who want to be catered to yet put in no effort from their end? Yeah, no thanks.
From what I've seen of the libras in my life they prefer to be nurtured, male and female. All of them describe their ideal relationship as them being a stay at home wife/husband but none of them actually intend to cook or clean unless specifically asked...and sometimes even then they'll flake out on that. Also all of them are what I'd describe as video game addicts lol.
And I do agree from what I'm currently seeing in this libra dude I'm dating plus my libra gfs.
Sorry your dude and friends are acting like this though.
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Posted by OrchideeI'm not being diplomatic, I'm being honest.Posted by CatullusEntitled people are useless because they have an expectation of others while doing nothing themselves, so there's no need for diplomacy to say "I don't think they're useless".Posted by OrchideeI don't think they're useless but yeah they can be quite entitled, the ones I know at least.Posted by CatullusSo what you're saying is that they're basically a useless and self-entitled bunch who want to be catered to yet put in no effort from their end? Yeah, no thanks.
From what I've seen of the libras in my life they prefer to be nurtured, male and female. All of them describe their ideal relationship as them being a stay at home wife/husband but none of them actually intend to cook or clean unless specifically asked...and sometimes even then they'll flake out on that. Also all of them are what I'd describe as video game addicts lol.
And I do agree from what I'm currently seeing in this libra dude I'm dating plus my libra gfs.
Sorry your dude and friends are acting like this though.
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I don't know the details of your situation with the guy you're seeing and with your friends but I do hope the best for you.
Both, there needs to be an even balance
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