@boxcarmirnta
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So my leeb finally came to visit me..
They like to respect boundaries. Maybe he got the vibe that you didn't want to/weren't ready.
Posted by carbonscorp
They like to respect boundaries. Maybe he got the vibe that you didn't want to/weren't ready.
Ok... I totally instigated the cuddling stuff and he followed.. But i felt dumb doing anymore cuz he just didn't seem interested.... 😢 i know there's attraction..
Posted by 2Moon
You should have kissed him.He was probably thinking too much in his head. Couldn't decide: kiss her or not? Is that going to be disrespectful?? She is going to reject me! Oh sht what should I do? Oh sht, oh sht! I can't decide!!! FUUUCK
—? Leebs! LOL
Shit really?? I started the cuddling... Ugh...
Posted by carbonscorp
They like to respect boundaries. Maybe he got the vibe that you didn't want to/weren't ready.Ok... I totally instigated the cuddling stuff and he followed.. But i felt dumb doing anymore cuz he just didn't seem interested.... 😢 i know there's attraction..
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That what they do in the early stages...follow suit. You cuddle, they cuddle. You cuddle hard, they cuddle hard. They won't feel comfortable taking the lead until you've basically declared your love for them. That's been my experience.
Posted by tiziani
Leebs loving with the handbrake on.
Whyyeeeeeeeeeeee
Posted by boxcarmirnta
In case you've been following my saga.. We had two super amazing fun days jam packed full of radness.. We laughed and laughed for dayyyyzzzzzzzz.... We cuddled... But... That's it. He didn't make a move!! NO i am not ugly gross or stinky.... I thought leebs were all about getting down to business... So why not even a peck— Respectful?? Uncertain? Please be KIND. He said he wanted to hang out again and that i should also come visit him.
Posted by tiziani
Leebs loving with the handbrake on.Whyyeeeeeeeeeeee
I don't know. But this + the long distance, sounds like a lot of effort.
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Seems effortless so far.... We both love traveling and taking trips..
Posted by boxcarmirnta
In case you've been following my saga.. We had two super amazing fun days jam packed full of radness.. We laughed and laughed for dayyyyzzzzzzzz.... We cuddled... But... That's it. He didn't make a move!! NO i am not ugly gross or stinky.... I thought leebs were all about getting down to business... So why not even a peck— Respectful?? Uncertain? Please be KIND. He said he wanted to hang out again and that i should also come visit him.
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Hahaaaaa!!! God i love that movie.. And no he's not gay 🙂
Posted by tiziani
Leebs loving with the handbrake on.Whyyeeeeeeeeeeee
I don't know. But this + the long distance, sounds like a lot of effort.
Agreed, this is not going to work imo
and she is already complaining and crying about what he is and what he is not...
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Im not crying or complaining about anything.. I had an amazing time, so did he and there will be more.. I was just asking a question. Pretty straightforward. I don't complain.
Posted by tiziani
Leebs loving with the handbrake on.Whyyeeeeeeeeeeee
I don't know. But this + the long distance, sounds like a lot of effort.
Agreed, this is not going to work imo
and she is already complaining and crying about what he is and what he is not...
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Dude... You JUST said it sounded like it was going well...talk about indecisive haha
Posted by boxcarmirnta
In case you've been following my saga.. We had two super amazing fun days jam packed full of radness.. We laughed and laughed for dayyyyzzzzzzzz.... We cuddled... But... That's it. He didn't make a move!! NO i am not ugly gross or stinky.... I thought leebs were all about getting down to business... So why not even a peck— Respectful?? Uncertain? Please be KIND. He said he wanted to hang out again and that i should also come visit him.They follow your lead or are gentlemen at first sight
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Thank you. 🙂
If I want something long term, I run away from people that make a physical move on me on the first date. I discarded two gorgeous well educated males for this reason. Your Libra takes his time. You should be thankful. But definitely, your timing is off. You want him now, he wants to be sure he makes a good choice. Enjoy your time together for now and stop fantasizing him.
Posted by compy
If I want something long term, I run away from people that make a physical move on me on the first date. I discarded two gorgeous well educated males for this reason. Your Libra takes his time. You should be thankful. But definitely, your timing is off. You want him now, he wants to be sure he makes a good choice. Enjoy your time together for now and stop fantasizing him.
Hey im just glad he finally came to visit!! Remember the struggle? I was hoping for your advice. I can hold off on the gettin busy... As long as our visits are consistent and regular. We had the best time!!! 🙂
Posted by compy
If I want something long term, I run away from people that make a physical move on me on the first date. I discarded two gorgeous well educated males for this reason. Your Libra takes his time. You should be thankful. But definitely, your timing is off. You want him now, he wants to be sure he makes a good choice. Enjoy your time together for now and stop fantasizing him.Hey im just glad he finally came to visit!! Remember the struggle? I was hoping for your advice. I can hold off on the gettin busy... As long as our visits are consistent and regular. We had the best time!!! 🙂
Pisces and libra. Not a good match.
Pisces are clingy and libras are the socialites of the zodiac. They dont do clingy.
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False.
My ex libra friends were clingier than me.
one had a pisces moon
and one had a venus in virgo and sagg moon.
when we hung out they always wanted to talk / be in my face
when they date i've noticed they tend to spend just as much or more time in contact with their significant other than water signs.
water signs like their space ...in fact we need it to recharge.
geminis , libras and fire signs get energy by being around people...especially the people they are dating.
it's too much.
Posted by compy
If I want something long term, I run away from people that make a physical move on me on the first date. I discarded two gorgeous well educated males for this reason. Your Libra takes his time. You should be thankful. But definitely, your timing is off. You want him now, he wants to be sure he makes a good choice. Enjoy your time together for now and stop fantasizing him.Hey im just glad he finally came to visit!! Remember the struggle? I was hoping for your advice. I can hold off on the gettin busy... As long as our visits are consistent and regular. We had the best time!!! 🙂
Pisces and libra. Not a good match.
Pisces are clingy and libras are the socialites of the zodiac. They dont do clingy.
False.
My ex libra friends were clingier than me.
one had a pisces moon
and one had a venus in virgo and sagg moon.
when we hung out they always wanted to talk / be in my face
when they date i've noticed they tend to spend just as much or more time in contact with their significant other than water signs.
water signs like there space ...in fact we need it to recharge.
geminis , libras and fire signs get energy by being around people...especially the people they are dating.
it's too much.
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I am a Libra with Scorpio Venus and I hate being suffocated. I am very far from being clingy. Yes, I want to be in physical touch with my SO all the time, but mushy is too much for me. That's why I don't do well with water signs and I parted ways with my ex Cancer man that was too demanding on my personal space (talking about recharging...). But anyway, we cannot generalize. I prefer another air sign with some water placements 🙂
Posted by compy
If I want something long term, I run away from people that make a physical move on me on the first date. I discarded two gorgeous well educated males for this reason. Your Libra takes his time. You should be thankful. But definitely, your timing is off. You want him now, he wants to be sure he makes a good choice. Enjoy your time together for now and stop fantasizing him.Hey im just glad he finally came to visit!! Remember the struggle? I was hoping for your advice. I can hold off on the gettin busy... As long as our visits are consistent and regular. We had the best time!!! 🙂
Pisces and libra. Not a good match.
Pisces are clingy and libras are the socialites of the zodiac. They dont do clingy.
False.
My ex libra friends were clingier than me.
one had a pisces moon
and one had a venus in virgo and sagg moon.
when we hung out they always wanted to talk / be in my face
when they date i've noticed they tend to spend just as much or more time in contact with their significant other than water signs.
water signs like there space ...in fact we need it to recharge.
geminis , libras and fire signs get energy by being around people...especially the people they are dating.
it's too much.
I am a Libra with Scorpio Venus and I hate being suffocated. I am very far from being clingy. Yes, I want to be in physical touch with my SO all the time, but mushy is too much for me. That's why I don't do well with water signs and I parted ways with my ex Cancer man that was too demanding on my personal space (talking about recharging...). But anyway, we cannot generalize. I prefer another air sign with some water placements 🙂
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as you alluded to clinginess is subjective
pisces with a venus in taurus here
i love physical contact...but even then there's a limit even with the right person.
Posted by compy
If I want something long term, I run away from people that make a physical move on me on the first date. I discarded two gorgeous well educated males for this reason. Your Libra takes his time. You should be thankful. But definitely, your timing is off. You want him now, he wants to be sure he makes a good choice. Enjoy your time together for now and stop fantasizing him.Hey im just glad he finally came to visit!! Remember the struggle? I was hoping for your advice. I can hold off on the gettin busy... As long as our visits are consistent and regular. We had the best time!!! 🙂
Pisces and libra. Not a good match.
Pisces are clingy and libras are the socialites of the zodiac. They dont do clingy.
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Like i said we had an amazing time. I am not clingy in the tiniest bit, the complete opposite actually. Im very social and love my space and freedom.
Posted by boxcarmirnta
In case you've been following my saga.. We had two super amazing fun days jam packed full of radness.. We laughed and laughed for dayyyyzzzzzzzz.... We cuddled... But... That's it. He didn't make a move!! NO i am not ugly gross or stinky.... I thought leebs were all about getting down to business... So why not even a peck— Respectful?? Uncertain? Please be KIND. He said he wanted to hang out again and that i should also come visit him.Perhaps he is not physically attracted to you ie no chemistry or he sees you as a friend?
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Perhaps but i don't think so..
Posted by compy
If I want something long term, I run away from people that make a physical move on me on the first date. I discarded two gorgeous well educated males for this reason. Your Libra takes his time. You should be thankful. But definitely, your timing is off. You want him now, he wants to be sure he makes a good choice. Enjoy your time together for now and stop fantasizing him.Hey im just glad he finally came to visit!! Remember the struggle? I was hoping for your advice. I can hold off on the gettin busy... As long as our visits are consistent and regular. We had the best time!!! 🙂
Pisces and libra. Not a good match.
Pisces are clingy and libras are the socialites of the zodiac. They dont do clingy.
False.
My ex libra friends were clingier than me.
one had a pisces moon
and one had a venus in virgo and sagg moon.
when we hung out they always wanted to talk / be in my face
when they date i've noticed they tend to spend just as much or more time in contact with their significant other than water signs.
water signs like there space ...in fact we need it to recharge.
geminis , libras and fire signs get energy by being around people...especially the people they are dating.
it's too much.
I am a Libra with Scorpio Venus and I hate being suffocated. I am very far from being clingy. Yes, I want to be in physical touch with my SO all the time, but mushy is too much for me. That's why I don't do well with water signs and I parted ways with my ex Cancer man that was too demanding on my personal space (talking about recharging...). But anyway, we cannot generalize. I prefer another air sign with some water placements 🙂
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I am not a typical Pisces.. I love space i love freedom.. I'm like 80% aquarius.
Posted by compy
If I want something long term, I run away from people that make a physical move on me on the first date. I discarded two gorgeous well educated males for this reason. Your Libra takes his time. You should be thankful. But definitely, your timing is off. You want him now, he wants to be sure he makes a good choice. Enjoy your time together for now and stop fantasizing him.Hey im just glad he finally came to visit!! Remember the struggle? I was hoping for your advice. I can hold off on the gettin busy... As long as our visits are consistent and regular. We had the best time!!! 🙂
Pisces and libra. Not a good match.
Pisces are clingy and libras are the socialites of the zodiac. They dont do clingy.
False.
My ex libra friends were clingier than me.
one had a pisces moon
and one had a venus in virgo and sagg moon.
when we hung out they always wanted to talk / be in my face
when they date i've noticed they tend to spend just as much or more time in contact with their significant other than water signs.
water signs like there space ...in fact we need it to recharge.
geminis , libras and fire signs get energy by being around people...especially the people they are dating.
it's too much.
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Totally. Hes also less social than i am.
Now I'm starting to wonder if it might have something to do with me dating his friend awhile back.. Would that make you leebs uncomfortable or cautious?
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In case you've been following my saga.. We had two super amazing fun days jam packed full of radness.. We laughed and laughed for dayyyyzzzzzzzz.... We cuddled... But... That's it. He didn't make a move!! NO i am not ugly gross or stinky.... I thought leebs were all about getting down to business... So why not even a peck— Respectful?? Uncertain? Please be KIND. He said he wanted to hang out again and that i should also come visit him.