Do they say it's your fault in all always ? ....

Psychopaths are kind of the prototypical "Wolf in Sheep's clothing"
Charming, attractive, willing and able to say EXACTLY what you want to hear and totally incapable of giving a damn at the devastation they leave behind.

So, how do you know if the woman you're dating is an actual psychopath (or just kind of mean?)

Well, Dr. Robert Hare came up with a pretty damned handy checklist. (Of course the checklist is only as useful as the information you're able to get that you think is true, but hey.)

The guy or girl you're dating might be a psychopath if . . .
1. They reek of glibness and superficial charm. (If a guy comes across as too good to be true, he probably is. Psychopaths are GREAT at preying on the emotionally needy, whether they be men or women. For women reading: If he's EVERYTHING you've ever looked for in a man, run. Those guys don't really exist. Same for guys.)

2. Has a grandiose sense of self worth. (Is he/she kind of full of himself or always talking about how they're "Better" than those around them?)

3. Pathological lying - do they lie easily and convincingly? If caught in a lie do they just segue smoothly into ANOTHER lie or make you feel like you're the one who's wrong?

4. Extremely cunning and manipulative. (Psychopaths see other people as about as useful as your average chair.)

5. Total lack of remorse or guilt.

6. Shallow Affect (very little genuine emotion. Laugh seems forced. Prone to anger in short bursts.)

7. Callousness - doesn't seem to care about others at all. Able to put his foot in a puppy's face and then complain about stubbing his toe.)

8. Unable to respect responsibility for his / her own actions.

9. Hyper-ADHD and a need for stimulation at all times.

10. Extremely promiscuous. (Just because somebody is promiscuous doesn't mean they're a psychopath, but all psychopaths are kind of sluts.)

11. Parasitic Life style (Do they constantly find ways for YOU to pay for everything? Do they always have an excuse not to pony up? Do they live off their long-suffering parents?)

12. Lack of realistic long term goals (always looking for "the big break," or becoming a big movie star when they can't even hold down a job.)

And, well, there's more but you probably get the idea.

Now, if you're in a relationship with a psychopath you might not be able to see what's really going on (because psychopaths are so damned charming.)

So you should ask your friends, your family and the person's enemies.

Continued : So you should ask your friends, your family and the person's enemies.

And if they ARE a psychopath? (Or even if they're NOT a psychopath but are obviously just using you?)

You need to get the hell out as quickly as possible. Because a psychopath is never going to love you. Is never going to care for you. Is never going to change.

Which might be why so many women are attracted to psychopaths (Ted Bundy got love letters until the day he was executed); because they're charming and glib and attractive and women fall into the trap of thinking they can "change him" if he just got the love of a good woman.

But this kind of person (and again, it's 1% of the population - a lot of men and women) aren't able to feel actual affection or love for you any more than they could "Love" a sports ball.

Sucks, huh?

Of course, there are millions and millions of actual GOOD men and women out there for you . . . folks who have actual emotions and are looking for something real.

(The water is strong in this one)

I don't know about psychology, but I'm pretty sure about one thing:

That prestigious people and their "notable studies" are the sickest, most of them.
They want you to believe that any kind of auto-affirmation / self ideology is sick.

"You are brave, then you are dangerous."

What's your sign by the way, and what is the point of this thread ?

Just curious

No, I am not a Libra, but I am married with one who did almost all of the things as in this article. Or maybe it is a normal behavior in Libra, I don't know, but I can recognize him from this poins describled in this article. It is also called having a bipolar disorder . He is always thinking he is the best, the most handsome, when he he wrong never think is his fault, etc.. With all this, I love him very much, but I am wonder if he loves me too or is only a theatre playing by him all of the time ... 🙂 Is not wrote by me this, I found it a E-mail . Also I don't reffer only to Libras by this article, it is reffering in general for everyone who acting like this, but I found many things what a Libra do , exactly how they describle here. Is strange..

In special this is related to Libra more : " Which might be why so many women are attracted to psychopaths (Ted Bundy got love letters until the day he was executed); because they're charming and glib and attractive and women fall into the trap of thinking they can "change him" if he just got the love of a good woman. " then they disappear if the woman try to imput or change something in good to them ....

Posted by Jessy801
No, I am not a Libra, but I am married with one who did almost all of the things as in this article. Or maybe it is a normal behavior in Libra, I don't know, but I can recognize him from this poins describled in this article. It is also called having a bipolar disorder . He is always thinking he is the best, the most handsome, when he he wrong never think is his fault, etc.. With all this, I love him very much, but I am wonder if he loves me too or is only a theatre playing by him all of the time ... 🙂 Is not wrote by me this, I found it a E-mail . Also I don't reffer only to Libras by this article, it is reffering in general for everyone who acting like this, but I found many things what a Libra do , exactly how they describle here. Is strange..

What is YOUR sign? No, this is not typical Libra behavior.