Do you hold strongly on your opinions of things?

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SeeingRed
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I only ask because I've just noticed Libra going against his own opinion. Maybe I'm over analyzing stuff. But once Libra's carry a strong opinion on a subject, do you guys normally act against that opinion?

I hesitate even putting my example because it's elementary. But here goes---

Libra once told me that he's anti Facebook (he has a Facebook but it's obviously very inactive). I asked why? He says "I just think people who are on Facebook live in Facebook instead of living life itself."

In the topic I created earlier, I've mentioned how me and Libra didn't pan out too well. Anyways, its been 1.5 weeks since we've spoken. The Sunday that just passed, he had a status update. I thought "Ok, cool. I'm cool, I'm chill. Don't trip." LOL but eversince, he's been on that FB actively. It just blows my mind I suppose, since I know him to be very private and when he has a strong opinion on something; he usually doesn't do anything to go against it.

Yes, I've already blocked his status updates from my newsfeed because it's obviously making me trip and over-analyzing some of his status' that appear directed at me. BAH! =T His status update was a tad bit emo today and it had me floored because he's not one to announce to the world that he's feeling emo. It's a bit out of character. I don't know maybe I'm just venting and whatnot. But I miss him. I miss our friendship and overall miss *Him*.
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So he's been "active" for the past three, four days. Maybe he was bored, or didn't have much going on. Maybe he was FB chatting or emailing with someone on there. maybe he was playing Poker or something. Doesn't necessarily mean he's totally changed his mind about "evil" FB and is now enthusiastically an FB addict.. just maybe he's warming up to it a little bit, realizing that people CAN use it occasionally and it doesn't have to take over your life. And yes, that would still be very Libra.. they weigh and balance things.. and yes, new info or experiences could make them alter a previously-held opinion on something, esp an extreme (not balanced) opinion... like HATING something he didn't have quite enough experience to make an informed decision about LOL

As for his status updates being veiled references to/about you.. maybe, who knows? (Libras DO tend to miss the ones who aren't throwing themselves at Libra's feet... and some like to keep you hanging, see if they can get a reaction out of you, for their own ego/amusement.) Deciding to post something that shows he's a bit more "emo" and human than most people think? Dunno that one, either. You say you've "already" blocked him.. then you mention today's status, so you watched at least three, four days of "active" statuses that had you wondering and over-analyzing... no wonder you're going crazy. leave him blocked. It should take more effort than passive-aggressive FB statuses to get your goat (and stroke his ego!) LOL
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Posted by LibraSid
Oh and yes, opinions on things like this can change. I used to say FB was bad and while I was convinced to make FB and MySpace accounts a long time ago, I never used them. When I moved cross country I did a little and found it to be any easy way to drop notes to family and such. It's not like he changed his opinion on something major either.



Pretty much. I can't see someone having really adamant, passionate feelings about facebook.