Does a libra man have a sexual relationship outside of their relationship?

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I was involved with a libra man for a year and plus some. I didn't know he had a girlfriend because he was way older than me. We had a sexual relationship after so long it wasn't like that in the begin. He showed me liked me but things just got sexual. He said he was lusting but I feel like his feelings were getting involved and he hide his feelings a lot. It made the situation more awkward we use to talk everyday now it's whenever we want to hook up. I just don't know if that's a common thing for a libra man to have sex outside of their relationship. Clearly he doesn't love her or himself for cheating. I'm slowly turning away from him because the situation is confusing plus I just don't want the drama or guilt on my hands. Feelings and mixed signals are involved and I don't know where it's ending to when there's barely communication no more. Someone help please. Don't judge I just need to know if they do do that. He has these months he disappears or acts differently then he comes back like things are normal. I just never seen a libra have sex so much I thought they were more romantic than anything. Times it feels like he makes love to me then times it feels like a causal fuck.
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Posted by Tharealher
But no one answered my question do they tend to have a very well sexual relationship? I never heard my friends come tell me about having a sexual relationship outside of their relationship. Only one libra female I know says she doesn't have sex with her boyfriend but started hooking up with her ex for sex. I heard they aren't really sexual creatures.
What the fuck does it matter? You've moved on.
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Posted by Arielle83
I had a 45 married libra man, who was friebds with my bf at the time.

He constantly texted me. Took me surfing with a group as he was a crayfisherman like my bf at the time and we lived in a small fishing community so I welcomed the invites.

Then the texts got weird. He started complaining about his wife and putting her down. I told him he needs to discuss their problems with each other.

Then one night he came over with beers while my bf was at a bucks party. He put him down and tried to seduce me. I rejected him then he started whining and begging to go down on me.

Wtf.

They are whiny little bitches.
Guys can get pretty pathetic when their usual charms don't work on you. That's their only card they play and when it doesn't work, they're SOL. Then you REALLY get to see what they're about.
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Posted by Tharealher
Cause I asked a question and I want a complete answer not some shit that doesn't have nothing to do about the topic. Which whatever comments on here don't have nothing to do with anything
"I'm not being told what I want to hear."

What is it you really want? To be told that your vagina is magic and there's some super special secret feelings behind him sticking his dick in you as a side bitch?

You are in the age old scenario where you find yourself being a piece of ass on the side- one that the dude has ZERO respect for- and are hoping that he actually has genuine feelings for you. The reality of the situation is he does not. He sees you as an OPTION. Someone he goes to on his own whim with no consideration toward your feelings, your time, let alone your body.

You claim you've moved on and whine when nobody feeds you the fucktarded drivel you expected in this thread (note the disclaimer and plea for no judging, even though your situation screams it), but it appears that you're really fucking desperate to want to keep being treated like a dick hole on the side when HE feels like putting forth any sort of effort.

In short, he is not into you and he's stringing you along. He just likes using your vagina to come in when he feels like cheating on his girlfriend like the piece of shit he is.

Get a fucking grip and ACTUALLY move on. It'll do you wonders.
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Cause I asked a question and I want a complete answer not some shit that doesn't have nothing to do about the topic. Which whatever comments on here don't have nothing to do with anything
"I'm not being told what I want to hear."

What is it you really want? To be told that your vagina is magic and there's some super special secret feelings behind him sticking his dick in you as a side bitch?

You are in the age old scenario where you find yourself being a piece of ass on the side- one that the dude has ZERO respect for- and are hoping that he actually has genuine feelings for you. The reality of the situation is he does not. He sees you as an OPTION. Someone he goes to on his own whim with no consideration toward your feelings, your time, let alone your body.

You claim you've moved on and whine when nobody feeds you the fucktarded drivel you expected in this thread (note the disclaimer and plea for no judging, even though your situation screams it), but it appears that you're really fucking desperate to want to keep being treated like a dick hole on the side when HE feels like putting forth any sort of effort.

In short, he is not into you and he's stringing you along. He just likes using your vagina to come in when he feels like cheating on his girlfriend like the piece of shit he is.

Get a fucking grip and ACTUALLY move on. It'll do you wonders.
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Posted by Tharealher
I'm already moved on he just keeps coming back. I really care for him but I know it's not the best thing to keep getting involved with him. I know it's not a zodiac thing but I want to know if it's normal for them to have s sexual relationship outside of their relationship. I got all libra girlfriends not guy friends. So it's different

He keeps coming back for free sex - it ain't algebra. Men will stick their dicks in farm animals; and they will return to the same donkey, cow, or horse that permitted their penis entrance without working for it, so I wouldn't flatter yourself that he returns. Do yourself a favor; block his number and stop being his cum bucket. Whatever the reason he cheats, is his reason, the fact that you allow yourself to be degraded to the side chick, is where your focus needs to be.
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Posted by Tharealher
If they don't get their way yes they are sensitive more than they try to show it. My libra sex is good but to me I feel like he hardly spark my interest anything more than that. I think he hates it.

He doesn't care that he doesn't spark your interest outside of bed apparently you don't spark his interest outside of bed either, otherwise he wouldn't have a girlfriend.

Typically Libra men are not sexual, so congratulations for getting his dick hard. It sounds like he has a lot of lust for you. And when he told you he was "lusting" he meant that. He is older then you, if it was more, he wouldn't just be contacting you for a hook up.

I don't know Libras who hide their feelings when they love someone; but he is with the woman he loves, you are the side chick who he screws.
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Rocky road are you gay? Lmao I think you are gay specially with that name rocky road ice cream lmao ‚‚‚‚
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"I'm an absolute moron with zero comeback or intelligence."

It's okay honey. Nice try.

You didn't have a comeback tho. So you probably are gay and miserable because no one wants you. I'm weak ­­‚ good job. Donkey dick. I hope a dick gets shove up your ass every night. You choke and die on it.
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If they don't get their way yes they are sensitive more than they try to show it. My libra sex is good but to me I feel like he hardly spark my interest anything more than that. I think he hates it.

He doesn't care that he doesn't spark your interest outside of bed apparently you don't spark his interest outside of bed either, otherwise he wouldn't have a girlfriend.

Typically Libra men are not sexual, so congratulations for getting his dick hard. It sounds like he has a lot of lust for you. And when he told you he was "lusting" he meant that. He is older then you, if it was more, he wouldn't just be contacting you for a hook up.

I don't know Libras who hide their feelings when they love someone; but he is with the woman he loves, you are the side chick who he screws.
Well I totally get why he has no interest in her out of the bedroom because apparantly:

Rocky road ice cream = same sex attraction.

Small minded hole is what she is.
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If theirs not a main bitch how could you be a side bitch. I'm single thank you I can fuck whatever I want that's my business.
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If they don't get their way yes they are sensitive more than they try to show it. My libra sex is good but to me I feel like he hardly spark my interest anything more than that. I think he hates it.

He doesn't care that he doesn't spark your interest outside of bed apparently you don't spark his interest outside of bed either, otherwise he wouldn't have a girlfriend.

Typically Libra men are not sexual, so congratulations for getting his dick hard. It sounds like he has a lot of lust for you. And when he told you he was "lusting" he meant that. He is older then you, if it was more, he wouldn't just be contacting you for a hook up.

I don't know Libras who hide their feelings when they love someone; but he is with the woman he loves, you are the side chick who he screws.
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I hollered at him he was the one cheating not my problem. I'm not in a relationship. I get what I want and leave it at that. You can call me what you want but I don't sleep with every walking dick swinging. I just like to have fun and keep it at that.
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I ask a simple question I didn't ask to be schooled or degraded for asking my opinion on a question. If you don't like wtf I got to say just stay the hell off my post. Do yourself a favor instead of calling me ghetto a whore a hoe or stupid. Cause if you ask me you miserable and judgemental as hell. You could skip this post and go on about your business but want to be immature assholes. Grow tf up lil bitches talking shit on the Internet to someone you don't know is funny cause you can get away with it. You don't even know wtf ghetto is with your dumb ass. Shut tf up and stop responding mf.
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Posted by LuckyLibra979
Well she has a point. It's not her fault he's stepping out. No matter how ugly it looks to y'all it's not her problem and she shouldn't have to explain herself simple as that.



And yea alot of ppl on here are miserable and lost. Funny how ive seen an assload of threads about men of diffwrent signs disappearing out the blue and the forst thing these ppl thinl to ask about id astrology? You get tje picture

You are sexy mr. Libra just letting it to be known.
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@Tharealher,

You're projecting your anger on a forum for individuals who simplified your status with this Libra. It's not undefined, mystified, or vague, it's pretty cut and dry.
The "Scales," although indecisive are balanced when a suitable partner meets all their requirements. Yes, a Libra just doesn't want sex, they want it ALL.
A partner who challenges them while balancing them, someone who captures their heart, and reduces their short attention span. Someone they feel a close spiritual/ connection with (esp the ones with Scorpio placements). Intelligence is a great quality, but a Libra can find those traits in anyone. An abundance of their friends, and possible suitors will possess those traits. But for a Libra, it's not about spending the rest of his life with an intelligent, attractive woman, it's about getting to know and becoming closer to the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

Something tells me that you didn't make the cut.

The scales aren't balanced with you. It's not even tipping slightly. He doesn't care to make the effort. So there is no confusion here. Just convenience.

I hope this answers your question.
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@Tharealher,

You're projecting your anger on a forum for individuals who simplified your status with this Libra. It's not undefined, mystified, or vague, it's pretty cut and dry.
The "Scales," although indecisive are balanced when a suitable partner meets all their requirements. Yes, a Libra just doesn't want sex, they want it ALL.
A partner who challenges them while balancing them, someone who captures their heart, and reduces their short attention span. Someone they feel a close spiritual/ connection with (esp the ones with Scorpio placements). Intelligence is a great quality, but a Libra can find those traits in anyone. An abundance of their friends, and possible suitors will possess those traits. But for a Libra, it's not about spending the rest of his life with an intelligent, attractive woman, it's about getting to know and becoming closer to the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

Something tells me that you didn't make the cut.

The scales aren't balanced with you. It's not even tipping slightly. He doesn't care to make the effort. So there is no confusion here. Just convenience.

I hope this answers your question.

Thank you not being rude. I don't care to make the cut. I think he got his feelings involved I straight up told him what it was. I'm okay with that. I just ask was it normal for them to keep a sexual relationship outside of their relationship. Like the rest of the people on here. I was asking because he keeps coming back its the sex I know but if it's just sex why would anybody keep getting caught up in lust if they know what it is. Just saying. ðŸ'¯ðŸ'¯‚‚
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OH MAH GAWD, SHE'S A LEO. I fricken knew it! Explains EVERYTHING in her posts. el oh el.

A 23 year old Leo chick, allowing herself to be used as a cum dumpster, clueless as fuck, looks like she's 40, and SOMEHOW associates an ice cream flavor with homosexuality.

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You got something better else to do.omg the faggot has interrupted. I'm a Leo bitch now what bow down and suck your dick for the night.
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@Tharealher,

You're projecting your anger on a forum for individuals who simplified your status with this Libra. It's not undefined, mystified, or vague, it's pretty cut and dry.
The "Scales," although indecisive are balanced when a suitable partner meets all their requirements. Yes, a Libra just doesn't want sex, they want it ALL.
A partner who challenges them while balancing them, someone who captures their heart, and reduces their short attention span. Someone they feel a close spiritual/ connection with (esp the ones with Scorpio placements). Intelligence is a great quality, but a Libra can find those traits in anyone. An abundance of their friends, and possible suitors will possess those traits. But for a Libra, it's not about spending the rest of his life with an intelligent, attractive woman, it's about getting to know and becoming closer to the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

Something tells me that you didn't make the cut.

The scales aren't balanced with you. It's not even tipping slightly. He doesn't care to make the effort. So there is no confusion here. Just convenience.

I hope this answers your question.

Thank you not being rude. I don't care to make the cut. I think he got his feelings involved I straight up told him what it was. I'm okay with that. I just ask was it normal for them to keep a sexual relationship outside of their relationship. Like the rest of the people on here. I was asking because he keeps coming back its the sex I know but if it's just sex why would anybody keep getting caught up in lust if they know what it is. Just saying. ��'���'�‚‚
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Your vagina isn't gold honey. He's doing it because you let him. He knows you're a stupid 23 year old girl who will tolerate his nonsense because you do not know any better. You come here asking why he keeps coming back, but you should be asking yourself why you're slutting yourself out for a guy like this. It's not him, it's YOU.
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And bitch bye. I don't care. I just wanted sex from his ass. How am I getting used ?? I'm not the one lusting. I don't fall that hard over dick. Fuck bitches I get my money. I'm a Leo we strive and work hard for what we want and need. You sound like a bitch behind a phone hiding cause your self esteem so low to show pics of yourself. Cause you so far eating ice cream and Ho hos knowing how to take a dick in the ass. Crying for desperate attention so you comment all over someone's shit. I know I'm the shit without you telling me. You a nobody and you don't know me. So you coming for the wrong one. U mad about a libra post are you serious wtf grow up bitch
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Posted by Tharealher
And bitch bye. I don't care. I just wanted sex from his ass. How am I getting used ?? I'm not the one lusting. I don't fall that hard over dick. Fuck bitches I get my money. I'm a Leo we strive and work hard for what we want and need. You sound like a bitch behind a phone hiding cause your self esteem so low to show pics of yourself. Cause you so far eating ice cream and Ho hos knowing how to take a dick in the ass. Crying for desperate attention so you comment all over someone's shit. I know I'm the shit without you telling me. You a nobody and you don't know me. So you coming for the wrong one. U mad about a libra post are you serious wtf grow up bitch
Then why the hell are you here trying to figure out this guy? You are NOT the first Leo bitch who has come here under this pathetic guise. You've caught feelings and are digging for small slivers of hope he wants more.

But go ahead, keep making an ass out of yourself. It's hilarious.
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I was asking does libras pursue sexual relationships outside of their relationship like what I'm saying they don't have sex with their partner but wants to keep coming back to you?! It's confusing as hell so I got myself out of it. I was just curious. I got libra friends some cheated but I feel like it's cause they don't like something their partner wasn't fulfilling in a relationship.
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Who would be dumb to keep coming back to someone knowing if it's just sex.
Some people just like sex a lot
She's got a lot of learning to do... :/

Hell, I'd be nicer if she wasn't being such a jack ass about all of this. Hard to feel any sort of empathy for this type.
I kind of agree with you, I just wouldn't put it this way...as I'm not here to judge anyone. Some time ago I opened a thread about a Libra guy who's engaged and asked my number. I didn't even lead him on and people were so judgemental, calling me names etc.

I just hope arieslove doesn't find this thread...
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It's not necessarily the "other woman" bit, it's her trailer trash attitude she has about all of this. Can we say "Jer-ry?"

The Libra forum sees this a lot with the Leo women that come here. They pretend they're here for one reason, but it's pretty obvious why they're REALLY here. Being a fixed sign, they get hooked and cannot drop the shitty guy. Their egos are so ridiculous that they think they're the magical vagina that keeps the dude around, when the reality is it's just another sad fuck story of being used for sex and not knowing any better.

They end up showing their psycho side and get all crazy and incredibly stupid (because many of the ones that come here, get caught/called out on their shit and freak the fuck out and start slinging the stupidest fucking insults) and NOBODY is understanding them. It really doesn't matter if you're coddling or blunt. They won't change their ways until it's beaten horse status.
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Who would be dumb to keep coming back to someone knowing if it's just sex.
Some people just like sex a lot

I do. But I don't crave it that damn much it's my whole life.
Libras can be very weak if they're immature or unhappy with their partner. I read your story and I don't think it's anything but sex; still, you're the only one who knows what happened between you two and how it happened. Only you can tell for sure.
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I know it's sex cause that's all I came on him for. I know what it is but I don't know and don't care if he doesn't get it. He cried I always got what I want. So I don't know he keeps coming back cause he's hurt or what ? But libras are known to be indecisive and tend to stay in relationships. All my female libra friends tends to stay in a relationship they can't be single for nothing. They love attention. I feel like hell finally leave if he finds someone else and I hope he does.
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Posted by Tharealher
I was asking does libras pursue sexual relationships outside of their relationship like what I'm saying they don't have sex with their partner but wants to keep coming back to you?! It's confusing as hell so I got myself out of it. I was just curious. I got libra friends some cheated but I feel like it's cause they don't like something their partner wasn't fulfilling in a relationship.
Does he call you or text you and you respond? THAT'S why he keeps coming back.

This isn't a Libra thing, it's a skeezy fuck thing. He's a cheater, so why are you even remotely surprised or even curious that he's still being a shady asshole?
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Some Libras pursue sexual relationships outside of their own relationships and some do not.
If it's a FWB contract, then no judgement here.
However, you may want to define your own emotions in the realms of the contract you signed up for.

He's not the one who is emotionally invested.
You are.
If so, it is time to terminate this contract.

I really think the topic of your thread was a bit misleading...
I think what you meant to ask was "This is what I signed up for...But...What should I do?"

Good Luck.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
Some Libras pursue sexual relationships outside of their own relationships and some do not.
If it's a FWB contract, then no judgement here.
However, you may want to define your own emotions in the realms of the contract you signed up for.

He's not the one who is emotionally invested.
You are.
If so, it is time to terminate this contract.

I really think the topic of your thread was a bit misleading...
I think what you meant to ask was "This is what I signed up for...But...What should I do?"

Good Luck.

Thanks. He been out of the picture. Sex is sex to me. Sex is good but it is what it is.