Have you asked him? That should be the first thing to do. It seems like he charmed his way into your life though, and you seem enthralled with the idea. Are you a cancer?
Does my Libra friend/roommate like me?
Posted by Inloveagain24Sweet heart you are a little clueless. You described a relationship and a pretty sweet one 🙂 If he doesnt like you as more than a friend I would love to see how he treats a woman that he really does have feelings for. I asked if you were a cancer woman because your story reminds me of me and an ex gf... it was just as if things never needed to be said, we feel in love and moved in together without a single pause or thought. She was great girlfriend and we would still be together if it wasnt for her having kids.Posted by DonnaElvira77I do a lot for him, but he does a lot for me. We both work and he contributes equally financially, but if I work a weekend day I'll come home and the house will be clean and dinner will be made. And he will all the time tell me to sit down and relax while he takes care of whatever I was getting up to do. I have been used, I'm a cancer water dog, but this doesn't feel like being used.Posted by elguapolibraI agree. It seems very much like he has settled in. When you say he spends a lot of time with you? Are you helping him doing things for him etc? Is he using this perhaps, the idea of you two together to his advantage?
Have you asked him? That should be the first thing to do. It seems like he charmed his way into your life though, and you seem enthralled with the idea. Are you a cancer?click to expand
I cant say for certain if he does like you more than a friend, but from what you say I think you two are in a relationship. 🙂 Also if you two are having sex Im pretty sure that you can confirm he likes you more than a friend. I ask because in this day and age sex is thrown around with no regard.
Posted by Sc4rl3t1000 percent agree. The two relationships I hold dearly are between my one and two least compatible signs, the cancer relationship ended because she had children and I didnt want to play the father role, I was young and didnt realize how small that shit was. The capricorn just didnt know what she wanted... I wanted to make things work till the end but you cant make someone stay if they dont want to make it work anymore.Posted by Inloveagain24No such thing.Posted by 2MoonWhy?
cancer + libra = NO No no....
Don't pay heed to that.
Astrology should be used as a Guideline, not as something that's definite.
Humans are complex and amazing creatures. If two people want to make something work for each other, THEY WILL make it happen.
F uck what astrology says if two things aren't compatible. It's just based off sun signs. We are ruled by more than just the sun, we are influenced by different people, different environments and different opinions.
Like I said, just a Guideline.
AS LONG AS BOTH want it to work, that's all itll matter from that point.
Trust me.
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astrology may correlate with our personalities and how we act to the world but it doesnt mean its the only cause. @Sc4rl3t is right if you both want it work you will find away... The OP has shown that there is a very good chance that a relationship can work and thrive.
How can you come here, ask for advice, but insist on giving as few details as possible?
You said there was a massage and led to more, but not sex. Kissing? Hands going intimate places?
What you need to do is talk to him about this. Not be a pansy ass "oh these things will come out on their own."
No. Just no. Grow a pair and ask him what's up. Believe it or not, there are Libras (and any guy, really), who would coast along in this situation and then turn right around and claim that this isn't what you assumed it to be. Room and board? Free nookie? Sure, why the hell not?
Cover your ass and ask him what's up. It's a hell of a lot better than keeping things all weird, confusing, and unspoken.
You said there was a massage and led to more, but not sex. Kissing? Hands going intimate places?
What you need to do is talk to him about this. Not be a pansy ass "oh these things will come out on their own."
No. Just no. Grow a pair and ask him what's up. Believe it or not, there are Libras (and any guy, really), who would coast along in this situation and then turn right around and claim that this isn't what you assumed it to be. Room and board? Free nookie? Sure, why the hell not?
Cover your ass and ask him what's up. It's a hell of a lot better than keeping things all weird, confusing, and unspoken.
Posted by Inloveagain24The hot/cold shit could be one of two things. Considering the situation it COULD be him not sure where you stand.Posted by elguapolibraI'm just not sure how he feels yet. He will get so close then get distant. That's why I'm on here asking. There are a lot more details I don't want to go into here because they are so specific. Elguapolibra, can you message me and maybe give me some advice?Posted by Sc4rl3t1000 percent agree. The two relationships I hold dearly are between my one and two least compatible signs, the cancer relationship ended because she had children and I didnt want to play the father role, I was young and didnt realize how small that shit was. The capricorn just didnt know what she wanted... I wanted to make things work till the end but you cant make someone stay if they dont want to make it work anymore.Posted by Inloveagain24No such thing.Posted by 2MoonWhy?
cancer + libra = NO No no....
Don't pay heed to that.
Astrology should be used as a Guideline, not as something that's definite.
Humans are complex and amazing creatures. If two people want to make something work for each other, THEY WILL make it happen.
F uck what astrology says if two things aren't compatible. It's just based off sun signs. We are ruled by more than just the sun, we are influenced by different people, different environments and different opinions.
Like I said, just a Guideline.
AS LONG AS BOTH want it to work, that's all itll matter from that point.
Trust me.
astrology may correlate with our personalities and how we act to the world but it doesnt mean its the only cause. @Sc4rl3t is right if you both want it work you will find away... The OP has shown that there is a very good chance that a relationship can work and thrive.click to expand
Or he's just using the situation to his advantage. All the perks without any commitment.
Clarify now or you'll get taken for a ride.
I have thought about both sides. I could be confusing him as much as he is confusing me. I'm super easy to read. I'm an open book. But I over think everything. So sometimes I give deadpan as a response to what a normal girl might get jealous over. I know he notices what I do and cares. But since that one night a few nights ago he hasn't touched me. And I don't know why. He wants my time and attention. And he is awake right now a foot away unable to sleep. I can tell he wants to know what I'm typing on my phone. So its confusing.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamThat sounds like good advice. Confusing is getting tiring. Generally its OK because we never argue and we have such a positive friendship. But it isn't going to stay positive without honest communication.
How can you come here, ask for advice, but insist on giving as few details as possible?
You said there was a massage and led to more, but not sex. Kissing? Hands going intimate places?
What you need to do is talk to him about this. Not be a pansy ass "oh these things will come out on their own."
No. Just no. Grow a pair and ask him what's up. Believe it or not, there are Libras (and any guy, really), who would coast along in this situation and then turn right around and claim that this isn't what you assumed it to be. Room and board? Free nookie? Sure, why the hell not?
Cover your ass and ask him what's up. It's a hell of a lot better than keeping things all weird, confusing, and unspoken.
Posted by SingASong41+1 to this and @rockyroadicecream advice. They said everything that you should do. You know this guy better than any of us, so you are the only person who knows his character. If you really want to know you need to ask, and be prepared for any answer. Its a huge leap of faith but if you want results you need to make moves forward, don't stand there waiting for things to happen. It was easy for me because the two of us wanted it, we knew and just went with it.
I agree with rocky. You need to be assertive.
Libras are generally straightforward. I think he likes you and it could be the start of something great, just be open with him.
Don't over think it. I know you Cancers lol.
I will say that if you want something more with this guy then I say don't, if you haven't already, have sex. Find out first where the two of you stand. You want a relationship, I can tell by how vague you are with the details. You have feelings that you feel should be kept out of the discussion, even though you are seeking advice. Just be open and communicate, hopefully you are both mature enough to handle the situation. It is better to have it out there regardless of the outcome. I made the mistake of being strung along in my last relationship and it was very toxic, don't make that mistake. If he is a good man he will be honest, don't waste your time on games and indecisiveness (an often cited issue with libras). games and indecisiveness are traits of little boys, if its a relationship you want make sure he is a MAN. the only way to know is to ask. Are you ready to make that move?
You sleep in the same bed?
I wonder if his Venus is Scorpio.
Also rockyroad makes great points.
Posted by duchesslibroNo, we sleep in the same room though.
You sleep in the same bed?
Posted by elguapolibraWe haven't and I don't plan on it. My emotions are too connected to everything physical and it would be harmful to me to be physical without the emotional security of a long lasting relationship. That's where even the little that has happened is giving me issues.Posted by SingASong41+1 to this and @rockyroadicecream advice. They said everything that you should do. You know this guy better than any of us, so you are the only person who knows his character. If you really want to know you need to ask, and be prepared for any answer. Its a huge leap of faith but if you want results you need to make moves forward, don't stand there waiting for things to happen. It was easy for me because the two of us wanted it, we knew and just went with it.
I agree with rocky. You need to be assertive.
Libras are generally straightforward. I think he likes you and it could be the start of something great, just be open with him.
Don't over think it. I know you Cancers lol.
I will say that if you want something more with this guy then I say don't, if you haven't already, have sex. Find out first where the two of you stand. You want a relationship, I can tell by how vague you are with the details. You have feelings that you feel should be kept out of the discussion, even though you are seeking advice. Just be open and communicate, hopefully you are both mature enough to handle the situation. It is better to have it out there regardless of the outcome. I made the mistake of being strung along in my last relationship and it was very toxic, don't make that mistake. If he is a good man he will be honest, don't waste your time on games and indecisiveness (an often cited issue with libras). games and indecisiveness are traits of little boys, if its a relationship you want make sure he is a MAN. the only way to know is to ask. Are you ready to make that move?click to expand
It's time for a discussion. Any developments since yesterday?
Relationships can work but other aspects have to back it up. Something balances out those bad aspects. In have not relationships last where there are more bad aspects than good.
Good luck with the person you sleep in the same room with lol
Good luck with the person you sleep in the same room with lol
Posted by duchesslibroI haven't tried taking to him. He is being physically distant. But if I use my phone to text someone he wants to know who I'm talking to, and then he immediately wants all my attention. And he will tell me about how he is ignoring girls trying to talk to him. And he really will ignore them he won't touch his phone. So that's confusing.
It's time for a discussion. Any developments since yesterday?
Could he be unsure because I didn't reciprocate and touch him back when he got intimate the other day?
I'm just not one to get physical without emotional security. For me to stay stable and healthy and happy I need to take care of my emotions and my boundaries.
Posted by Inloveagain24good god, just put your big girl pants on and have a conversation!Posted by duchesslibroI haven't tried taking to him. He is being physically distant. But if I use my phone to text someone he wants to know who I'm talking to, and then he immediately wants all my attention. And he will tell me about how he is ignoring girls trying to talk to him. And he really will ignore them he won't touch his phone. So that's confusing.
It's time for a discussion. Any developments since yesterday?
Could he be unsure because I didn't reciprocate and touch him back when he got intimate the other day?
I'm just not one to get physical without emotional security. For me to stay stable and healthy and happy I need to take care of my emotions and my boundaries.click to expand
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