Drunk Libra men?

I've posted before about my confusion over a Libra man that I'm in love with. I know this sounds very desperate, but I have to ask: do you think Libras tell the truth when they're drunk? My Libra man has told me so many times that he loves me and wants to wake up next to me now and when I'm old and, as he said, "with hairy armpits." haha. The problem is his sister is dying, and his mom (who's his whole world) is not doing so well, either. She's 70 years old. I understand that this is a lot of crap to go through; he has a lot on his plate. But I'm in such agony. As I mentioned, when he invites me out, it's only when he's drunk. When I get there, we have a great time. Then he starts with his love talk and telling me that I'm perfect for him. I want to ask him where I stand and if he's being sincere, but the only way I can talk to him is at his job! Ugh. I went to see him today, and he was so busy. He asked what I needed to speak to him about (I had messaged him last week that I needed to talk to him). I told him that I didn't want to talk about it while he was working. His phone is disconnected, by the way. So, do y'all think he was telling me the truth? Thanks!

Ummmmm, there are so many red flags I just to know where to begin

The thing is, there is a lot of history with us. A lot! haha. He invites me to a bar that he's a regular at. The last time we were there, I found out that he has a tab there. I know he's not doing so well, financially. Every time we meet up there, he insists on putting my drinks on his tab. He never wanted me to pay for my stuff. So I'm thinking maybe he only invite me there since it's the only place he can get away with not paying for a while?

Well as you say you have history that we don't know entirely about, but if every time he is drunk and calls on you, you come to him, and if he only invites you out when he is drunk, that says quite a bit. The fact that he puts your drinks on his tab is probably more about pride than anything. I'd also say putting himself further into debt to pay for drinks- yours and his- means he is in a pretty bad state of mind right now. He is going through a lot and likes to go to his usual spot and usual girl to deal with his grief, it sounds like... You seem to have very strong feelings for him and he's making it worse by telling you everything you want to hear but if he won't say it sober, it doesn't mean much. Libras love everyone when we're drunk. lol! Of course like i said we don't know the whole story, but at least try to get him alone sober and see if he's still professing his love for you. Or you could just take a step back until he is not dealing with such difficult personal stuff all at once, which is probably the more considerate thing to do.

So I'm failing to see why you're attracted to this guy.

Also, if you have to get him drunk to see this side of him, he won't be like that when he's sober. Get some standards and find a guy with fewer life issues.

IF HE DRINKS A LOT AA HAS ANOTHER GROUP WHO MEET AND TRY TO HELP PEOPLE WHO LOVE AL K HALL ICS
I DON'T KNOW THE NAME OF IT I NEVER WAS MUCH OF A CLUB PERSON I WAS JUST A PUB DRUNK

If you want the whole story, you can read it here. I posted it before. My username is Chicana31. Thank y'all for your words and honesty! It's on page 3 titled "Confused over Libra Man! Help!"

I don't need to read the "whole" story. You want to be a girlfriend, yet all you're to him is a therapist.

That shit ain't healthy.