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Commitment feels so weird to me...once I finally get it...not that I don't want it...but it's once I get it that I can begin to think of everything that could possibly go wrong(but probably won't)...I have to constantly fight off this urge I have to step back...double-mindedness---ugh...

I fight it too! But not because of all that can go wrong, but because of all that will change. It's scary.

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Its funny you should say that...I have 3 Libra male friends now who have all been in long term r/ships in the past and who seem, what's the word we use here? oh yes, that's right "broken" and/or unbalanced and see no r/ship future with anybody....they all seem to be beyond help in that respect but none of them would say no to a fling with somebody attractive and intelligent...WTF??

I also know 2 young Libras and they are keen to be in a r/ship.....hmmmmmm

Im kinda happy in a r/ship with a Libra at the moment and although, i dont see a long-term future with him r/ship wise, he's wonderful, and quite prepared to make every effort to please, to spoil and he loves talking about r/ships and a future...yikes!!! Yet the one I truly love and cannot forget (although I have let him go) is so beyond help it upsets me greatly. He is torn by a former partner who uses his child against him if he does not bend to her every whim and so he cannot move forward...its interesting to see the difference between these 2 men...they are of the same age, brought up very similarly and they bear many resembling scars (one doesnt have a child though). Has anybody noticed those with children from previous r/ships are less likely to make a move/commmitment??

* to be beyond help in that respect but none of them would say no to a fling with somebody attractive and intelligent...WTF??

I think that is a man thing. lol!

LOL that is so true!