Expressive

Can Libras be expressive when they like the other person alot? I read that LIbras dont usually express how they feel about the other but the man I know is quite different , he keep saying he like me almost every hour in one day ! That's quite overwhelming even for a Scorp!

Yeah, of course, but not usually verbally. I dont talk about how much i like you until it comes to the "love you" part...and then the person is usually like WTF..where did that come from?!! I just like "togetherness", more than anything than has to be said or done in particular.

I dont like it when people keep telling me how much they like me either...it loses its sincerity when its been said too much, and its boring.

""I dont like it when people keep telling me how much they like me either...it loses its sincerity when its been said too much, and its boring.--- Oh I know!

Expression can be many things though, for instance though I'm not very verbal my actions say a lot, and it's been said that actions speak louder than words.Libra expressions vary everyone's influence is different. Make sure that the words and the actions line up. Many times get so flattered by the words that we fail to notice whats really going on... and Libras are good at playing on the egos. Why exactly does he like you? Are the reasons superficial or do they have some depth and meaning?

My bad I think I went into something else entirely...

I am very expressive. But I have noticed that it is more in the beginning of the relationship, I get very strong feelings and then as it goes from courting to a relationship I become a lot more my normal self, more reserved in that area.

One strange thing is that he just started saying it recently , after 5 moths in relationship! I dont think we re at the courtship state anymore ! He didnt say this at the beginning of our relationship - very quiet! It raised Scorp 's suspicion !lol 🙂

Maybe he's more comfy with you and trust you... I say more about what I feel when I get comfy and slowly but surely begin to let go around them

it took 1 year b4 i really opened up to tell how i felt about and appreciate my bestfriend and 8 months with my last boyfriend

I think that it might really depend on what sign a person's Venus lies in as to how they demonstrate and express their affections. For example, from what I know, LP's level of expressiveness has not changed from the courtship phase to the relationship phase and, in fact, may have grown. It is possible that your Libra has the same Venus placement as LP, and, as a result, might become more expressive and affectionate as the relationship grows rather than less.

He has Venus in Scorpio , same as me 🙂

blurting's okay.

"Can Libras be expressive when they like the other person alot? I read that LIbras dont usually express how they feel about the other but the man I know is quite different , he keep saying he like me almost every hour in one day ! That's quite overwhelming even for a Scorp!"

When we've been given the green light by you we will give you what you give us - to maintain the sense of balance in the relationship. We mirror you and also the communications, with a little Libra twist of course!

So Libra are you saying that Libra men will hang in the wind waiting for women to make the first move?

The VERY first move?

Please elaborate on this,

"When we've been given the green light by you we will give you what you give us - to maintain the sense of balance in the relationship. We mirror you and also the communications, with a little Libra twist of course!"

I think my Libra dropped some clues and subtle hints for me to realise his affection till I fell for him too and then gave him little nudge to confess his "true intention" ! 🙂

It must be if they have Scorpio in their chart. It makes it very easy. LP is the most expressive Libra I have ever known. Others have been after the relationship phase but never as much as my LP... Again it must be is Scorpio rising or something.

Ok, looks like I won't get an elaboration on that comment, so I'll go with what I've come to know.

They do drop subtle hints and they will leave you guessing to yourself if you should read between the lines. The longer you're with him, the more comfortable you'll become with asking him to say exactly what he means. And the more he comes to trust you with not only his thoughts but his heart, the more he'll be at ease at telling you how he feel or what he's thinking.

My boyfriend sometimes needs the nudge from me to get him to open up, but he's getting better.

I wonder what happened to my little Libra? Its funny when you?re sure you clicked with someone, but they obviously didnt have the same idea...i hate it when that happens. Thinking about it, i must have screwed up big time somewhere along the way. Maybe he never intended anything to happen, but why just lead someone up the garden path?? Ive learned this time..never again am i contacting a guy E-V-E-R. If it means im losing out, well, that will just have to be the consequence for my (lack of) action!

HP - You have to see this in the practical sense. For instance if you suggest we get together twice a week then we will also suggest to get together twice a week. We mirror what you give because it is a safe assumption to make that that is what you're expecting from us in return. You have to take it quite litterally.

Amen to Libra?s comment!

As with all things, it depends on the situation. I have no problems expressing great admiration, respect, and affection for someone. Being emotionally vulnerable, especially before I know things are okay and reciprocal, is still very difficult for me. Once I feel safe, I have no problems voicing my joy. I am also learning to voice my displeasure which is equally if not harder for me to do.

Sola

Maybe he wasn't ready for a relationship etc. There are many many reasons things don't work out, don't be quick to take the blame.

My comment was not made from an astrological standpoint, but from a new relationship standpoint.

As far as me not seeing things from a practical sense, that's rather subjective. She asked for advice; I gave mine.

I am to blame for misreading the signs LS..its ok, i know when i screw up.

Im sick of it all, i dont want to think about men/relationships for a long time, it just wears me down.

My ex scorp did that to me..its a jealousy/control thing. You should just have enjoyed it, there?s nothing better than seeing them squirm when they?ve dumped you!! Heehee, i remember mine done it to me in club when i was with my friends, and then i left...alone. Later i had about 10 missed calls and messages from him, sayin "I" was crazy...erm, i think it might have been the other way round..LOSERS!! 🙂

Irishlibra, I find Scorp men/Libran women are way less compatable than Scorp women/Libra men... 🙂 Nic or LP might have to break that down for you.

It is ajoining sign sympathy.

I am actually going to an opening the "Seven Year Scorp" is having in town this week. We haven't really talked since he proposed in November (for those who remember that) and I told him no because we haven't seen each other in four years. I told him to put his money where his mouth was and come see me.

Soooo, he hasn't invited me to his opening but I am going. Enough is enough. He needs to get over himself in a big way.

Yeah, I tend to think that there is a very big difference between Scorp women and Scorp men. I tend to get along smashingly with Scorp women, but far from well with most Scorp men. They really just rub me the wrong way. They just disturb me and get under my skin... Astrology talks about Scorps having that ability, but I don't think that my reaction to them is exactly what they talk about. I tend to get this really pretentious, conceited, and on some level superficial vibe from them that just really aggravates me. I just really hate posturing. I find that I just have this insatiable urge to knock their egos down to the appropriate size and give them a more realistic view of their overly inflated concept of their own self-worth...

Irishlibra, you?ve hit the nail on the head as far as Scorp men/Libra women are concerned. The ones i knew, blew me away at first sight, and it was totally mutual. But, it soon becomes clear that although the sexual attraction is explosive, our natures are destructive to each other...there is no amount of compromise that will fix it. It will be a relationship based on who cn hurt the other the most, because they simply dont understand each other?s ways of feeling. Dont get me wrong, i loved the Scorps, but they were never good for me or to me.

p.s, this opening thing...dont go. You?re not invited, which sucks to start with, so why go and hurt yourself by seeing/hearing things that will only hurt you more?

Nah. I am going. I originally was invited. I am not going to be hurt by it but he needs to face me and get over his obsession. I am not going to confront him or anything. I am just going.

It will be fine.

🙂

Seriously, it will be fine. 🙂

Well, i hope you have a killer outfit, to make head?s turn...not only his!!

Heehee, he might ty and get into your pants...ex scorps are good at that game...

like of course! lol!

We never dated. He was my best friend once upon a time ... then he became really sexually obsessed with me. He has built me up to something that I am not ... and no one could possibly live up too.

He has a girlfriend who I think lives with him and everytime she turns his back ... he calls me and does weird stuff like proposes to me.

It will be better for all of us when he sees me and realizes whatever it was, no longer exists.

🙂

Either that or the whole thing will blow up on me. lol!

Deep down I think this will be healing for all of us. I am going through a whole clearing past relationship karma thing at the moment. lol! This is but one step and has been a LONG time coming.

I think that is part of the burden of being a Libra Lady. You end up not being a person to people but a symbol of something deeper. Of course, we take that on and become fearful so we can't move because we fear disappointing other people's expectations.

***Yeah, I tend to think that there is a very big difference between Scorp women and Scorp men. I tend to get along smashingly with Scorp women, but far from well with most Scorp men. They really just rub me the wrong way. They just disturb me and get under my skin...****

Wow Alcheme, same here, I can never get along with Scorp guys they really turn me off, even on a friendship level...