Fighting

Last night I got into an actual physical fist fight with another woman. It's been lots of years since I've had to do this. It is really bothering me. I take great pride in my self control. This chick was arguing with her boyfriend and they started fighting. She plowed into him, which resulted in them hitting the side of my truck, I told her to get away from my truck. When she didn't move herself, I pulled her away from it and told her again to stay away from it. She then stepped up on the step rail and flung her arms over the cab.

I lost it!!!! I snatched her by the back of her hair and slammed her to the ground. She jumped up and it was on. When it was done she was on the ground, not moving.

Today, I have replayed this a hundred times in my head. I do not let people get me to this state. How could things have gotten out of control so quickly? Why this situation? Why her?

She's tried to call me all day. I won't take her call. Are Libras in some kind of weirdness right now? She's a Gemini.

Personally, I normally do not respond physically aggressive. I was shocked after it was over and can't believe it happened. I am ashamed actually. I prefer to distance myself from such situations, nor do I condone it.

After I posted I saw two other posts on here about fighting. Both were women hitting men.

What's your moon?

Posted by Wynter
What's your moon?

Pisces moon

Posted by LilyTree
I've never been in a serious physical fight (save for playful rough housing with my bros), but I like to imagine that I would kick ass Aries style . I remember seeing a poll that declared that violence among females is rising.

It's a sign of the times. Mad world...

MissLibra, I think you should open yourself up to the woman you fought and take her call (or contact her.) If she is reaching out to you, this is both of your chances at closure and to make things right between you two. You seem to be very upset about this, and communicating with her and apologizing while accepting hers will help you both heal, ease your minds, and overcome your shame. You're not a bad person.

I am upset about it, genuinely. I'm trying to take the time to gain clarity before speaking with her, which I'd rather do in person, not over the phone.