fighting with your s/o

would you deeply offended if you have a lil argument with your s/o and he/she unfriends/deletes you off social media, basically burning bridges; how does that make you feel? would you care, or not really?

Posted by tiziani
I can't say it would affect me that much. A few times in the past I've thrown stops over what I've thought was important when it comes to social media and partners but it always turned out to be a distraction from the real issue.

At the end of the day, as long as I'm given a few days to think about it I come to understand the point is someone (or both people) are upset about something. And either it's something we can change or we can't.

i'm the same.

Libras don't give a rat's ass about social media.

If this is you trying to manipulate someone, lol.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Libras don't give a rat's ass about social media.

If this is you trying to manipulate someone, lol.

What?! Yes they do!

In fact they check their shit probably more often than us Geminis!

I think saying that a certain sign hates social media is a very broad assumption. Almost everyone with access to a phone and a computer is addicted to social media. It's our culture now a days, especially if you are living in America like I am.

Btw, my libra friends live for social media, remember, most libras love attention. They are social butterflies, and they love compliments. What better way to get compliments than to post selfies on Instagram, Facebook, twitter, etc..?

Think again rocky, and don't accuse me of manipulating anyone. I would never do that.

Also, no one ever said anything about me personally doing that to someone, rocky.

If someone did that to me, I would also feel that they are "done". So I would be hurt and offended because it's like they don't care about your life and don't want to see how you are or what your up to, after all, social media can be a huge factor in most peoples life, posting pics of vacations, births, deaths, good news, bad news.. It's a way of staying connected with close and/or distant friends.

So when you delete someone off social media, it's like a big huge 'ouch'. That's just how I see and feel about it. Don't necessarily think it's a Taurus thing, just a personal view.

But when it comes to a very sensitive sign like cancer or libra, I was curious as to how it would affect their feelings if someone did that to them. I was assumed it would hurt but I never like to assume, I like to question and find out for myself.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Libras don't give a rat's ass about social media.

If this is you trying to manipulate someone, lol.

What?! Yes they do!

In fact they check their shit probably more often than us Geminis!

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Every single Libra I know is very inactive on social media. I didn't say anything about creeping around without interaction, but you won't see them posting much. Hell, this has been brought up before on the Libra forum and several here even admitted to not giving a shit about social media.

Gem women are the total attention whores of social media. Selfie city and all up on that shit.

Also, most of the Libras I know don't give a rat's ass about who they have on social media. It's about connecting with people outside of that crap anyway. I'd see them being more offended at being ignored in regard to text/call attempts or being avoided in public. Social media is nothing.

OP- you can kindly stfu about that whole "to generalize an entire sign..." shit. YOU just came here asking about an entire sign's response to being blocked on something as trivial as social media. You just don't like the answer because it doesn't enable your situation. My bad.

lol @ your backpedaling. Bitch please. I don't care.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Also, most of the Libras I know don't give a rat's ass about who they have on social media. It's about connecting with people outside of that crap anyway. I'd see them being more offended at being ignored in regard to text/call attempts or being avoided in public. Social media is nothing.

i agree with this. i'm much more affected if you don't return my text/call.

i don't post on twitter. hardly ever on facebook. i've never ever ever taken a selfie.

to be honest, i probably wouldn't even know if someone had blocked me.

Rocky telling me to 'stfu'? Haha, what else is new. Sorry you're still butt hurt that your libra guy left you cold and lonely. *now she wants no woman ever to have a libra guy because she cant* poor unfortunate soul. Better luck next time

Yes it could be childish, or maybe that person is just trying to forget you because you hurt them or such.. I once had a fight with me Pisces bff and she deleted me off Facebook after like a year of not speaking. That hurt :/ because there was pictures of us on her Facebook that I could no longer look at or save bc she deleted me

I would not even realize if someone has deleted me off any network, even if its my S/o because i do not check up on his social interactions. If however i came to know about it happening by some remote i would definitely be offended. If it was on the basis of some altercation i woild let it slide. But if it happens more than once i would take it as a red flag - a 12 year old kids manipulative technhique, and all my trust and respect for him / her would be out through the window!

Agree with rocky - i would be more offended if you ignore my texts or emails. But dont do this too often as i woukd treat that as being imanipulative.

That's funny that libras would be offended if you ignore their texts because libras are usually the ones ignoring texts and calls when they decide to disappear haha, am I wrong?

You are right - i do that too, but just to give someone a taste of their own medicine. Other than that i will respond to a text or emal within 1 to 2 hours, or let the person know that i will reply at a later time. If by chance i do forget to respond and you call me out on it, i will apologize profusely for making you feel neglected.

Sounds like not a very serious relationship.

If I deleted my Libra from facebook it would probably take him quite some time to notice, and even once he did he would laugh at me and be like "did you really delete me on facebook?"

I mean seriously are these people in question in high school?

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Rocky telling me to 'stfu'? Haha, what else is new. Sorry you're still butt hurt that your libra guy left you cold and lonely. *now she wants no woman ever to have a libra guy because she cant* poor unfortunate soul. Better luck next time

...HOW do you get out of bed in the morning without seriously hurting yourself?

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Posted by jeane
to be honest, i probably wouldn't even know if someone had blocked me.

Same here. If, I realized it, I'd be like, Hmm...I guess this person doesn't want anything to do with me anymore. Depends on how much they meant to me how I'd feel about it. I can't imagine someone close to me doing that instead of just talking it out with me.

Interest in social media might be generational thing with libras. I don't know any libras my age who are active on it. It seems like everyone the OP's age (regardless of sign) is into it though.

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I dunno. All the Libras I know range in age from early 20s to mid 40s. I think out of all of them, maybe two are semi active on social media, but most don't interact much. Maybe scroll through feeds and just browse, but posting pics, statuses, etc? Nah.

The other day, one of my Libra friends from high school was leaving comments on my Facebook in regard to the Women's World Cup. It's like holy crap, you actually use this thing?? Haha.

On social media, Libras be like

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Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Rocky telling me to 'stfu'? Haha, what else is new. Sorry you're still butt hurt that your libra guy left you cold and lonely. *now she wants no woman ever to have a libra guy because she cant* poor unfortunate soul. Better luck next time

...HOW do you get out of bed in the morning without seriously hurting yourself?

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what exactly are you trying to imply rocky? that i should?

Posted by brianafay
Sounds like not a very serious relationship.

If I deleted my Libra from facebook it would probably take him quite some time to notice, and even once he did he would laugh at me and be like "did you really delete me on facebook?"

I mean seriously are these people in question in high school?

No, college. Idk about you guys, but my friends and I here in NY frequently use instagram, snapchat, twitter, and facebook (I dont use twitter or facebook though). a lot of my friends are in the art industry, like producing, rapping, painting, modeling, signing, drawing, things like that, so yes we use social media a lot and it is a big part of our lives *unfortunately* because its so easy to get your name out there when you are on the internet or social media and are trying to get big in the art/creative industry.

again, personally i am not trying to get into the art industry, but most of my friends and people around me in the area that i live in are.

also, when you are in college, its just fun. posting videos from crazy parties, concerts, festivals, events, vacations, its really special to document and share that stuff with your friends. sorry you guys dont feel the same way. everyone has their own preference.

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Posted by brianafay
Sounds like not a very serious relationship.

If I deleted my Libra from facebook it would probably take him quite some time to notice, and even once he did he would laugh at me and be like "did you really delete me on facebook?"

I mean seriously are these people in question in high school?

No, college. Idk about you guys, but my friends and I here in NY frequently use instagram, snapchat, twitter, and facebook (I dont use twitter or facebook though). a lot of my friends are in the art industry, like producing, rapping, painting, modeling, signing, drawing, things like that, so yes we use social media a lot and it is a big part of our lives *unfortunately* because its so easy to get your name out there when you are on the internet or social media and are trying to get big in the art/creative industry.

again, personally i am not trying to get into the art industry, but most of my friends and people around me in the area that i live in are.

also, when you are in college, its just fun. posting videos from crazy parties, concerts, festivals, events, vacations, its really special to document and share that stuff with your friends. sorry you guys dont feel the same way. everyone has their own preference.

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Yeah but don't you interact outside of social media too?

I have facebook and instagram, which I hardly post on as it is...but the people that I interact with irl the most, I hardly interact with on social media...because I don't need to.

So I'm just confused I guess. Unless you're in an online relationship I am not sure why it would matter

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Posted by brianafay
Sounds like not a very serious relationship.

If I deleted my Libra from facebook it would probably take him quite some time to notice, and even once he did he would laugh at me and be like "did you really delete me on facebook?"

I mean seriously are these people in question in high school?

No, college. Idk about you guys, but my friends and I here in NY frequently use instagram, snapchat, twitter, and facebook (I dont use twitter or facebook though). a lot of my friends are in the art industry, like producing, rapping, painting, modeling, signing, drawing, things like that, so yes we use social media a lot and it is a big part of our lives *unfortunately* because its so easy to get your name out there when you are on the internet or social media and are trying to get big in the art/creative industry.

again, personally i am not trying to get into the art industry, but most of my friends and people around me in the area that i live in are.

also, when you are in college, its just fun. posting videos from crazy parties, concerts, festivals, events, vacations, its really special to document and share that stuff with your friends. sorry you guys dont feel the same way. everyone has their own preference.

Yeah but don't you interact outside of social media too?

I have facebook and instagram, which I hardly post on as it is...but the people that I interact with irl the most, I hardly interact with on social media...because I don't need to.

So I'm just confused I guess. Unless you're in an online relationship I am not sure why it would matter

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obviously I do. use your imagination as to why someone would randomly delete you, i would be offended

clearly I interact heavily outside of social media if i just said its fun and special to documents e v e n t s as written above

Lol you need to chill

and if your s/o and you also text/call/see eachother who cares if they deleted you on facebook? Really.

I can totally see why some couples delete each other off social media alltogether - if it causes you that much drama, you're not doing yourself any favors by keeping it up

Also, if every time my Libra and I had an argument I would go on and make passive aggressive posts about him instead of talking to him like a grown up, like many people I see doing, I wouldn't blame him for deleting me - him reading that shit is not going to help our situation.

this isnt my s/o i am speaking of and i was talking about if there was a fight and that person deletes them afterward, youre not a libra so it doesnt matter anymore, im not getting relevant information

Posted by Sugarfoot
@rocky

I assumed that younger leebs would be on but I'm not surprised if they're not. I'm only on there because I have to be for marketing stuff and I'm inconsistent AF with that. All it does is cause problems and unnecessary drama IMO. Funny memes and vids are cool tho.

It's fun for killing time and I use it as a convenient/easy way to keep in touch with friends who live across the country.

Some people just take that shit too seriously though.

i use facebook primarily to stalk and make silent judgments about old school friends.

i also use it to keep abreast of things that interest me - new recipes, or interesting articles, maybe the occasional funny cat video. i don't need a long friends list to do that.

saying that the last thing i want is to have any of my business splashed over there. i don't want people to know what i am thinking, doing, eating. i don't see the point in sharing those details. it's the same with people who post photos of their kids. i don't care that your kids dressed up as spiderman this year. email that shit to your parents.

HA! I have a water moon, so when i get mad enough to want to call the whole thing off i'm the one that gets dramatic and deletes pictures of us, i delete them on social media, block their number the whole nine. I basically want to erase them from my life completly. It's sort of like my way of saying if you hurt me i delete your existance. Simple. However I'm also a Libra so i often change my mind, or question my decision even after i've already made the move.
I have got to work on not acting on emotion.
Like a week ago, the guy i'm dating pissed me off, i deleted and blocked him on all social media. It was so humiliating to have to explain to him why he couldn't find my page once we made up. He thought it was funny, i was embarrassed that i reacted so rationally.

And the worse part about a Leeb, is sometimes we do this without warning or even telling the other person what they did wrong.

Posted by Lyse
And the worse part about a Leeb, is sometimes we do this without warning or even telling the other person what they did wrong.

This usually happens with me when I feel like my partner wasn't intuitive enough toward my emotions I am silly I feel like if you love me you better know me. This is probably my Mars in Libra talking. I wont delete them off Facebook, but ill erase every bit of their number from my phone so I wont be tempted to talk to them, because I don't want you to think I am intentionally ignoring you im gonna pretend like it doesn't phase me and I am off doing bigger and better things. I have a Cancer moon @Lyse what do you have?

Posted by Lyse
HA! I have a water moon, so when i get mad enough to want to call the whole thing off i'm the one that gets dramatic and deletes pictures of us, i delete them on social media, block their number the whole nine. I basically want to erase them from my life completly. It's sort of like my way of saying if you hurt me i delete your existance. Simple. However I'm also a Libra so i often change my mind, or question my decision even after i've already made the move.
I have got to work on not acting on emotion.
Like a week ago, the guy i'm dating pissed me off, i deleted and blocked him on all social media. It was so humiliating to have to explain to him why he couldn't find my page once we made up. He thought it was funny, i was embarrassed that i reacted so rationally.

hahahaa, at least he laughed about it! whats his sun?