Gemini Girl Part 2

Hi All Gemini Girls or Women here:

As in my previous thread I talked about this great Gemini girl.

Here is the issue.
When everything is perfect and all, She suddenly also see other men I dont know if she just sees them or what is going on. She is very open about it and I am not sure if they are just friends or what is going on.

But my point is that I dont understand all those things about that Libra men are so accepting etc.. because I personally hate it when she does that. Because all those men are just in it for 1 thing.

This was the reason I broke up with her 4 months ago.
And then we met up again and everything is perfect all over again and now she tells me she has to go and see this guy.
Did she not learn anything?

Is this a common Gimini thing or did I just get a broken Gemini girl?

The thing is I really like this one but when she does those things it is like the trust is at 0. And then suddenly she writes me again. Can someone help me get a clue what is going on?
Basically I already dropped her again in my mind and wont interact with her again.

Kind Regards,
Ben

Perhaps it might pay to put something like that up on the Gemini board.......from personal experience, Geminis do a lot of lying and are somewhat deceptive in their personal relationships (not that Im a gemini hater or anything LOL).....but being a Libran, I find it difficult to understand why you don't yourself understand this behaviour.

We are all on here as we don't understand the Librans aloofness, the need to be with several of the opposite sex, etc....perhaps you are a rare Libran—

Would it pay to discuss what your feelings are with her and find some sort of understanding? Does she know that you broke up previously for the reason you mentioned?? Perhaps if she cannot change her ways and is aware that you aren't comfortable with her actions, then it may be time to say goodbye for good?

Sorry, not much help Im afraid 😢

Yes, I agree with Chatz. Communicate with her. Gemini's LOVE communication and the only way to really figure out what is going on is to ask. Ask kind of casually where you guys stand, is she wanting to be open and see other people or could she see maybe something between you guys. If she is really into you she will let you know.

Ben, you're one lucky guy because I can tell you all about the Gemini girl---my daughter is a Gemini; and I've had several Gemini girl friends and girlfriends.

General Essentials to know about Gemini girls: They like being everyone's FRIEND. Guys in your Gemini girl's life are most likely FRIENDS and will remain friends---you don't need to worry about her being unfaithful IF you are really THE one she adores---there are exceptions, but it takes a LOT for a Gemini girl not to be monogamus (sp?). Yes, Gem's LOVE to communicate ALL the time and THINK ALL the time (Air, baby, Air). You can win them over by giving them crossword puzzle books and keep them guessing (YOU have to be witty too!). Flowers and Candy USUALLY don't work! Yeah, they love chocolate BUT they get intrigued by opinions and witicisms. Gem's are ALSO known for their duo-personalities---but some Gem's have more personalities than Sybil! SO keep your eyes open if she is a simple Ying and Yang OR a combo of Marilyn Monroe, Hilary Clinton, Miss Piggy, Cruella Deville, Bette Middler and Scarlett O'Hara. IF you don't like her for a few minutes, don't worry---she'll change! Gem's are SELDOM in a bad mood for long--just wait for the next personality to come around. (I'm talking from EXPERIENCE here!). As far as SEX goes; er, not sure how to tell you this, they love to PLAY but like most everything else they don't take SEX very seriously either. HAVE FUN being in her life, accepting her as she is, challenging her MIND, following through with her ideas (because they will be BRILLIANT), and let her relationship with you be whatever SHE wants it to be---if you're HER MAN, more power to you---it is a profound compliment. IF you want more and you push for it---*POOF*---she's gone. Air, my friend, Air.

yeah but the issue in this situation is that it sounds like she can "poof" away any minute if she feels like it?
You never know where you have them and they are not very committed.

I dont know where the whole thing that Libra likes flirty partners is coming from?

Actually I asked her on a text message if she wanted a more serious relationship and then I did not get any reply. And in a few hours later I ask something else and she reply quickly. So I guess she is only out for flirts?

Anyone know other signs that are more trust able more solid?

Leos!!!

g'fox is right on.

thanks for the feedback.
My thing is that I feel she is a little cold all the time. I really love and her and when we are together it is so fun but it hurts me all those fu**** male friends why cant she have women friends instead.
All those men will start to flirt with her at some point and my thing is why have the worry?
Maybe I just need someone that is more Loyal or more committed ?
Anyone know a sign that is good in this area?
I stay long away from all water signs they drive me crazy.
and the air signs like Gemini, Aquarius it seems like you can never get them to be fully committed it is like they always have some backdoors open and then as a Libra i see this as a bad deal and say why bother the trouble?

Here is the thing Ben. Most women have males in their lives on some level or another. Most women have male friends. If not, they have male co-workers who they might eat lunch with, friends of their brothers they might hang with, etc. etc. etc.

When you truly capture a Gemini heart, she will be fiercely loyal to you. However, if you are jealous and insecure, it will totally drive her away. So, you have to decide if you are willing to work through these issues that are yours, not hers, or if you cannot handle it. IF you don't deal with it now, you will deal with it later, trust me. Your insecurity will follow you to your next relationship with a woman who will probably also likely have male friends.

If you believe in yourself and trust yourself, you can then trust her. If something happens and you wind up getting hurt, you will be ok because you love yourself.

ammorocks is right. EVERYONE loves Geminis! (The boys and The girls---even if you are observing she mainly has male friends). SOooooooo you're going to have to figure out if you can "take it" or not. Has she done anything in particular to show you she would be unfaithful to you? If not, and she has SETTLED on YOU, no worries. You've got her.

Ok.
I forgot to tell how it really happened:
The first 2 months everything was OK and I did not mind when she hang around others and all that but.
But then what changed that broke the trust is that forexample we where in the city in the night and at 2-3 am I am going home and then she wanted to stay. Then she tells me she talked to this guy until 0700 in the morning and got his number and he even drove her home.

Ok I did not care about that either.
Then the next thing is that the suddenly told me she visited the old Ex and hang out there all day etc.. and then suddenly she did not have as much time together as earlier.

Like she lost interest or something?
And then I called it the quits, the problem is that I did not talk it through with her.

gemini girls hav more male friends... She dont trust women. wont be a nice idea to start getting hurt about the no of male friends for aries, libra and gemini girls.