So this may sound idiotic but I’ve only dealt with 3 Libras in my lifetime and they all seem to end in the same results so I figured I’d come to the internet to find out. So I met this libra guy via online dating. We literally talked every day all day. Be it texting or phone calls we never missed a beat. This went on for a week. I grew to like him a lot because he was different for one, but two he matched my intellect which is so hard to find. Anyway, he finally asked me out on a date and he prolonged the night as long as he could. We sat, talked, laughed, drank, he was very affectionate and assertive to say the least. When the night ended he grabbed my face to kiss me and I guess to him I pulled away. Next day we discussed it, he felt he did something wrong and I explained he didn’t I just wasn’t used to that, but that I did like it. We went out again two more times, same vibe, same smiles. After the third time he invited me over to his home, we are both adults so we both knew what that invite was about. We had sex and I guess you can say I “snuck out” the house. Mid way to the door he wakes up and I tell him I didn’t want to disturb him, he said that’s fine and had me text him when I made it home. Next morning he text me saying he didn’t like that I left and didn’t give him a kiss goodbye. I told him I didn’t know if that was something he liked plus again I didn’t want to disturb him. Weirdly enough I didn’t hear from him all day, he text me later and told me his charger broke but I was slow at texting back because my sons soccer coach was at my house for a crisis. Text him that info, he got short with me. Called him about 20mins later and never heard from him again. Couple days later I text him expressing how displeased I was with the way he was going about things. That if he felt different he could’ve just said that, later that day he text back saying how the way I left upset him and that particular text pissed him off even more. Said I treated him like he didn’t matter to me. I tried to apologize and even explained we were still learning each other and to give me the benefit of the doubt. Told him that I really liked him and didn’t know that would upset him so much. Well we haven’t seen each other since but I have given him his space and eventually reached out twice. First time he was antagonistic and kinda assholish. When I told him he was being a jerk he called me sensitive. Second time the tables turned, i attempted at dry humor and sarcastic jokes and by the end of the night I somehow hurt his feelings again! I finally asked what was the purpose of entertaining a text conversation if he doesn’t f*** with me on that level anymore. No response. So my question is, if I still have a chance to, how do I make things right? And if he’s not interested why keep entertaining the bare minimum with me? I did like him a lot and granted we only talked a week and some change (I know it sounds insane) I would at the very least love to keep him as a friend. He won’t answer calls only texts and I’m just kind of stuck on stupid. Sorry so long winded, I like to be detailed and Ive never been so bothered by someone switching it up but this particular one just bothers me to the core (and please be kind)
