Grrrr.....grrrr

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He is being so cute & adorable!!!

So yesterday??_I saw him at the gym and it was A-mazing!

I hadn't seen him since last Friday??_Oh how I missed him.

So when I finally saw him yesterday??_he waved hello as soon as he came in and then he came to work out in my area, so we started talking and he asked me questions about my dad??_whether he had finally arrived??_anyways so then I told him that yes and that he was already scheduled for surgery in the next 2 weeks. He asked me how he was coping with the situation and I said not so bad except that he is a bit scared to be diagnosed with cancer bcuz my grandma previously passed away of Cancer??_and then he goes??_oh don't feel obliged to tell me these things, I know that it's quite personal??_but then he stuttered and said I just don't want you to think that I don't want to hear about it on the contrary but feel free to not say anything if it makes you uncomfortable??_I thought he was being so sweet!!!

Anyways??_then at some point we talked about something and he goes to me??_so are you keeping up with the routine? I didn't get what he meant by that and then I realized that we hadn't seen each other as of last Friday??_so my bet is that he thinks that I had stopped coming as often??_but truth is I did go pretty much everyday except that we didn't see each other!

Anyways??_so at the end we were both stretching and then we met up next to the elevator??_without saying anything we both understood we were done so I was getting READY to say bye to him and then he goes:?? fine this one time I??ll take the elevator—?_the thing is that he has always teased me about taking the elevator because he finds that I work out very hard but then I take the elevator to go up and down! Anyways that's my treat even if that freakin?? elevator takes forever to come??_

So basically I thought that it was the biggest demonstration of interest he has ever shown towards me??_oh and he is still staring at my lips when we talk...either he doesn't hear well what I'm saying so he tries to read on my lips or he wants to kiss them juicy lippies.
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suprisingly enough...it is really warming up...I mean...to me when I know for a fact that nothing was happening for a few months and that now in the last 2 weeks there has been more action that in the past few months it's astonishing...to each his speed...I THINK THAT THE MAIN THING...is that I am not appearing as shy as I use to...I go to him when I feel like it...even if it's 4 times in a row...I don't take count of things and I don't try to control the outcome of the situation...what happens, happens and that's it!!!
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Posted by ScorpSage
I THINK THAT THE MAIN THING...is that I am not appearing as shy as I use to...I go to him when I feel like it...even if it's 4 times in a row...I don't take count of things and I don't try to control the outcome of the situation...what happens, happens and that's it!!!




You are absolutely right. Be genuine, don't keep count, and just let things happen. I think that is a good outlook for any relationship but it is especially important with us.