Sooo, I need some help with a libra man....who doesn't ha!! I'm a 35 year old Aries girl, he's a 28 year old libra male. I've know him a good few years and always felt there was a spark...no romance though. We recently reconnected and I was having a few troubles with my (now) ex and was talking to libra about it. He was a great listener! When things fell apart with my ex I told libra and he told me that he had liked me for 7 years, always felt we had a spark and a connection and that when he looked in my eyes 'bang' something happened...very nice!! After that we had 2/3 days if constant messaging, all hot and heavy and culminating in us meeting up on a night out. We kissed and he said he'd been waiting 7 years for it and that he wanted to see me when he was back from a work trip he was going on. He messaged me when he was away and I told him I was considering trying again with the ex (we have 2 children) and that, in my situation, I could only have been some fun for him (he is childless and free). He said that wasn't true and he had genuine big feelings for me. I then messaged saying things were off with the ex bad libra said he wanted to see me when back. For the next 2 weeks he was away the messages became inconsistent, he ignored me sometimes or answered back shortly...no flirty stuff at all, once he left it nearly a week and I asked if he was ok, he said yes and it had just been hectic (though he had been online). When he got back he messaged asking how things were with the ex, I said confusing as I wasn't sure what to do for the children...I asked libra if he liked me and asked for honesty...he said he really liked me and could genuinely see something happening between us in the right circumstances but says he wanted to take things very slow and that I needed time. We then met up that weekend and I was spotted by my ex's friend who told him and this caused some text drama which libra was party to. We messaged about my ex and I told him we were having dinner that week to chat, but that I really wasn't feeling it.....no reply. I messaged after the dinner to say I had made if clear it was over.....no reply. A few days later I was sick of the unsurety so decided to opt out of libra. I messaged saying I wanted out, he apologised for ignoring me and asked that we meet up this week, I gave him the days i might be free...this was Friday...nothing again for 3 days!? WTH?? Is he interested or playing!!? Help!!!—?
