Horribleee...

Ok so I cancelled my date with Libra yesterday (Friday) and he didn't seem angry or anything just told me that I sold out.
So today, we agree to meet at the mall and I get there at 8:30 and Libra isn't there.
FINALLY at 9 he calls, says "my friend got stranded I'm going to take him home so I'm going to be late 1 hour...I'm sorry I'm sorry I really wanted to see you today..."
I said, to be nice (cause I'm not even excited for this date anymore) "Do you want me to wait, or....?"
And he is ELATED that I would wait.
So I'm walking around the mall, end up going into Macy's and I meet up with this guy who looked familiar so I stopped to chat.
We talk till 10. Libra is STILL not there and his phone is being weird so I can't get ahold of him...argh.
The other guy (a Sag) asked me for my number and told me he would call or text tommorrow (dunno if Sags are liars like Libras).
Libra finally calls, says he'll be there in 20, it becomes 11.
I leave.
I agreed however, to go watch a movie tommorrow.
Dunno if I made the right choices.
😢

Nope ya didnt! no movie......I would now not answer when he calls then call him back and say you had something come up....sounds like he was playing a game. How old is he—

Idk, I felt bad cause he called at 11 and he's like "I ran stop lights and I've been wanting to see you all day...blah blah."
He is 25.
And I think he is looking for something serious, I am not.
Even though I thought I was 😢

ummmm.....he should have called and gave you the option of rescheduling earlier...when you waited past an hour his phone call at 10:40pm should have been I am so sorry look we can do something tomorrow ya da ya da ya da...and actually that phone call should have come at 10.....

You are completely right.
I don't know why I waited so long, and when I cancel the date tommorrow(cause you have inspired and given me a push) then he will ask if he can see my any other day...
😢
Gosh, I have never known any person so needy! And at that age, and it isn't like he is bad looking.
Argh and he just called.
He told me once again how sorry he is, and to not sell out tommorrow.
I guess thelibran was right lol.

he said that cuz he knew he sold you out....he may have had another date..because he sounds insecure. So I would peg him as the type to make two dates in one night for an ego boost.. even if it is you he likes!!!!! You aren't selling out...You just had an emergency! Your cat got stranded and you have take her home.

LAUGHING MY ASS OFF 🙂
Funny libragyrl.
I couldn't deal with him if I tried, much to my disappointment.
Idk how I ended up with a crazyyy one. 😢
How do I get rid of him, without being mean?

hell I have a crazy one too......hmm lets see! oooh do you want to have fun and get rid of him? Or do you want to do it all nice and sweet? I vote for number one....lets have some amusement tonight!

No no, I would feel horrible!
My downfall is that I feel about things that I do even if they are correct 😢
Can I just tell him I am not interested?
AT ALL?
I have never been so turned off by a man.
EVER.

hmmm no cant say not interestedcuz then he'll come harder... I would say "You know I have been thinking...tonight may have been fate because I felt you were too old for me and that your life experiences in comparison to mine make us incompatible therefore I think it is best if we 86 tomorrow and just remain platonic friends!"

Who can argue with fate

I have a feeling he'll be able to.
Lol.
And how is your Libra crazy?
Bet you he follows you around, and when he calls he goes "Where are you?"
Hmm?

crap... i just read your first post...he was getting you back for canceling the date friday. you know we are all about balance so we really do that eye for an eye thing.......

I finally agreed to go out with him after 2 months, we slept together it was supposed to e light and easy, he invites me to his performance, he starts ignoring me when i text him about it, I show up with another guy who was very married and it was very platonic because i had participated in the event earlier that day, he makes a scene and has his ppl watch me, I straighten him out by text...1st text saying he is tripping and what happened happened in the moment and happened because i thought he could handle it without acting funny, and 2nd. telling him if he had issues with me to discuss it with me but his ppl really need to not put my biz on the street (his manager says to the business assoc. I was with...Oh I knnnnnow her)

Umm libragyrl, I hate to say this, but I would be scared SH*TLESS.
He sounds insane, and apparently he likes it cause he wont talk to you.
But why did you sleep with him if you didnt like him?

Well because I haven't slept with anyone in almost 2 years..... I mean I was trying to break the drought. And I did like him....it wasnt to the point of wanting anything serious but there was an attraction and a hope that maybe things would progress from there. He was really nice, we were on the same page about a lot of things, and he came across as a kindhearted concerned person 180 degrees different than his behavior I have posted on this board.

You would be scared why?

Idk, something about people watching me wouldn't settle good with me.
Idk how you are so calm?
I can just imagine people running to tell him things.
Like the italian mafia 😢
Butttt, you understand what you are going through obviously, cause you are handling it pretty ok.
I read the other posts, and I do think you should talk to him face to face.
Cause his play phone (if thats what you used) has seemed to run out of batteries lol.

Well here is the thing...I kinda have a bit of leverage....he is and I are on opposite sides of the biz.. so if he screws me or threatens etc. I will screw him and I dont play kid games with that. I will 1. hit his pockets 2. cut his publicity and 3 well havent thought that one out yet!

If he won''t respond to the texts.....than I dont think he'd be up for face to face. With the exception of this past weeks event we were both at we run in different circles so I hardly ever run into him while out.....and with his developmental level me sayin I want to talk will be interpreted as yeah she wants me!!!

I also look at him having his friends track my movements as him falling off behind me...

I appreciate it Arian 🙂
And I feel that I am more mature than him, I take things differently and thats a big turn off too.
I've always felt I needed someone on my level or beyond, so you definately hit that on the head.
I will try the rescheduling bit and see if that flies, again, I don't think it will.
And this fall comes college, and I plan to live that to the fullest. 🙂

Libragyrl I see I see.
I would still be paranoid (but then again, thats me) and its good that you can handle that, if not you wouldnt be in the business. 🙂
Then I think you should stop texting and move on if you havent done so already, he'll get tierd!

Libragyrl I see I see.
I would still be paranoid (but then again, thats me) and its good that you can handle that, if not you wouldnt be in the business.
Then I think you should stop texting and move on if you havent done so already, he'll get tierd!


The texts were fair, adequate, and reasonable warnings to stop f'in with me....I did my due diligence........