How can a Libra fall in love?

Hello Libras,

I am just curios to know what make a Libra MAn really fall in love? From my experience with a libra man..I cant say that I saw that sparkle of love, or that crush like other signs..

Thanks

In theory, we get a crush on every 3rd person we meet. Kinda true. We fall in love with our friends. Infact the more time we spend with a person and we get to know them more, we match more patterns and all those gives positive results will contribute to love factor.

so what you're saying is:...the more time you put into finding out about somebody the more chance there is of you actually falling in love with that person? I guess to bother to spend time with a certain somebody would mean a great deal anyway?

Thanks, I have a libra in my life and sometimes I think is careless, but the thing is that one of my strenghts is I am quite patient . Anyway hope to learn more about Libra.

thelibran..

If you have a crush on every third person you meet, hows a girl to keep up with all that? It must be hard to keep a libra's attention if he has contact with a lotta women...

It must be hard to keep a libra's attention if he has contact with a lotta women...


**HP clears her throat as though she wants to say something**

HP74...

What does that mean, oh no am I in trouble??

My libra is a DJ.. Women are falling out of the wood works... But he has had this profession for the whole 6 years I've known him. I just did not realize they have a crush on every third person they meet... but I can see this though... he has a very magnetic personality.

Not excatly brat. The crush dont last for long. And the one who is patient will score at the end. Not every girl has the capacity to walk with a libran and stimulate his brain and charm him up. So time works as a natural filter for us. But if there is some certain factor which he consideres negative in the girl whom he likes, the decision making process can go on forever if no one understands him and push him slightly to ignore the negative sides. I think no libran follows romantic cliques in his life. So doing something just bcoz others do so is not librans way of romance.

thelibran..

Gotcha. Because I am a aqua and we live most of our relationship in our minds, I think I am making this whole thing out to be more than it is. I am very introverted, although I can be the life of the party too.. but 99% of the time I am not parting, so all I have are my thoughts. I think that is why I feel so confused all the time about this. I think things should go one way (because they are in my mind) but in reality they are not. I know this is only because I am living it in my mind everyday and he is not. I know he does think about it though, because he brings up random things about us, that we have not spoken about before, but... I may be making more out of it than it really is... for some reason he will talk freely about all his relationships with me, but gives me little about us, until I am in his face, then he wants to talk about us, but I don't. I think he likes having me, but just over the phone, when I am in his face it is harder for him to control his emotions and I hear libra's are not big on emotions... Well not big on THEM having them anyway...

no way. libras are emotional like pisces but we aint emotionally blind nor our decisions will ever be based on emotion. Like LS mentioned elsewhere, me too feel its bcoz we love only a few people really, we love them so much and live for them and thats when we are emotional. I like many gemini and aqua gals but have never felt emotional over them. it was something else. intellectual may be. And we too spend most of our freetime living inside our brainworld. "she loves me... she loves me not" thingy but we do the deductive reasoning technique instead of petals. 😉

gotta love the duductive reasoning technique....one can only imagine (or maybe not LOL) what goes on in the Libran mind....its probably like a checklist and you get marked 2 points for this and 2 points for that and if you don't match up you get shipped out? LOL.......oh and this all goes on over a long period of time no doubt!!

😉

Chatz.. sounds like you have their rational completely understood... thelibran is very helpful with this.. huh.

it would seem Im getting there and learning the game quite adequately LOL.....thelibran has been extremely helpful indeed as have many on this site 🙂

All I know is Im having a good time and hopefully it will continue - who knows....anything is possible.

What is your sign again?? I can't believe how lightly you are taking all of this.. I guess I am so serious all the time, when someone comes along that is not, it seems strange to me.. not in a bad way at all.. but a refreshingly good one.

Im a LEO and belieeeeeeeeeeeeve me its hard to be patient and to take things lightly as we like to take the bull by the horns so to speak....this particular Libran has taught me sooooooooo much patience - you have no idea and it has been good for me too 🙂

** Not excatly brat. The crush dont last for long. And the one who is patient will score at the end. Not every girl has the capacity to walk with a libran and stimulate his brain and charm him up. So time works as a natural filter for us. But if there is some certain factor which he consideres negative in the girl whom he likes, the decision making process can go on forever if no one understands him and push him slightly to ignore the negative sides. I think no libran follows romantic cliques in his life. So doing something just bcoz others do so is not librans way of romance.

Geeeeeeze so that means we have to put up with everything the LIbran dishes out??...patience, not being clingy, being interesting, being attractive, stimulate his mind as he's so intelligent and interesting (lol, well this is true), wait days even weeks before you see him again and then you're in—? sheesh!!!

I sent a quick text message to both the Libra and the Scorpio. The text message was :

"What are prehistoric animals called when they sleep?"

A: DinoSnores!

I know, cheesy but the Libra loved cheesy stuff like that


Guess who replied? The Scorpio.

am glad am of some use.
and i dont think its complicated to understand a libra but is sure quite confusing to get along.

We are simple humble people generally. But then most people dont understand us and start judging us(except a few signz i guess). And when someone understands us in a wrong way we start thinking we hav to project us in a way which is easy for others to understand. And thats where we complicate us and makes it simple for others.

So when you find a libran complicated, i guess the best way is to tell him you are unable to read his mind. but not a judgemental statement like - man you are complicated. we are egoistic and proud u know. 😉

it works vice versa also. tats quite important. u tell his its easy to read his brain, he will complicate only to confuse u and start playing around.

*rolls eyes*

LOL

problem with that is my LIbran KNOWS what Im thinking - he has me worked out very well and that freaks me out but its good in some ways - saves me saying what Im thinking LOL.

I still find though, that my boy is still doing the push pull thing even though things have been working out really well 🙂.....there are still the 3-4 days between speaking/seeing/chatting online with him and that really bothers me still.....he's very touchy/feely when we are together which I lurrrve so much - we are two of a kind there and its wonderful and talk?? and laugh?? amazing stuff!!! but it makes those inbetween days so much harder to take and I start fretting again but I know in a day or so it'll be full on again.....is that the way its always going to be— coz Im not sure I can take it for months on end still as I want to make a r/ship GROW and spend more and more time together (within reason of course but you know what I mean)—?

Just seeking reassurance again - its been a couple of days and uh huh Im a lost cause on this one LOL...love him to bits but can't actually tell him until he tells me - yeah, yeah I know!!! and yessssssss I am gently guiding him, being patient, being independant (which he loves), not clingy and/or emotional (doing all the right things I think), yet he's still not putting it all out there and I am a Leo....what do you LIbrans want from us—? this is not us ok— LOL....patience is not our greatest asset so wish he'd cut me some slack and just do something to move us forward. I know I should be grateful (as no doubt he'd think this) that he spends his precious time with me but sheeeeeeeeeeesh!!!!

Chatz

The chance of your Libra saying 'I love you' are next to zero. Because it is not a Libra thing to do. You'll get an amazing indirect compliment or an beautiful all revealing smile or an 'I like you' but that's it. Once you know for sure that you're in that special place with him then you can spill your beans...

Also, Libra says 'I'm in love with you' not 'I love you' - in the beginning, if anything...

I have never said 'I love you' to the Libra I was with for eight years. And neither has he.

My devotion is what you should notice.

The only single conversation in the beginning (when talking about other people):

Me: ...and how are we doing?
He: (went quiet)...we are fine.

LOL

Yeah, I guess I can agree with that. Haven't heard those three words often from my past Libra involvements. My ex told me after we moved in together. Never so much before.

Really?

I say I love you. I even tell my friends I love you.

Odd.

yea me too.. i never tell anyone i love them. max they can get out of me is tat "i am in love with you" ... "i love u" seems like a silly dialogue. dunno if i hv ever mentioned it in bed though. kinda possible.

and when confronted, i eat my own brains out how to tell things in the most diplomatic way or something... tats the most difficult situation.

"And if I told you that I loved you
You'd maybe think there's something wrong" this line frm shape of my heart is kinda the same thought wat goes thru me when i gotta tell these 3 words.

Most men mid-shag will slip out the old I love you. I think they just relax and are so excited they just let it slip.

ahhhh sex ... I almost remember thee.

LS, that is true about the mid-shag, however I never take those serious. I have had men say all kinds of things in the sack and I laugh it off. I am sort of a temptress.

LS..."ahhhh sex ... I almost remember thee"

I'm lovin' it, feeling you and remembering it... well!! Where is it?? I gotta get off line and find it, dang it!

hee! hee!

Brat, I have a Scorpio you can borrow, but I need him back by tomorrow night. 😛

i hv to get out of this damn country itself to get sex. 😢

Ok, Libra..

Read the two songs... yup! I have to agree with you and thelibran on the songs.. this is why we are tortured!! Because... Why so complex? Why so hard? Why so distant? Even though you're right there.... How come I can touch you but I can't have you... Libra's?? **sigh**

Not agreeing on the Libra saying "I Love you", mine says it, but loving someone is not the same as being "in love" to me. I'd much rather be in love... well, maybe both. In love, I know I have your interest, your attention, your heart. With ILU, I am in your heart, deep (yes, I know), but it's almost too deep to find... **more sighs**

HP74, hey, hey, stop that... don't play, I'm sensitive right now. Actually, I have been thinking about maybe mixing it up and finding me a Scorpio lately.. I went to their message board.. pretty intereting guys!

thelibran.. man are you in a bad situation. I thought I had it bad out here in farm land.. you need to leave the country?? Poe thang! Were going to have to find you someone. Chatz seems pretty interesting and bubbly all the dang time.... Just tryin' to help, just tryin' to help...🙂

lol me happend to be from one dang country full of hypocrites where anything related to sex is a taboo. if i give out my normal smile to some babe, she may even sue me for indecent behaviour and might even get beaten up by public. so i gotta lay low till mid jan. 😢

Move to Canada ... the land of the free.

🙂

Whatz going on mid jan??

That is kind of serious.. getting beat up for a smile. Yeah! You got it bad..

**The chance of your Libra saying 'I love you' are next to zero. Because it is not a Libra thing to do. You'll get an amazing indirect compliment or an beautiful all revealing smile or an 'I like you' but that's it. Once you know for sure that you're in that special place with him then you can spill your beans...

Also, Libra says 'I'm in love with you' not 'I love you' - in the beginning, if anything...

Hmmmm ok thanks....I've gotten the amazing indirect compliment - they are few and far between but that smile and the little things he does say make me feel good so I guess I should be happy with that.......man you guys are hard work LOL

Thanks for the reassurance though 🙂

Hi guys, I've been reading your stuff. It was funny and you all seem really cool. I've been thinking no matter where we are and who we are we're all alike inside..some are just a bit complicated like this new loibran guy I am interested with.

Just like most of you I am confused by him also. Sometimes he's so sweet and polite another time he's acting like a child. take note He's a matured and intelligent libra but his actions confuse me sometimes. We're just friends and we have been for quiet sometime now, but before we we're both in a relationship with someone else. I was not interested in him and stuff, we were just friends and then suddenly we started acting differently to each other, no longer very polite, we started this game of trying to anger each other jokingly and the game of 'love' shall i call it, we started saying things like "i'm sure you like me, you miss me, and them who ever is saying that the other one will always deny it like "no way i don't miss you. I have read this on another thread and it could mean he like me. Then as a game we started calling each other honey, and that's waht we call each other now. ans so on...sorry that's very long

but here's te question: he a libran is quick to complements, and he calls me honey I am not even his gf or anything, but we both know this is a joke, and once i told him i miss him he told me he misses me too and told me I love you, i took it as a joke also...does this mean he is a player?

by the way he lives in LA and I in Boston so...we know its not possible but I like him..somehow i think he likes me too, but i don't wanna be just one of the crushes...lol i wanna be the one!

lol.... librans are players. not just your one. all these games go on till he dies. You just have to play along.


aquabrat, mid jan - interview in veitnam, End Jan - Posting in Spore if things work. if not Sydney. I wanted to be in canada but i wasnt able to find a 1 year course on film making.

It doesnt at all sound like he's a "player"....it sounds like he's really into you and to joke around and play little games is a classic sign a guy is interested in a girl....oh and the mature to the child comment? ummm...isn't that a male thing anyway?? LOL

I think you're in with a chance but distance? hmmm who knows

I am single now and he is too. He told me what had happened in his past relationship why they broke up and I him.

I just don't understand sometimes when I tease him soo much, like when I say " I am sure your going to miss me, he always denies things and sometimes goes too far denying them and hurting me a bit. When he goes denying does that mean, he doesn't like me? but why does he call me honey? is it just a game? and why does he always say I am pretty? sorry for the many questions...but i have more..lolz

ok, i didn't see your post when i wrote my last post

**sigh** i see some hope.

we ALL have more coz they are such complicated creatures LOL......ummmmm I think they like to "tease" and he might know that he's upsetting you by going "too far"...they don't think that far ahead but be sure not to let him know that you are upset as they HATE upsetting anybody and it might throw him off balance and that means you might not hear from him for weeks until he sorts himself out. At least he tells you that you are pretty and from my experience, compliments aren't that easy to get from them, however, you MUST compliment him from time to time - they love that.

here's another one, when we talk like after 15 days or so, if don't call him or don't see him online, I have all his attention and interest, but when we talk everyday i feel like i have only half of him. 😉

play along...I will but I want to do the opposite, though I like playing this games..

yeah same here....if you try to talk/chat/whatever everyday they seem a little bored or aloof but if you give them time between they are all yours when you finally do catch up.....just the way it is - its not up to us to understand or we'd go insane....its called patience apparently....Im a Leo so ummmm...THAT is the hardest thing - PATIENCE!!!

I do compliment him from time to time, and I will, thanks 😉