Libra Men: Players or Just Playful?

Here's a question for those with experience with Libra men.

Are they players or do they like to stick to one person at a time?

I'll read some more subjects in this forum, but hopefully I'll get some responses to my question in the meantime.

Thanks!

Hey Houston!

Do you have a Libra on the line?

Can go both ways and depends on a lot of factors.

I raise some interesting points on Libra on the Leo board on the thread Leos catalyse for change

i'll check it out.

i do have a libra on the line, but not sure how to pursue it or if i even should. just looking for advice.

Depends on what is going on.

I don't know Libra men but I do know Libra. I really agree with whoever says you don't pick Libras, we pick you. We are a bit of dance because we need to bring balance we need to be in the relationship, we need to be out of the relationship. We need both at different times.

BUT if you can get through it all, to the otherside of a Libra's heart, we will know and understand you better than anyone else. We will become your dream.

But BEWARE! I have heard Libra in a man can be a bad placement and Libra men can have very bad tempers. Not all ... some. Depends on how balanced he is. Libra is BALANCING not BALANCED ... people don't understand that. You have to watch him and make sure he doesn't go to extremes.

Make Sense?

Thanks, LS. He's very even-keel and very calm. It's kinda freaky because he and I match each other's calmness. When I talk, it's very mellow and not hyper. He's the same. But I also read somewhere the Libra mirror the people they're around...

Very much Houston.

I believe Libra can only define themselves through the eyes of others. We talk and reflect on ourselves as we deal with you. It is almost like we become what you project and we decide if we are comfortable with that reflection. At some point, we may snap and no longer want to be your reflection, we have given too much and lost touch with ourselves, and that is when we walk away with dry eyes and wonder if we ever loved you. (even though we did at the time.)

Libras don't do well with very emotional partners or partners who pry into them. Emotional intimacy takes a LONG time because Libras are cut off from their feelings. If you pry, we fall apart and can't cope.

BUT a Libra will not pry into you. We respect your privacy because what is private is sacred.

Very much Houston.

I believe Libra can only define themselves through the eyes of others. We talk and reflect on ourselves as we deal with you. It is almost like we become what you project and we decide if we are comfortable with that reflection. At some point, we may snap and no longer want to be your reflection, we have given too much and lost touch with ourselves, and that is when we walk away with dry eyes and wonder if we ever loved you. (even though we did at the time.)

Libras don't do well with very emotional partners or partners who pry into them. Emotional intimacy takes a LONG time because Libras are cut off from their feelings. If you pry, we fall apart and can't cope.

BUT a Libra will not pry into you. We respect your privacy because what is private is sacred.

Oops sorry for the double post. I don't know what happened.

I've had this Libra man pursuing me - very charming, very intelligent, very successful, from another country (I'm a sucker for accents), etc. Things got a little close for me so I started to back off. He pursued a little longer afterwards, but then gradually backed off, too. I didn't think he'd back off so abruptly, so I asked him about it and he said that he's just been busy. I can believe that, so I let it go. He called once in a matter of 3 days and text msg'd me twice. On Friday, he left me a VM saying he hopes to see me when he gets back from his vacation. Blah...not sure how to decipher that.

Sparrow, you say Libras don't do well with emotional partners, but this guy is an emotional guy himself...just the way we've talked to each other, the way he pursues me, it's so passionate.

Then what are you complaining about? lol! (just kidding)

I tend to be guarded yet passionate at the same time. I can love you without surrendering completely if you know what I mean. When I surrender completely ... I can get very off balance because I no longer have control over my emotions. This is not a good place for me.

Where are his venus and mars Houston?

Libras can be sensitive. We actually are very empathic, possibly the most empathic of all signs.

Sparrow, his Venus is in Virgo and Mars in Sagitarrius.

My Venus is in Pisces and my Mars is in Cancer.

Are we compatible?

Here is what it says about his placements:

intense, eccentric, unexpected pregnancy of the lover, physical beauty of the partner is important, adultery when unhappy in marriage, very sensual, initial reserve and controlled, needs a lot of hugs, stroking and physical contact, supportive love, love and material security, loves physical comfort, possible sexual problems

I find that site VERY true. Scary true. It doesn't hold back.

Here is a compatibility site for you:

http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f

unexpected pregnancy of the lover
WTF??

what's the link you used for his placement description?

To answer your orgininal question...both. We are playful with everyone but there isn't alwayse something behind it. We can be pretty good players for better or worse.

Myself. When I am in a relationship I commit, but I alwayse have a little something "lined up" until I can tell that the other person is sure about their feelings. Until then, I tend to make no promises.

We tend to have a lot of "options open" then we kind of pick the best one.

Houston

http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/individual-sex-horoscopes.html

As I said, I find it VERY accurate.

Just takes me to a site that sells books.

Oh well, I'll see where it goes by spending time with him. If our suns, moons, stars, winds, fires, earths, venuses, saturns, plutos, etc...fit, then great.

scroll down to the bottom. You should see links for the various signs. Hold on. I will stick you on the libra page. 🙂

http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/libra-sex-horoscope.html

Thank you...you know us Taurus...we're lazy folk. 😉

No problemo!

Never Date a Libra

Indecisive, flirtatious, and downright deceptive - your Libra will tell you what you want to hear.
Problem is they'll be telling *everyone* what they want to hear.

You got it, Sag. Read the other posts on this board.

Amazing, I had a similar experience to HoustonPeach74. Sexy Libra, accent...omg, lol.

The statement about Libra's choosing you was so true with him. And, I, being part hispanic we can be quite frank about our feelings. Don't get me wrong, I didn't overdo it. I had finess about it but not realizing what Libra's needs are, I goofed and responded to his question about how I was and confessed that I could not get a grip on things inside me. My emotions were getting sucked into that abyss of having feelings for him. That really cooled the relationship off. We dissolved for about 6 months..just emails and chats online. I was so hurt. I really didn't care whether he felt the same or not. I have a difficult time understanding a person who doesn't want to hear that someone cares for them. WELL, I LEARNED. The whole story about how we met was quite uncanny.

Here's the story. On my end, he was the love of my life. He was thoughtful, elegant, well traveled, highly educated, soft spoken, like his words made love to me each time he spoke, sensual, very well endowed, and knew how to use it. He had it all. We had so much fun. I started experiencing everything my 23 yr marriage did not provide me with.

REA😱 http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-5fvmw.kjdKuPHJQgHv9B5D3ATd_NZcOl?p=1

I am a Leo. It seems that the relationships where I said goodbye my partner did not grow at the rate I was growing. They eventually bored me. One remained stagnate intellectually and my husband sexually. This guy was always very eager to play along with me. He flirted and was physical outside of bed. That is very important to me.

OMG this is so good to read (from a Leo who was and is still in love with a Libra)

***BUT a Libra will not pry into you. We respect your privacy because what is private is sacred.***

I find this to be the opposite with Liba men who has any interest in you. They don't like you to pry into their business, but they will definitely pry into yours and get jealous, sarcastic about any involvement with other males. In my experience of course.

wow, romantic wild fire dug a year back to find this thread.

but yes, Libra men will find subtle ways to pry into your business if they are truly interested. If they aren't interested, then they will generally care less about your private matters.

"I find this to be the opposite with Liba men who has any interest in you. They don't like you to pry into their business, but they will definitely pry into yours and get jealous, sarcastic about any involvement with other males. In my experience of course"

girl....

u took the words right out my mouth!

I rest my case... 😉