How can a Libra fall in love? (Page 2)

you want to do the opposite coz you are a gemini LOL.

oh by thhe way, he tends to mirror me, when I am sweet he is too, when I get cold he gets cold too or gets even colder...lol

uh huh - that's what they do!!!!

a leo? oh yeah i think we're the same in this game, we want it right away! lolz
my ex is a leo. I still miss him sometimes...but this libra consumes me..

yes we want it NOW!!!! and Librans WON'T give it NOW!!! My ex is a Gemini so yeah...great times but hmmmm 6 years was long enough to be towed along....I should know patience by now eh?? LOL

and UH HUH Librans do consume you and I think they know it too!!! as they just get on their merry little way - they know they've got you in the palm of their hands and will pick up where they left off the last time and you can just forgive them so easily for leaving you hanging for however long its been......how do they do that— sheesh!!!

ahhh we love to tease gemini. they give some cute expressions when we tease them. they casually walk next to us and slap(they do hit us) on our back with full force but casually. and we love to beat them up. sometimes we love to talk to a gemini like a small kid and sometimes talk too much metaphysics. but best thing is that gemini keeps us occupied in brain non stop with her changing moods and contradictions in thoughts and talks. sometimes gemini gets her twin working and sayin the just opposite and thats when we start playing with words - twistin and twisting until gemini gets tired. then we will smile and gemini is cool. we start on with next subject or may be tease her again.

aahhh tats one of the things i love to do.

you know what amazes me about him most, when he told me about how i feel once - like as though he've known me forever or he knows me more than i know myself, it scared me a little bit, i felt like i was so see-through, i denied it but it's just bulls eye how i felt. Geez they are psychic! Oh when a libra acts like he knows you does that mean he spends so much time thinking about you, or it just come naturally?

thelibran and I doubt geminis are the only ones you do that with 😉

I think your question would be ideal for thelibran to answer....I have the same question as I feel the same in my r/ship, however, do we ever know what the Libran is thinking? uh uh!!!

oh geeezzz, he knows he consumes me?? i don't want hi, to know. I feel like I am playing this game pretty well, sometimes I hide from him and play aloof hahaha, as I am a gemini, i am witty too..hahaha

the libran, i love that! 😉

we deduct everything we see. its more natural but we do spend hours in organizing our thoughts and knowledge.

you playing aloof is the key ingredient...if u come on too strong or get clingy, he'll no doubt run away

hours organizing thoughts?? how do you do that?? it would drive me insane!!! Actually come to think of it you doing that drives US insane LOL

and from what I gather a little checklist to go with it for deductions/organising, etc

ok then the ball is in your court thelibran, hahaha

yeah, how do we really know if you like us? and not have the guessing game? how can you really tell a libra is into you? any clue?

can you break it down, if its nt to much to ask like:

~he teases you
~he calls ou beautiful..lol
~he shares things with you..
~he figured you out, then you confuse him to give him another puzzle to solve
~and other examples...lol

and oh, before, we said goodbye for we will not be able to talk for a week he said ccause he's gonna go to mexico, then after 4 days of not talking he opened his myspace, he doesn't do myspace its not his thing, and i am hhis only friend, did that mean he missed me? or he told some friend about me hahaha, anyway..i am a bit skeptic and i don't wanna go assuming things so i ask this ahhh questions...

oh with all the points above, I think he's into you!!!

**i am his only friend on myspace

i dunno if its just me but lemme try to explain what i do.

when we chat with gemini - only gemini, we talk tooooo many things and its all happenning in no time. so once we hv done that, we start thinking back on what all happened and what all we were chatting. Gemini is playful and lie once in a while which we are not aware of bcoz of the speed of talks and thoughts. While we go back, we naturally figure out things which dont make sense or match. We sense something funny but we like a gemini so much so tat we dont want to judge them. we try to think of the possible sitautions which made her lie and even before that we have to figure out if its a lie itself or truth. but unfortunately, atleast for me, its hard to catch a gemini when she lies bcoz she is damn good in doing it. so we have to start organizing every single piece of info in its purest way. try to remember every gesture, expression from the gemini and put it in its places.

Normally with others we notice things instantly when stuffs dont match. (u hv to remember that libran lives to find truth and anything fishy makes us think.) But with a gemini things are so intense so that we hardly get time to think. so we do it later. Next day we may possibly bring the situations where u skipped(without answers) or lied in a funny way. sometimes way direct asking u. sometimes bring it into the picture without you realizing that. then it keeps going.

Normal chat subjects with a gemini goes from A to B. B to C. C to D until we are out of time. Then another hour for winding up the talks and say bye bye if both dont care about cultural norms and societies practices. Just cant stop chatting.

and we dont really start missing a gemini since she leaves so much stuffs to think about. we will miss u when things dont match and we need to talk again. but slowly we will start missing you. I used to stay online 24 hrs just to chat with a gemini friend. I travel miles to meet my gemini friends. They keep things amazing for us.

OMG do you really work that hard at piecing things together?? is it THAT time consuming for you— OMG no wonder its days and sometimes a week before i hear from mine...OMG lol.....it must totally exhaust you guys!!!! Oh but Im not a gemini - that makes me too easy to work out *sigh*

and THAT is why you probably need so much sleep!! your brain needs to shut off

dude, your brains are machine, somehow i like that!

dont you find it wearing trying to figure eachother out—

what do librans do on their free time?

~thinking
~analyzing things

oh btw, when your minds are thinking what does your body do? lol

do you walk, just sit, do something else?

hahah just curious

the mind boggles.....I cannot imagine thinking so much about small things like gestures/smiles, yada yada....I mean yeah to a certain degree and especially if I am keen on that special guy but hours and days and days— wow!!!!

yea everyone says so. our brains run like machines so that it needs that sleep so much. We get exhausted when we are unable to match things. many librans go with drugs and booze when we get tired of this constant thinking process.

With leo, libra and aries things are simple and easy. Its an alltogether diff frequency. We are more controlled by expressions and feelings and emotions instead of brain. more like a nice piece of art. talks and thoughts are linear. one after another. with gemini its 3-4 diff subjects being discussed parallely at an amazing pace.

with scorp its 90% emotions and 10% brain work.

with aqua i dont hv any experience yet. so cannot comment.

simple and easy?? hmmm Im assuming that is a good thing but then again NEVER ASSUME ANYTHING....I do like the "nice piece of art" part though so thanks for the positive.

Well aquabrat could be a great start to get you some experience with aquarians *wink wink*

...lol so whichmone do you like most?

seems like with gems, its all game and with scorp u are serious?

oh the poor guy is being put on the spot now - he's got 2 women wondering who's the best starsign *laffs but feels terribly sorry for thelibran* but yeah which one— LOL...just kidding...I doubt there's really a favourite or is there? lol

i am amazed by how much knowledge librans have and the btain machine, its very attractive to a gemini who rules the brain!

i do that thinking too if i am into someone, but not for days, i have other subjects to think about 😉

....lol

and I have to admit (no offence intended whatsoever) that the Gemini I was with (bless his little twisted heart LOL), was soooooooooooo much hard work.....he said one thing, but meant another - oh how frustrating, yet with Librans, I enjoy the intellect, the games, etc....and even though they may not actually mean everything always either, its not such hard work.....that particular Gemini was HARD work!!! and again, you never really knew what he meant when he said something - must be the fact there are two of ya!!! and lies?? oh how he lied.....again, HARD work.

Oh and again, if you didn't see above, no offence intended as both my brother and father are geminis and my boss too - have no problems with them but then again I am not in a relationship with any of them as such LOL......

I think thelibran has run for his life!!!

yup...lol hahaha...thelibran, its fine for me if you pick leo, lol..i wouldn't mind in the least bit...joke..i just have to work my tails off more to match them..hahaha

i like the leo confidence and charm

i would admit, what i say this minute is how i feel this minute, it may not be true the very next minute, so i will say another thing, but whatever it is, its honestly what/how we feel for the moment....

i am confused by me too...

thelibran didn't run for his life, he's doing the great thinking!

geminis can't match a Leo!!! LOL ROARRRRRR~! hehehehe

To be honest though, there is a lot more involved than astrology, etc.....there's a lot more to consider but sheesh aren't Librans true to their starsign?? hehehehe but aren't we all? lol

Well Im going to have to skidaddle for a while....Im sure we will all catch up again soon and I look forward to reading with interest all the posts while I sleep and you all chat 😢......this time difference thing doesnt work for me at all so can you all please put your clocks forward around 6-8 hours— please— LOL

Catch you all soon and behave yourselves you hear— hehehehe

Im laffing so hard at those comments - OMG that is so funny!!!! You confuse yourself— I imagine so and yes thelibran is probably doing all the thinking for us both!!! Im grateful to that indeed *smiles*

oh yeah and Leo confidence? uh huh well what can I say? it works for my Libran...I take the lead and he follows - I DO like that very much 🙂 and hey, if i left it to him we'd still be,well never mind...you get the drift.....charm? not sure about that but yeah....we do try 🙂

Gotta love that Gemini humour too 🙂....chat soon - oh god, now Im saying "chat soon"...hey but my soon is tomorrow not next week *laffs hysterically*

Enjoy and if you can't be good, be good at whatever you're being bad at 🙂

...lol

i need to lay my confusing brains too sleep now too, lol

till we chat again! cheers...lol

ohh i was going thru the youtube video LS recommended yday. quite interesting since they hv addressed many things in a new perspective.

simple and easy when compared to a gemini and ourselfs. Leo aint complicated human beings. They are nice cute lovely people. Libra is complicated but libra with a libra is always fun and easy. Aries is like kids. u just hv to treat them and talk to them like kids. another easy frquency. None of these 3 are demanding nor exhaust a libran brain.

Scorp is emotional and we dont really like being emotional but we do enjoy being with them for a period of time. It can die someday if we dont take an extra effort.

Gemini is fun nonstop at all ages. and matches a libran nature on all possible ways. Culture factor can override this fun though. say my indian friend gemini is not as intense as my malaysian chinese gemini friend. Indian friend dont talk anything abt sex or romance or love life and her every single thought is revolving around her parents and office. she is way too confused trying to be a goodgirl within the cultural lockup. whereas msia friend is more intense bcoz she dont hv barriers to talk. I dont think this issue comes up in west.

I prefer a gemini to a Leo personally. But gemini lacks that feminine qualities and is more boyish till we lock the bedroom door.

and my leo friend once told me am sucking up her energy bcoz of my randomness and speed of thoughts and talks and calculations. and i was bit depressed for few days after i heard tat from her. I tried hard to be slow but its not easy. But i guess once we start seeing a leo girl exclusively, we may tone down our brain to match frequencies.

...lol 🙂

one last question, he always tell me stuff wbout what had happened to him and stuff, but never asks me questions, like about me, im wondering if he is just waiting for me to open up..as he does or he's not interested, but i feel whatever i tell him he tries to put it to fill the puzzle but never asks questions..

i am a gemini with a feminine quality, does that get me 2 more points hahaha

...but really what makes you libran go nuts—

that's my ultimate question! one fine answer..

...well that's one thing i don't do "the sex talk' specially to a guy..i feel like it might indicate i wanna have sex with him, when i clearly don't, i just want his brain hahahaha...

THELIBRAN! you are an angel from heaven, thanks for all that food..it will be well chewed 😉

..sorry though, i still didn't get my answers, i still don't know if he likes me or if he's just playing this little games that's natural to him and still don't know what makes you tick....

he has his moon in gemini and mine in taurus...;(

to make a libran go nuts tell him he is completely wrong in everything. and he is the most horrible person u hv ever met. he will try to start convincing u he is not that bad. am sure its fun to watch that but we do get hurt quickly.

imho, even he doesnt know if he loves u. he too is trying to figure out. its gonna take time. why not u enjoy the ride till he find some answer— sometimes such a relationship can go on for years. live together happily and still he will be trying to figure out if he loves u.

secret is that we love people. almost everyone we meet. we do care for them genuinly. its bit hard for us to distinguish such a love with this kind of romantic stuff. so we keep asking ourselfs. in the meantime we try to solve the puzzle - YOU. Yea we do keeep trying that. Trying to reverse engineer our partner top to bottom. We are happy when we already know what you will be doing next week or say where you will be on a thursday. evening. Almost develop a duplicate of ur brain and habits and keep that inside our brain so that we know what goes in ur head. simple.

oh lordy and gemini do you really need MORE points?? lol. so let me get this right.....Librans like to be with somebody who is independant, not clingy and emotional, self sufficient, blah, blah, blah, yet you like to know what we are doing next week etc?? yet you can stay away and out of communication for up to 2 weeks and think nothing of it—? how on earth does that work?? Now I am TOTALLY lost but that's nothing new.