How to approach a Libran ?

Hi all

I'm seeing this red haired girl in the train next thuesday, but i didn't talked to her yet.

I'm thinking of a best way to approach a Libran..

What is the best way to approach a Libran ?

Libra lasses like quiet confidence. Just be sure of yourself (without being cocky), and ask her right out. That always works for me. Also, under no circumstances should you use chat-up lines!!

Could you define what you ment with Chat LineUps?

And asking her out ? directly?

I thought Librans hate direct approaches...

How do you know she's a libran if you havent talked to her yet.

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Just start with eye-contact..not too much or she'll freak out. Smile and appear bashful, that's always so cute. Then, just make the move.. By chat up lines i simply mean say something original, none of this 'do you come here often' crap!! I f you are struggling however, i would suggest this (someone said it me and i agreed to date them) 'you remind me of a parking ticket..you've got fine written all over you'!! Good Luck.

I don't really understand your last pick up line...

But i'll remember the eye-contact thing.. whenever i see her tomorrow or not ..

thanks for your advice.

I really don't know what to do now. I'm lost...

I didn't saw her in the train this morning. This isn't a problem
but i have been talking to a old school friend and he seems to know
my red haired angel well.

He told me that she allready has a boyfriend, and that they are having a huge fight with eachother for two weeks now ...

How long does it take for a Libra to get over a bf if she had him for two years?

i think i justneed to back off.. i probably won't see her since there is summer vacation here in The Netherlands. I do hope that i will see her again after the summer vacation .. when she probably will be free and then i can ''attack'' her 🙂

Depends.

We can mope around for a long time after a break-up or just make our minds up and be over it. It really depends on the situation.

It took me a good year to get over my 3 yr relationship. I was moping about and calling him the love of my life right up until I just decided I was over it and never want to see him again. It was over for me in a moment aftre years of fighting for it to be okay. I can't really explain it better than that.

Other guys I have left dry-eyed.

It just depends.

I'm completely serious about being her boyfriend whenever i would get the oppotunity for it. I'm just unsure if it ever get's that far. It seems to me that you can't get on quick after a relationshp for 2 years. Especially when you had a two week during fight with your bf.

Time will tell me if she is ment for me..

(i'm not young, i'm 20 😄 )

20 is young, Pigeon. 🙂

Let me tell you a story.

When I left my 5 yr live-in partner, I left with dry eyes. Although I cared about him, I tried to make it work for several months but was completely dissatisfied. Once I ended the relationship, I was so relieved and happy. I was free of something that had been holding me back for so long. Within a month of leaving that relationship, I met my most recent ex, a man who I truly loved with all my heart. We were together on and off, probably for 4 yrs now ... and although I loved him with all my heart ... I decided one day to be over it and was.

Libras have the ability to be through with someone when they are through with them. Because Libra is meant to learn from relationships, we are seldom without one for long. Our basic lesson is to learn to love without losing ourselves and keeping our autonomy.

So if a Libra jumps to you right after a long-term relationship, it does NOT mean you are a rebound. You might be if she is acting crazy and upset all the time. It might mean you just got lucky.

🙂

Thanks for your story. I don't know how Libran she is. maybe she truely loved him. but i can agree with you that over a two-weeks of fighting, i would also be releaved to close a relationship.

Allthou, i don't know how she feels about me. She saw me in the train and i tried to ''wink'' at her .. but she stayed ice cold... like she wasn't open for it.

it could have chanced by now. i surely hope so. because it would be great when she would take the first move. I'm blinded by her beauty and became shy when i see her..

My philosophy is, "I'll show you mine if you show me yours!!"

i don't get that one...

explain please..

I don't think it's a good idea to unzip my pants in a train in front of her.

thanks for your anti shyness advice.. but it's not my style to talk shit and ask her out in such way you exampled...