I Found This Question On Libra Forum

I personally believe the whole cheating idea is based on the individual, not sun sign. I know serial daters and cheaters from every sun sign. I wouldn't pin that personality trait on just a Libra. I for one, when I was a single libra, has had several partners, which I am free to do, but in a committed relationship, I've never cheated. That's the honest truth. Every woman I've been in a relationship with has always accused me of it, but no truth was behind it. Libras love wooing the opposite sex and giving them all sorts of sexual pleasure, but when the "true" Libra commit, there's no cheating. Personally, the thought of all that drama sickens me. Of course, these statements are based opon my own personal experiences.

***Every woman I've been in a relationship with has always accused me of it, but no truth was behind it. ****


Except this scorp ofcourse. As I am very familiar with the Libran way... 🙂

Yes you are my dear love.

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QS nad LP..stop being so cute 🙂

Its enough to make a Libra jealous!!

tiki33,

Let me elaborate. I don't really know why I was accused of being a cheater. I've asked the ladies and could get no valid explanation. I was once told that I was too nice and kind to women. I was told I smiled too much. These things were looked at as flirting, when I was just being a kind human. I see it as being impossible to lead someone into thinking that I was cheating, when the fact was that I wasn't. I don't talk to other women or hang out with them when I'm in a relationship (other than relatives). The love of wooing the opposite sex is for the single Libra...nuff said. Do Libra's tell half truths? I don't know. I've found the whole truth is much more effective. I find more harmony and balance in getting my true feelings told to the other person, so they know where I stand. If someone has feelings for you, and you don't have feelings for that person, hurt is inevitable. So, it may as well be handled by the "whole" truth. I don't believe in leading people on or wasting their time. I wouldn't want anyone to do that to me. My experiences have taught me plenty. This is what I think stands me out from the rest. Libras do love sex, but once he finds what he believes to be his perfect partner, that's all he needs. Again, this is based on myself and the few Libra friends I know. My best friend is a Libra. No, you didn't offend me or overstep boundaries. I'm glad to share my thoughts.

There is one Libra trait that I find where most would not agree to. A Libra will sometime charm a member of the opposite sex just to see if he still has it. For me, nothing comes of it. Its just play. However, you may attach this trait to most men in general.

I would like to add that I love my scorpio woman. I'd never cheat on her and we're not even in the same city. I see love quite different than most. It means so much more to me than physical pleasure from someone you're not in love with.

I don't think there is anything wrong with dating a lot. How else do you know what you want or need? At this point, I know exactly what I am looking for. I am shopping around for the right person *For ME*.

I don't date someone just to date them or because I am afraid of being lonely or anything like that. I refuse to use anyone or comit to anyone who I could not truly comit too.

I am looking for my forever partner. That takes a bit of time and I only date people with whom I see that possibility.

I am a hell of a lot of Libra. 5 planets of it: Sun, Venus, Mars, Uranus, and Pluto.

I have only cheated once and I don't feel bad about it at all. It was under exceptional circumstances. He is the only guy who has the right to complain about me as a partner and oddly, the only romantic partner who I have never missed or am interested in any sort of friendship/communication with. I was in no condition to be dating and he knew it but would NOT leave me alone. I think of him as a vulture who wanted to get fat on the emotionally ruined.

BTW .... this is the first time in my life that I am dating. I just went 9-10 yrs with two men.

It has been both frustrating and elightening. I refuse to settle because I know the type of person I would make happy and who would make me happy. I sincerely believe I could not have figured it out without meeting many different types of people.

Tiki33. Here are my responses and comments to what "my man" LP said... I have been involved with 5 Librans including him and this is what I have found:


***I was once told that I was too nice and kind to women. I was told I smiled too much. These things were looked at as flirting, when I was just being a kind human.***

Libran men are very kind to people in general (sometimes to a fault, where some people try to take them for granted), never let their kindness be taken for weakness though. Also, Libran men have a great understanding of the females in general so, they tend to attract quite a few and honestly, most/some of the females are just that friends. Not to say they might not have a FWB or two in that bunch - when they are single that its. Because of this they are often mistaken as premiscuous, or whores etc. Most times that isn't the case - it took me a libra or two to finally understand that.

It really takes a woman who is confident in themselves and can give a Libra man. To capture his heart is to make him feel you understand and trust him, which will be like a halo over his head so if he thought about cheating, the fact that he knows "you trust him and believe in him" will fill him with horrible guilt and he won't act on it. They hate hurting people, especially people they love.


***Do Libra's tell half truths? I don't know. I've found the whole truth is much more effective. I find more harmony and balance in getting my true feelings told to the other person, so they know where I stand.***

Depending on the Libra, by LP having a rising sign in Scorpio - being honest and straight forward is second nature to him. However, I have found that other Libra men, don't necessarily lie, but might leave out a couple key points, defer the conversation or not answer specific questions to avoid conflict. One, admitted he lied to his ex about a thing or two just to prevent confrontation - again, it depends on the individual - with men and women in general, not Libras specifically.

***Libras do love sex, but once he finds what he believes to be his perfect partner, that's all he needs.***

It really isn't hard to please a Libra (for a scorp anyway)- They are the "aim to please their partner" sign, so as long as you return the favor and give them a chance to show you they can be trusted, plenty of sex, and minimal drama, they will love you forever.

***I would like to add that I love my scorpio woman. I'd never cheat on her and we're not even in the same city. I see love quite different than most. It means so much more to me than physical pleasure from someone you're not in love with.**

I totally trust him. Again, I am a confident scorp - very devoted and I expect the same from my partner, most know this and wouldn't want to break that trust... LOL!!! I love him...

Hey! don't forget me! 🙂

I also have a leo moon, Sag rising so if he is a lot of Libra and Fire ... he might be a lot like me. God help you.

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LMAO!!!!!! Oh nooooooooooooo LS!!

***I understand much more than I did before and I trust him and I love him✨**

Make sure he knows it and you assure him of it from time to time.

Even LS, knows when she found her forever home, she is there... So even if he is like LS, if you are his forever home - no worries. Right LS—

True! I don't comit to anything I cannot be loyal too. It is just finding my forever home that is taking a bit of time this time. 🙂

LS said: "I also have a leo moon, Sag rising "

Me too. Caliente!

I'm a serial dater I don't see dating multiple people as cheating... dating is dating,playing,having fun,entertaining myself,expanding my circle of aquaintances...maybe that does sound harsh, but I figure I'm single until I meet someone who can make the kind of commitment where we start planing our lives so that we are going in the same direction together because we know for sure we are really to love one another... which will eventually lead to engagement and marriage... To take someone seriously who is not ready for that kind of involvement would be a waste of my precious precious time... Now once I'm commited to a person I forget all the others... It's all about you baby!!! Muah.