I just loveeeeeeeee the silent treatment.

I'm not going to go into dept about what the argument was about but clearly I must have pissed him off and he feels the need to have given me the silent treatment for exactly a week now. I tried apologizing, calling, texting a billion times and not a single word has come from him. I recently found out Monday that my father is sick and is scheduled in August to have a tumor removed from his left lung so I've been nothing but hysterical and tried reaching out to Libra for support and a shoulder to cry on and nothing. I understand he's angry and hurt by a stupid mistake but I feel everytime he does something he always switches it so it's my fault and I'm the one apologizing. And even when he does do something wrong I always manage to forgive him. The last time this happened as I've posted before on a different situation, he at least had the decency to say it's over..we need to take a break..it's over..WHATEVER and I tried fixing things for a few days after with no luck and than texted him three days after leaving him alone and he acted as if nothing had happened and told me to call him. I just wish I knew what to think/do. If it's over, why not just say it's over? How cold of a soul could you be to treat someone like this, let alone with everything I'm going through? I'm driving myself up a wall as it is with everything going on with my father and the one person I should be able to lean on for support isn't talking to me.

first off, I'm sorry about your father, and best of luck to him & his recovery... *huge hug*

and now about the guy... I was in a simillar situation. my father was in the hospital and I just needed someone
but my libra wasn't there for me.. he was out partying :/
and yeah I've noticed they tend to come back acting as though nothing is wrong, and acting as if they totally haven't been ignoring you.

Well I guess not because someone asked him how I was doing and my father and he said I don't know nor care its over. Well at least he had the decency to tell someone cause he couldn't simply call me or text me.

Am sorry about ur dad...hope he pulls through.
Am abit confused,did the libra tell you it was over or did he tell someone else its over between you two.
A wk silent treatment is nothing in a libras book. For us it seems like ages,for a libra i suspect its only a matter of seconds.
The argument must have been major,trust me i have gone through various silent treatment with mr libra and he always come back. However our last bust up,was after i stood him up-we have communicated a few times afterwards but just on a professional level nothing personal.
He wont respond to anything personal-at first i felt bad and text him to apologised and but now am like leave it,i cant get water from the moon. And one can only say sorry so many times.
With libras i think you best to leave them,until they come around-just dont spend your time pining over him. No man is worth 100% of your time.
Dont make him your priority if he only see you as a option. My advise would be to spend time with your family and concentrate on you and your dad.
The libra will come around in the end if he wants you and what you had before. Its in their nature to blow cold,just get on with your life and act as thou he doesnt exist.
Good luck girl.🙂

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Well I guess not because someone asked him how I was doing and my father and he said I don't know nor care its over. Well at least he had the decency to tell someone cause he couldn't simply call me or text me.

sorry to hear that... and i know how bad that sucks I've had to find stuff out about my libra from other people that he should have just come & talked to me about in the first place!

Wow Sound just like my libra guy. Particularly the part about him some how always seeming to make it seem as if YOUR the one wrong in an arguement. Describes my man to a T. In fact, we are in an arguement right now over the dumbest thing!! And i didnt even do NOTHIN!!!!!!!!!!!!! I suggest just ignoring him as much as he ignores you and then when he finally does answer you (after about three days of the make up) GENTLY explain how you feel. But please be gentel and not agressive at all. God forbid that! (sarcasm) He'll definitley take it as if you "attacking" him.

Ugh sorry for all the typos..

Ugh sorry for all the typos..

The snotbag has a scorpio moon and since I'm a scorpio, oy.

And yes we've gotten into many fights before, the last time he said it was over, ignored me for three days with my sorries, let's work it out etc and than I started working so I didn't bother him for three days. On the fourth day I texted him and it was as if nothing happened. He spoke to me and we hung out and everything was dandy. Now a month later here we go again. At least last time he had the decency to say it was over. I've spent the past week calling and texting just apologizing and needing to know for my own sanity. I know, bad dee, bad put the phone down. Tomorrow though I'm not gonna bother, no more texting no more calling. Hopefully I hear from him. He's in FLA right now for his dads 70th so I know I won't this weekend. I did kind of go over board psychoticly crazy on him which caused this fight bc there was another girl, he was acting shady and I just put two and two together in a drunken state of mind and jumped out the window with assumptions and accusations. I fully take blame for my actions but how cold could one be after so many apologizes and now everything with my dad? (He has a black cloud over his heart on his lung and its about the size of a quarter right now, they wanna remove part of it and do a biopsy but I'm just petrified because his father had cancer, his sister had breast cancer and my dad was never one to take care of his health in the first place). 😢 itd be nice if libra could be here for me since I hadn't slept in three days and am an emotional wreck with everything. (I'm 22 I live with just my dad who barely struggles to put food on the table and he's all I have) sorry to ramble on its just late over in NY and I can't sleeP, as usual.

Oh and he didn't tell me (he snot speaking to me) he told someone he works with who he hardly even speaks to when they asked how I was. He said it was over and made the slitting neck motion with his handsm

Our fights don't happen because of that, that's just the way I reacted towards this one.

Libra not bad or uncaring, they understand life and death go hand in hand and dont want to hurt people by explaining that to them. Live life while you can, but live it expensive!

Its not the silent treatment, but the fact we were patient, understanding and getting trodden on all the time. then when we've had enough, we just dont want to have the blown out confrontation, so just cut all ties and cant be bothered to explain to the idiots we've had enough. Thats the Libra way.

oh thats too bad he's not being supportive It seems like you have your own problems atm so just leave him too it when he wants to talk he'll talk. I think its really as simple as that you cant push anyone to forgive someone for something no matter how trivial it may be it has nothing to do with the sign but libras seem to do this best. and if hes saying its your fault and its not you shouldnt have to take it either. If there all about balance like everyone keeps saying he's sure to figure it out. But if your with someone im assuming you are support is on the main things people need even if there annoyed with someone they should be able to put that problem aside atleast for a minute to console them.

All very good points but I have been nothing good to him, if not too good. I was always there for him no matter what he was going through, took care of him when he was sick, worked around his work schedule so we could be together even though the hours were crazy. Always did little things here and there just so he'd feel appreciated. Not much of this was ever returned of course and I was the one putting more effort into it where I felt he was just along for the ride. Yeah we've had a lot of fights but I feel it's mainly because he would act completely shady and not open up to me either. I'm all for talking out our problems and he would just shut down and say I don't wanna talk about it, or I'm not going to talk about it. Trust me, I have been very good to him and actually feel unappreciated like my efforts were never enough.

So he texts me at 441 in the morning Tuesday saying hey, just got back. wasnt up for talking before/during the trip. i will give you a call at some point tomorrow. so i called him and said you know you just woke me up etc etc and he was telling me about his trip and acting like everything was fine and said hed call me later on. so i texted him when i was in the city dress shopping and asked if he was still coming to the wedding so i had an idea of what shirt he was wearing to match my dress...no answer. went to the yankee game and than was in his neighborhood at dollar beers and figured id text him to see if he was up for hanging, no answer. called..once again being ignored. said alright going home have a good night xo. than i walk over to his room mate who happened to be there and hes like oh i thought you left and i saw on his phone that they were having a convo and it said ill let you know when the bitch leaves. so i texted him and said nice convo with **** sick, i feel really hurt and betrayed right now, i missed you and thought we were cool again but after seeing that im hurt. of course doesnt answer. i dont get it.

WTF— No seriously this guy deserves a slap. Hun follow the advice of everyone and leave the idiot alone-ur worth so much more.
Communicating with his mate about you like that,is seriously fcuked up. He seems immature,selfish and a clown.
Ok from reading your thread my only criticism of you-would be you text/contact him too much. Yes i understand he hurt you and as a scorpio it is your need to find out/know that cause you to cling.
However as a scorp you can also be dertermined and shrewd-use that determination and leave the jackass behind.
He his seriously playing head games-ok he said he was "DONE",if he seriously means it then he should just leave you alone. Dont answer your callsa or make plans to see you etc.
He knows you really like/love him and he is using you to boost his ego.
Rise above this muppet....dont let him constantly throd over your wounded heart.
Come on you know you can.🙂

It doesnt matter whether he was or not. She needs to leave this idiot alone.
By playing headgames i meant they communicated after his trip. He acted as though all was good and then proceeded to ignore her. To add salt to the wound he was chatting about her to his mate.
As i said she should leave him alone and he needs to leave it. Dont be nice because he his encouraging more communication. Simple!!

You already know where *I* stand on this, n0vbaby. ((hugs))

He's a confused Libra (douche) going back and forth, and you're a sweet and crazy Scorp girl in love with him. You KNOW what to do. Now DO it! Take all that strength and determination (and love and patience and compassion) you've been wasting on him and use it on someone more deserving - YOURSELF!

"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option."
If you want better treatment, you'll have to insist on it - by not accepting bad treatment.

You've BOTH made mistakes in this, his are no bigger than most guys' inconsistent douche-y moves with a woman he can't/won't fully commit to (aka, he ain't special!), and your biggest is accepting his crumbs of affection while ignoring your intuitions and stuffing down your "negative" feelings until you BLOW (Scorp- style explosions, woo!)

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"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option."

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I know exactly where you stand on it and it's been 30 something hours since I've last attempted to contact him. Had someone else take me to the doctors appointment at the last minute that he was suppose to take me, thank god. It just baffles me still that he contacted me and acted like everything was all roses and dandies Tuesday morning, I'll call you tomorrow and hey now I'm gonna ignore you again. For what? What was the point of even initiating contact? If there were anymore walls left for him to drive me up, I'd be going up and down them at this point. I wish I could just stop loving someone and forget he never existed but I can't so now I just wait =\

"I wish I could just stop loving someone and forget he never existed but I can't so now I just wait "
For crying out loud hun,no no no no no no. You need to let go. Once you have,you might get to see the woods for the trees.
Your self esteem is @ a all time low and i feel sad for you. However you are allowing him to walk over you!!
I would never suggest rebound but you need something are someone to take your mind off this clown.

Posted by LadyLibra12
And, further, a Libra *would* be supportive *if* you two were on good terms. We are not usually malicious unless we have given a lot and have received either nothing in return or else nothing *good* in return. We expect to be appreciated because we appreciate others. Remember, Libras are all about balance: we need our friends to meet us halfway if things are going to work.

I don't know about other Libras, but me, when a friend has betrayed me and reached the limit with me, I consider the 'unwritten contract' of friendship to be null and void. After a friend hits that point with me, I no longer have any obligations to him or her and all bets are off. It doesn't really matter to me what is going on with them: if they have betrayed me, I'm long gone by then.

QUOTED FOR TRUTH 🙂
libra rising/moon here

He has a Scorpio moon. Ugh!

...And he's back...

Posted by nOvbaby
...And he's back...

You've made ur bed,so lie in it. Ur allowing this roller coaster to continue.
Goodluck!

The beds not bad, he even admitted to loving me so well see what happens. I'm being more laid back and giving him much more space so well see what happens but we are together again and so far so good. He took care of me the past two and a half days while I was sick and it was nice. Just watched movies and made a sick team in Super Mario Bros for the wii. I feel more, idk at ease now that he said he does love me and called me beautiful for the first time in god knows how long. Maybe the first time ever. I've gotten compliments before but never beautiful or gorgeous, feels good.

libragal, is your name holly?

Posted by nOvbaby
The beds not bad, he even admitted to loving me so well see what happens. I'm being more laid back and giving him much more space so well see what happens but we are together again and so far so good. He took care of me the past two and a half days while I was sick and it was nice. Just watched movies and made a sick team in Super Mario Bros for the wii. I feel more, idk at ease now that he said he does love me and called me beautiful for the first time in god knows how long. Maybe the first time ever. I've gotten compliments before but never beautiful or gorgeous, feels good.

Awwww just read ur last update....hope everything is going well. However just be careful i dont want to see u checking into heartbreak hotel again.
Libra male n scorp females will always have a bittersweet attraction. However 2nd time round maybe better.
Goodluck chick.

I totaly agree with everything femmescorp has said..I have a lot of exp. With libra males..I am a capricorn..we also have bittersweet relationships..they'll give u a cold shoulder..and then once ur not tryn to contact them or ignore them..they do everythng in their power verbally and physically to make u come back..very indecisive ..just never give him ur power.. stay strong ,and stay being urself and u will be fine..I hope ur dads okay!!

And in my case their timing is always bad..im the type of person ..when im done..IM DONE!!! Don't get me wrong they(librans) can be very sweet ppl tht tends to grow on u ..and u don't wanna lose wht u have 2gether..but who is really gonna wait 4ever for 1 to make his or her mind up..so then when ur tired of waiting n u move on with ur life..now all of a sudden..they realize tht u are the 1 for them..but now its 2 late.. So Sad!!!

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Posted by nOvbaby
The beds not bad, he even admitted to loving me so well see what happens. I'm being more laid back and giving him much more space so well see what happens but we are together again and so far so good. He took care of me the past two and a half days while I was sick and it was nice. Just watched movies and made a sick team in Super Mario Bros for the wii. I feel more, idk at ease now that he said he does love me and called me beautiful for the first time in god knows how long. Maybe the first time ever. I've gotten compliments before but never beautiful or gorgeous, feels good.

Awwww just read ur last update....hope everything is going well. However just be careful i dont want to see u checking into heartbreak hotel again.
Libra male n scorp females will always have a bittersweet attraction. However 2nd time round maybe better.
Goodluck chick.

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Thank you, we're still doing well. Went to a wedding this past weekend and been spending a lot of time together. Hopefully it stays this way!

Posted by MsKnowItAll
I totaly agree with everything femmescorp has said..I have a lot of exp. With libra males..I am a capricorn..we also have bittersweet relationships..they'll give u a cold shoulder..and then once ur not tryn to contact them or ignore them..they do everythng in their power verbally and physically to make u come back..very indecisive ..just never give him ur power.. stay strong ,and stay being urself and u will be fine..I hope ur dads okay!!

I've noticed this with him! No updates with dad yet, he's going to the doctor again on the 15th =[