I lead a libra on .. but now I want to be friends?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by AiryBri on Thursday, May 12, 2011 and has 3 replies.

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@AiryBri
16 YearsAries

First off he's like 7 years older then me. I was attracted to him at first and was leading him on, this was a few weeks ago. Then over night we were with each other all the time hanging out. One night he made a move, threw himself at me really lol. We kissed but I didn't feel any chemistry in the kiss, and we stopped at that, I went home. We hung out the next day, we did a lot of driving and talked a lot, but I didn't really make it clear enough that I wasn't interested in "something more", anymore. We didn't talk about the kiss at all.

Now we are hardly hanging out (circumstances, mostly, I've been really busy. But he probably thinks I'm avoiding him). He wanted to hang out tonight but I don't want to lead him on any more so I said "no" without an excuse. I don't feel attracted to him at all anymore, but he still likes me. I really want to stay friends with him though. How do I make that clear?

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@libra08
15 Years1,000+ Posts

just tell him straight up im sure he would forget about it after a week or so besides there are other girls out there to get him going 🙂