It's a Boy!

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Angeleyes had her 14 week ultrasound apointment today. This appointment is for taking measurments of cirtain areas of the brain to check for things like down syndrome.

Usually around 20 weeks you can see the sex organs well enough to determine the sex. He is showing his off already, not only does that make it clear were having a son! But also that he is in fact my son 😉

They changed the due date today from Nov 26th to Nov 19th. Looks like were having a Scorpio boy.
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We weren't planning on having one again so soon. But we are glad we are. Being close together in age will be nice. By the time the last one turns 18 and leaves the house we will only be 45 (me) and 41(her) so we will still be young and full of energy.

I also think that younger parents relate to their children better than older parents. They will be able to grow up watching us build our lives rather than coming into our lives with with everything already set up. I like that, it makes them more involved and gives them better perspective. Our four year old goes with me to market my business and helps Angel with hers, she gets to see how things work and when we are sucessful and when we aren't.
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Posted by little_sparrow
Yay! Another water sign huh? You guys are screwed!!! jk. Congratulations. 😄




Are we screwed or are they screwed 😉 That's what I am wondering lol.

All of the kids are going to have a good sense of humor that is for sure. Besides the dynamic between the signs Angel and I both have a twisted sense of humor and we are always messing with each other. The kids laugh a lot.

The oldest (Leo) has a lot of energy and curiosity, she can't stand being alone and is always finding ways to keep someones attention. She is also very sensitive both in how she is treated and in how others are feeling. She has the ring leader personality.

The 11 mo (cancer) is perpetually smiling, she is the calmest, happiest baby I have ever seen. She is a lot less dependent on getting attention through others but always attracts it anyway because she is a total goofball. She already has a really offbeat sense of humor and a lot of self awareness. She already stands up for herself with other kids but doesn't pick on anybody.

I am stoked to have two girls and a son, I thinkt that is the best combination for me. I have always had strong intuition about how girls should be raised and how a dad should raise girls. Something that has always bothered me about our society....we screw girls up.


The son gives me the opportunity to show him what Crouse men are made of. The men from that side of my heritage where bad family men and while very talented also very unable to capitalize on those talents. I get to change that and pass it on. I also get to raise a boy who will understand the value of the fairer sex and treat women right.
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Posted by little_sparrow
Yay! Another water sign huh? You guys are screwed!!! jk. Congratulations. 😄




Are we screwed or are they screwed 😉 That's what I am wondering lol.

All of the kids are going to have a good sense of humor that is for sure. Besides the dynamic between the signs Angel and I both have a twisted sense of humor and we are always messing with each other. The kids laugh a lot.

The oldest (Leo) has a lot of energy and curiosity, she can't stand being alone and is always finding ways to keep someones attention. She is also very sensitive both in how she is treated and in how others are feeling. She has the ring leader personality.

The 11 mo (cancer) is perpetually smiling, she is the calmest, happiest baby I have ever seen. She is a lot less dependent on getting attention through others but always attracts it anyway because she is a total goofball. She already has a really offbeat sense of humor and a lot of self awareness. She already stands up for herself with other kids but doesn't pick on anybody.

I am stoked to have two girls and a son, I thinkt that is the best combination for me. I have always had strong intuition about how girls should be raised and how a dad should raise girls. Something that has always bothered me about our society....we screw girls up.


The son gives me the opportunity to show him what Crouse men are made of. The men from that side of my heritage where bad family men and while very talented also very unable to capitalize on those talents. I get to change that and pass it on. I also get to raise a boy who will understand the value of the fairer sex and treat women right.
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Very good ideals for your family.
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I do have very strong family ideals and relationship ideals and I don't let ANYTHING get between them, me and my family. One thing my family will always be able to count on with me is that they will have someone to teach them and to protect them. Even if I am struggling in other areas my family will not struggle with each other.

Like my sun and moon are both in the fifth house, my mars and venus are also in the same house....the 4th. That is probably where that comes from.

Those two area's relationships and family are definately the two that I don't have any conflicting feelings about and is definately the strongest aspect of my personality.

Angel luckily is the same way when it comes to partner and family which makes our home life flow really easily. When it comes to outside influence on our kids what we say goes...period. We know better 😉

We even hold her ex and his wife accountable to our beliefs when they have our oldest. They actually just had an intense custody battle regarding her. He had a lawyer, more money to throw at it and a huge support group backing him up. Angel and I fought it ourselves....and won 🙂 She is a very, very strong woman and fiercly moral and idealistic when it comes to her children.
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^ I think you guys mature very fast and have the right thinking. But you don't need anyone else to tell you that.
I always adore Libra/Libra couples because I know this is the best match.
I would think Libra/Libra would tend to have fire sign babies but it seems you're having water signs.

Wow 'grats on the custody case too! I would say that Libra rules the law and its hard to beat them at law but I may be a bit biased 😉