Leo Needs advice about Libra girl

Ok so me and this libra have been talking for about 11 months now and we've have a physical and emotional bond with one another but we haven't decided to give each other a title or anything like that. So a couple of days ago libra went to a party and was drinking, having a good time and everything. Later on that night she came to me and told me that she kissed somebody while she was at the party. I know we're not officially together but of course I was still pretty pissed about it because I do have feelings for this girl. So she was apologizing saying she didn't know what she was thinking, that she regrets doing it and that she feels horrible. 2-3 days later we talked about it again and decided that maybe we could continue to be friends. But now it kinda seems like shes become a bit distant for some reason, what should I do just let it be?

I'm not a Libra but has she been hinting at or outright asking for a commitment...a formal one?

No not really...unless im missing something

Well when I first met her she was just ending a relationship with someone else so we became friends. Then overtime we started to become a bit closer. And I actually have asked her before and she said she wasn't ready. Ever since then I haven't asked again because I don't wanna have her confused about if she's really ready to be in another relationship. And yeah I do like her enough to wanna be with her but I just don't want to end up wasting my time.

I completely agree with Sugarfoot. She was gauging your feelings because she is unsure of where you stand. She may also be feeling a bit foolish about kissing the other guy especially after she communicated it to you and the reaction she received was that you want to be friends. If you want more with her, tell her what you want. Talk to her. Libras are communicators and we are very analytical.

Posted by august1688
Well when I first met her she was just ending a relationship with someone else so we became friends. Then overtime we started to become a bit closer. And I actually have asked her before and she said she wasn't ready. Ever since then I haven't asked again because I don't wanna have her confused about if she's really ready to be in another relationship. And yeah I do like her enough to wanna be with her but I just don't want to end up wasting my time.

The ladies have laid it out for you. I know a few Leo males and they're not shy about commitment or asking for one. Perhaps you're not sure about her yourself or whether you want a commitment or you would've asked by now. Its ironic because by waiting you actually wasted your time to some extend. Focus on the present and where you are with her now. If you two can come to an understanding you can get past this. Look at her telling as a gauge but also as her being honest as she obviously cares. Not a lot of people would've told you that.