Libra--Gemini's Soul Mate?

GeminiGirl: This is a painful situation, even just reading it makes my heart ache for you. I know you are looking for insight, but sometimes, there isn't anything to provide. I can't say why he isn't calling or if anything went wrong. What I do know, from my own tremolous experiences, is that men have all sorts of reasons they connect with women, and all sorts of reasons they don't return to what seemed to be a great situation.

I'm a libra woman, but seeing what some people post here about Libra men, unfortunately, your story isn't all that different from a lot of women's. I don't know why, but it seems that libra men fall hard and fast and withdraw quickly---like the wind.

Don't contact him anymore.

^^^^^OOOOPPPPSSSS!!!!^^^^^ I had to hide the boo-boo🙂



Oh GemGurl,

It seems you had a good time, hit it off and he has backed completely off. Insight, the Libra I have expeirence with is a grown man, and he called me everyday and at least text me. IDK what to tell ya babe, looks like this man is doing him and you need to do you and his *poof* is probably a sign, his friends laughter another.
No one likes to be treated like this, so why tolerate it? Cause he was "so good" well he ain't so good right now, he is being a insensitive selfish jerk. He could at least call and say "hey, we met, we bumped ugly's, and I had a good time, but that is all it was, a good time" but no, he disregards you instead. This is but a first encounter and maybe he got spooked, i somehow doubt it, but possible, i say let it go, move on and go about your business.
I ran across this earlier today, maybe you can relate, IDK, I did and I am 41!
http://www.girlsteachguys.com/PlayVideo.aspx?ContentID=325<BR>
GOOD LUCK with this and getting over the best hit and run you ever had! 😉

Sounds like my kind of man .... I knew I loved Libra men 🙂

My best lover EVER was a Libra .. sounds like you hooked up with one similar to mine >>>>>> smoking hot in bed.


Life is about experiencing with other people .. not ownership of them.


Connect all the way down to the soul, experience what this other person has to share with you ... and then swim away, carrying it forward with you, with a smile on your face.

In the end, you only have your memories to cherish ... what will you remember?

1) The time of your life with a man who could rock your world, or
2) Resentment, rejection, a loss, confusion ..... broken


Is it a gain, or a loss?

Your choice as to how you put this experience into perspective for you to either rejoice in being able to live through, or bitterness because it was only for a moment.

To experience life as you had done with this man is never a waste.


If joys in life are considered a waste of time ... then your whole life will be wasted, no purpose.

You chased & now he's running! Dont contact him again and he probaly has a girl friend or he's involved and have some making up to do. After all he was missing for 2 days. I'm 100% sure his friends told him that you called.

I dont wanna judge you, but sex on the first date was literally the nail in the coffin. If you ever run into him again cuz I'm sure you will DO NOT HAVE SEX with him.

sounds like he didnt have the $ 5oo he normally pays the other girls and than realized he just got it for free. Bonus.

that, or guys and wild monkey sex all over someone's house you dont know are dreamt out of imaginations and they, nor Santa Claus, can really call you back.

that's my take- take your pick.

harsh moonmadness!

The guy is gone. I think you, GeminiGurl have your head on right about it, though I would like to see you stop asking yourself these questions: "I would like to understand more of the 'balance' a man under this astrological sign--Libra weighs out. What is it that he's 'indecisive' about? Is he wrapped up in his own 23 year old existence of being broke (he mentioned he's in between jobs), spending 24/7 with his best friends in a circle chugging beer and thinking back on h/s days? Is he so comfortable/unchallenged in his habitat/life style that he's reluctant to include somebody new/different because that would require actual effort on his part? "

because they don't matter. They will go unanswered, and even if you got the answers, they would be dissatisfying. Go with your heart, always. You did what you FELT was right, and sometimes that is EXACTLY what a person needs to do. This ultimately isn't about him anymore, he's removed himself from this situation. If you are comfortable with the choice you made to sleep with him (and I would be, whoa, it sounds so hot) then don't look back in regret, don't let people tell you YOU did something wrong.

If he was using you, lying to you, that in no way makes you the one at fault. It is your fault if you continue to let him...again, don't call, don't make any more effort. Your answers are clear: he is not there, you had an amazing experience. and NEVER AGAIN.

sun gem / moon virgo

The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign suggests that you are dominated and motivated by intellectual pursuits. The natural tendency of a Gemini Sun to have a bright outlook and a versatile nature, is shaded by the Virgo Moon. You may become carried away by trifles and petty worries. You are moody and temperamental, with a good deal of self-dramatization and a tendency to feel misunderstood and unappreciated. There is a degree of tension and a nervous energy in your makeup that can be an advantage or a disadvantage, depending on how it is used. You are very alert, and always think things through, even if you don't always see them through to completion. You may often jump from one project to another with lightning speed. Digging deeply into any subject is not your style . You can be critical of people, finding fault in their reasoning, and you are never shy about telling it the way it is. You are thought of as a "straight shooter" and your air of efficiency is impressive. Though your expression may be pointed, it is never vengeful in a heavy emotional way and you are never intentionally mean or unreasonable. You are sociable and entertaining, with a desert-dry sense of humor and wit. It may not seem so, but you are rather serious and if you can force yourself to stick to a job, you can accomplish much, especially if the project involves mental processes. Your mind is sharp as a tack, and you have the logic and facts to back your every move. Unfortunately, you may enjoy explaining your theories and plans more than executing them. Developing the ability to relax and be satisfied in the world as you find it will help you a great deal.

sun libra / moon cancer

The combination of your Libra Sun and Cancer Moon produces an idealist bent on finding romantic adventure. You are a deep feeling and understanding person. The emotional balance, courtesy and friendliness of Libra blends well with the depth of feeling, sensitivity and tenacity of Cancer. There often may be some confusion in your life because what you think and what you "feel" may be at odds. It's very difficult for you to decide what to do. Reality and unreality constantly battle for your attention. Very much the idealistic dreamer, you hold yourself somewhat removed from the rest of society. Yet you do like people. You want and need human contact, and you are so consonant that there is some danger people with take advantage of your malleable manner. You understand the feelings and moods of others, so you're very skilled at avoiding conflicts and clashes of temperament. This position personifies the ideals of any peace movement as you are a true lover of freedom, justice, equality, and independence. By nature so peaceful and tactful, you will avoid argument and strife if you possibly can. You are exceedingly adaptable, taking on the color of your surroundings. You mind your own business and don't impose on the rights of others. You aren't likely to become a fighter for social justice or the rights of the masses because you are not a very assertive person. Your philosophies are pretty much centered in yourself, a live and let live attitude. Refined tastes and a strong aesthetic sense encourage interest in the artistic things in life.

"Maybe, he's upset with himself because he didn't follow through on plans and can't show face yet because he's low on $ ?"

If this was the fact , he would call you and came up with excuses to not have to c u

well all i go to say is i love gemini women my b day oct 18

U should of not have gone so quickly with him.

I never really had experience with Libra men..only that they do get sort of obsessed with me. Might be my Pluto and Mars in Libra.

I don't find myself reciprocating feelings towards them though.

I usually attract Scorpion men.

Either he is dead or he is not a libra or he already have a wife or gf.

Gem-Gurl:

So sorry. Being that I am a Libra, I can honestly say that we don't usually work like this. We LOVE THAT LOVE STUFF, and would more than likely come back for another dose however, removing astrologicality from the scene, lets remember that even in your time of sweet, sex and bliss, this guy was still your mysterious stranger. Who's to say Mr. Libra didn't have a chick at home which is keeping him from calling, or carrying on with you? I hate to say it babes, but even if he did lose his phone you said his friends had your digits and therefore he has access to ALL O YOU, and knows you would want to hear from him. I'm only sure it feels like Mr. Libra put sprinkled a certain magical voo-doo on you, and I'm certain that he romanticized even the lace in your victorias; thats what us Librans do...but sweetie some of what you are feeling is probably a side effect from your bruised ego and thats cool, you are more than allowed to feel yucked out by this situation because as sexy and alluring as Mr. Libra was, he is still a LIBRA ASS and has no right to behave this way. ...Hate this term, but you know it needs to be done...time to move on loves.

If you ever do see him or his friends again, smile it up and act like you don't even know anything happened between you two.

Either he is dead or he is not a libra or he already have a wife or gf.

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DitTO!

REALLY? I am so learning some stuff here...........Libra is confusing me a bit, so i am lurking you guys.........He just had his b-day yesterday, i dont know his chart, i do know, i am confused by what he is communicating and no face to face, he is in another state....