Libra guy misses Aquarius girl bad. Help

I was friends with an aquariums girl last year who had a boyfriend. She left him we went on a few dates but I declined her offers to come home with her as I didn’t think it was a good time. She always reach out to hang out with me and told me things like I looked sexy and whatever else. Sometime went by and I finally told her that I wasn’t interested in friendship anymore and that I couldn’t be friends because I wanted more. She told me that she couldn’t be romantic with anyone because her ex passed away and she needed time. She told her friends that she was really pissed at me and angry with what I said. (We share the same circle of friends). I also found out a few weeks later that she was hooking up with dead boyfriends best friend. Nothing romantic? A few months went by and she started liking my stuff on facebook and making comments on all of my stuff again. I reached out via text to tell her things got fucked up and I knew if it couldn’t be ok but I was sorry and I hoped we could let it pass. She asked to hang out with me sometime (I didn’t understand cause I was already clear with her what I wanted) and we went out for a drink only to have me tell her, once again, I am not interested in being just friends and if you want something more great but if not than you need to move on so I can find someone that is 100% available and all in and I cant do that if I am spending time with you because I have feelings and I need to move on. She told me she had no desire to maintain friendship with anyone only interested in in something romantic. That was in July. She then told all of our mutual friends how much I really hurt her and led some of friends to confront me with calling me names, telling me I “fucked her over”, and even two and three months later asking me why cant we just be friends. A few weeks ago I finally unfriended her on Facebook because once again she started liking my statues, commenting on my comments on mutual friends pages, and commenting on mine. I felt like I had to send Aquarius girl a message hey I am serious. I saw her a few weeks ago with the Exes best friend and I know they are still hooking up but that she tells him she is on the fence about committing. I walked away to get her back. For whatever reason, I miss her a lot today really bad. I am seeing other people and doing my best to move on but for some reason, I think of her often and really do miss our chemistry and our shared interests. Did I fuck this up? Is this over? Each time I have told her, please reach out only if you want to explore something more than friendship.



I had to walk away to get her back in the future. Will Aquarius reach out? This is in her court isn't it? I ddint want to hurt her because I care but I also have to set my boundary as a man with what I want.