libra hermits?

Howdy ya'll. Wondering if I'm a special case or not... Libras are supposed to be social and what not, but a lot of times I feel like being a hermit crab. I feel like I let down my friends when I don't want to go out partying and what not, but I'm just not that type of gal. I know it's ok... but am I missing out? I would much rather... just "be" if that makes any sense. I do feel like a "sasquatch" so to speak, but I just want the people around me to understand I care for them deeply, even if I don't feel like going out and meeting social expectations.
Is that normal?? a libra hermit crab. I guess there may be other things in my chart influencing that feeling!

Read up your chart, you may find something there. Maybe its even how you were socialised growing up. I find that I can be a social butterfly in the right setting. When I am home though, I'm in my own world and dont necessarily want to socialise ...just wanna quietly do my thing till its bedtime. LOL

Posted by Sashimoon
Read up your chart, you may find something there. Maybe its even how you were socialised growing up. I find that I can be a social butterfly in the right setting. When I am home though, I'm in my own world and dont necessarily want to socialise ...just wanna quietly do my thing till its bedtime. LOL

^ I agree on the check your chart suggestion, especially your Moon,Mercury and Ascendant . You might have alot of earth/water in those aspects.

My Libra guy is like this. He likes to just stay home sometimes and relax. Funny that you said just "be" because I used that term one weekend we just hung out and did nothing. He liked that term..LOL. He is social and does get out sometimes but I know during the week he is a homebody. Not sure what his chart says.

I know being a Scorpio I would rather be home than out and about most times.

As outgoing and sociable they say Libras can be I also like my alone time too. So, yes I am a Hermit haha. I need my independence and time to just relax, being busy can be so draining! Even when I'm not very busy, I can go into hermit time..but one thing is for sure, I wont really shut myself out from people like other signs. Heck, if you want to be a hermit with me..netflix it is! haha. Honestly, when I feel unbalanced, that's what I need that time. Libra's can be people pleasers, I know I am. But when I'm home, hmm I must enter my woman cave. =) Just try to compromise and show up sometimes for social things, I do that to get them out of nagging for a while lol. Socializing in one day for me is draining, esp since my career is in healthcare..AND I talk to everyone in general, grocery store, shopping, mailman, etc lol. Whether it's a mere hello, brief convo, or just telling a random stranger to have a nice day haha. The life of a Libra!