Libra male and Scorp Fem

There is this young Libra man who keeps on calling and texting and messaging online. He doesn't take 'NO' for an answer. I keep on telling him... go look elsewhere... leave me alone... Good luck!


What do you know about Libra men and being so persisting? I don't think he is good match for me anyway. Yes he is attractive, but I'm not up for another relationship. Am just wondering about his ways. Am not used to such glue of a guy. Is that normal??

I guess the heading should have been "Is it a norm Libra Male is so insisting?"

It's because they boost their ego. They feel like they are pleasing you and it gives them self-esteem. Mine still does it too. Texting everyday, he always asks me to hang out. I have probably blown him off 9 times in the past two weeks. It's very annoying and I'm tired of pretending like I give a shit. I always act nice and calm to him on the outside, but I'm screaming on the inside.

You wouldn't have posted it here if you weren't subconsciously interested in him. 😛

^Probably true lol

I've seen many kinds of men. This one is peculiar. Am just curious. I already know I will not date him.

My curiousity is due to scorp/libra not a good match, but my zodiac match predicts we are a long-term perfect match. I usually run this test for all men i get involved with and sometimes I do this prematurely just out of curiousity. So far when a prediction was that my relation will be a short-term one and has the tendency to suddenly end, eventhough I didn't believe it would be, it turned out to be so in the end. The guy was the one ending suddenly and unexpectedly.


Now with this Libra man we have an age gap of 18 years. I just find it interesting that he insists so much. I have not seen this intense approach in any man. Where ever I go he finds me. I was wondering if intuitively he feels something that I do not.

So really... it is curiousity, nothing more.

I understand Fum. I have the same type of curiousity. It's a Scorp curse 😉

Anyway, Run. Seriously ignore him and run. My relationship with a Libra guy started out the same way. I didn't even give him my number... he got it from a "friend" of mine. We had't even been formally introduced! He saw me out one night and asked my "friend" about me! When he first texted me I had NO clue who he was. Anyway, the more he text the more confused I became. I was like WTF? Then I became flattered (no point in lying about it). A complete stranger who saw me once and went so far out of the norm to contact me?!?!
Eventually it turned into a relationship because I thought since he went so far out of his way he really liked me.... I was so wrong. This was his "thing". He was smooth I'll admit but it was all a pretty show. He ended up cheating on numerous girls all at the same time... including me.
I'm just telling you my experience but yours sounded so fimiliar that I just want to give you warning. Scorps and Libras aren't the best match anyway. I was way too harsh for him and he was way too passive and a huge liar. Libra have a way of sugar coating the truth to keep the peace. To a scorp it's lying. They are way too grey for us black and white people.

And they lack depth which scorpio possess.

I love your icon gingerscorp🙂

well coming from my hate of scorpio women this guy want stop till he finds someone better looking than you so keep dissing him after about two months he will move on ok miss know it all but dont know nonthing lol

Thanks sag 🙂

"well coming from my hate of scorpio women this guy want stop till he finds someone better looking than you so keep dissing him after about two months he will move on ok miss know it all but dont know nonthing lol"

And this ladies and gentlemen is why Scorps and Libras don't mix. But thanks for once a non sugar coated anwser from a Libra. Holy smokes 😉

Miss Sag was dead on right.

"And this ladies and gentlemen is why Scorps and Libras don't mix. But thanks for once a non sugar coated anwser from a Libra. Holy smokes " Ahahahaha! I'm sure they don't like you either vsop🙂

Thank scorp🙂

wow but you know whats funny my mom is a scorpio and we cannot hold a conversation without me getting irritated

Thanks for all the answers everyone. It really helped.

I told him yesterday to stop insisting and he disappeared on me. So for now it seems to have worked.

He wouldn't understand *I'm sorry but no thank you*

He continued... "Why why why why why..." he just wouldn't let loose, but I think he got my final message. For now he is off my case.

So really, I appreciate your answers. I guess I had to be more firm with him, but he looked pretty upset 😢 (awwwww.... oh well....)

next time curse him out and tell him hes not attractive to you and he will never bother you again i promise

*sigh*

Libras have a depth of THOUGHT not a depth of emotion. Yeesh.

As an outsider, watching a very close Scorp friend deal with a Libra man ? I think in the end you will never feel loved, not the way you want to be. You will never feel known or understood, because he will be unable to provide the love you want.

I don't really sugar-coat things. Even when I am blunt, people assume the opposite. It is VERY annoying.

"Libras have a depth of THOUGHT not a depth of emotion." Ahh. That make sense. No one has ever put it like that. Could you explain how that works into a relationship. Like what are the needs to balance both?

? Could you explain how that works into a relationship. Like what are the needs to balance both?

I am not entirely sure what you mean, but I'll try.

HAve you ever read Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus? One of the things I am learning, about myself, is I have to do what I think the author called rubber banding. Run as far as I can away, then bounce back. So I will play with leaving the relationship and see how it feels, and if it is scary, I recommit and come running back.

(This is a pattern I have just rediscovered and I don't know how true it is as it is a very recent thing for me to discover but I can see the pattern across my life.)

Libra is NOT a balanced sign. It is a balancing sign. It has to play opposites against each other to figure things out. This is a mental act. Not an emotional act. That is why libras have intellectual depth. We come to conclusions by balancing this argument against that argument. That is why we are undecided on a lot of things. We understand the value of BOTH arguments. It is also why it is almost impossible to win an argument against us, unless we pretend to give up. Chances are we know your agrument better than you do.

The lesson of Libra is if you choose THIS, you cannot have THAT. (which is quite profound.)

As for emotion, Libras aren't that comfortable with a lot of emotion. If you throw a lot of emotion at us, we get very pained looks on our faces and are somewhat embarrassed for you (and ourselves) for being in the situation.

I use to work with a department of libras and one girl's dad died. We all had these big saucer sympathetic looks on our faces and none of us knew what to do. We all felt bad for her but were really uncomfortable. I took charge of everything got us a cab, took her home, waited with her for her husband to get there, made her tea, got her a train ticket, and entertained her, distracting her from the situation. (which she greatly appreciated after.)

Libras aren't that comfortable being emotional. We aren't an emotional sign. And trust me, you don't want us emotional. Libra becomes very unbalanced when it becomes emotional because it loses all it's objectivity.

Libra is the scales of justice because of it objectivity. That is not to say that Libra never feels anything. It is just that we aren't wired to really get deep into emotions. We are wired to see and weigh everything objectively. Emotion makes us lose that objectivity.

I see. That makes some sense. Yeah, I've seen some libra's when they have been unbalanced and emotional and it seems like they have no idea how to handle it. I remember my best pisces friend, her boyfriend is a libra and he found out that she had done some sexual thing with her ex when they were dating (it came up some how) and he flipped out and like punched a wall and was mad at it for days. I remember her telling me. But than he was fine. I don't think he looked at it objectivly in the moment and it got the best of him. I guess you guys really need to have that. I try hard not throw mine off of balance. Which isn't too hard cause sags are friendly and thinkers.

And It's funny causes sags always seems to have to rationalize their feelings. We are emotional but we think into the feelings too much, saying this caused me to feel this because of that. Instead of just accepting a feeling is their and enjoying it, we over think about it. Too philosophical I guess🙂 But it's been nice cause sometimes I have had libras be able to slow that thinking down for me and keep the thoughts even. I think sags can really appreciate libras minds. But sags also need depth and sometimes libras are more surface like. Not bad, just how it can be.

* sags always seems to have to rationalize their feelings. We are emotional but we think into the feelings too much, saying this caused me to feel this because of that. Instead of just accepting a feeling is their and enjoying it, we over think about it. Too philosophical I guess

I think this is why fire and air have more sympathy for each other. There is just a natural understanding because we process emotion in a similar way.

I suspect water and earth just get into the feelings more or process things differently.

I could be completely wrong about that. lol! But that is my suspicion.

^No that makes a lot of sense. I agree.